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    Posts made by cteavin

    • Man arrested for touching another man in Saudi Arabia

      With all the talk about sexual harassment/rape what happened to this man is really interesting to me.

      1. He was drinking in a country where alcohol is forbidden.

      2. He touched a man on the hip – who decided to bring the police into the situation isn't stated.

      3. He's already been condemned by the people.

      I think most people will look at this and (correctly) see how ridiculous this all is. At the same time, Western people are quick to attack each other for using the wrong pronoun, culturally appropriating something, or just saying that they've been made uncomfortable for something appearing sexual (not that we need proof anymore).

      It's easy to point a knowing finger at Saudia Arabia but we've become more like them that we're willing to admit.

      Thoughts?

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • Cultural appropriation, anybody? This is how to respond.

      http://www.slamonline.com/nba/jeremy-lin-responds-kenyon-martin-dissing-hair/#H7qOerLvhQoBx0xH.97

      I love how some old black ballplayer calls out an Asian man getting dreadlocks only to have the Asian man call out the black guy for wearing Chinese tattoos.

      The exchange is worth reading because the Asian player in being respectful, was heard. (ahem)

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • RE: The Inhumans. Did you watch? What did you think?

      @JohnAllenson:

      I'm watching it later today.

      What have you thought?

      I'm watching it just because I've started it. The first two episodes seemed like there was a story there but now it's just plain ol' bad writing and a rushed production – it's awful, one of the worst things Marvel's produced.

      People have complained about Zac Snyder's vision for the DC extended film universe but there is no comparison to how badly Marvel has been fucking up their TV line with Ironfist, Defenders, and now Inhumans.

      Both Batman V Superman and Suicide Squad suffered because one was edited to be short and the other was edited to look like a commercial. The writing and production values were solid on both. Marvel, though. Damn.

      posted in Theme TV
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    • RE: Is asking a person out on a date who has already said no again sexual harassment

      Bump, as this has gotten buried and I'd like to hear what you have to say.

      @JohnAllenson:

      I feel you're misrepresenting my argument.

      Your original argument was that there is a long history in literature giving positive images of asking a person out after they've said 'no' which implies it's permissable.  I replied that there's a long history in literature of things that we would recognize as rape being romanticized.

      Now you say, I should use examples from the past to justify present behaviour.  Which you were doing.

      I hate to break it to you.  YAOI, Bodice-Rippers, and M/M are still being written.

      You and I are miscommunicating then.

      What I've been trying to say, repeatedly, is that you can't go back in time and lense a story like Beauty & The Beast as supporting rape culture. No. It doesn't work. Those stories were written in a different time which had a different culture from today so if your argument is that there is a long unbroken line of rape culture stretching back millennia, I'm calling bullshit and hypocrisy: If you go that route then the Chrisitan Right and Constitutional Originalists are correct, I don't believe you think that.

      I brought up Yaoi because, unless you're fluent in Japanese as I am (20+ year veteran here), then you're pulling the biggest act of white privilege there is and telling another culture what their stories mean.

      (To be clear, I don't support the idea of White Privilege but they go hand in hand with reinterpreting the past.)

      What I've been saying is that there is an unbroken line from the Troubadours forward that has determined what these stories mean, so that when Disney reimagines B&tB it is connected to the intent of the source material, not the revisionists.

      Given all that, I do enjoy cultural critiques using Feminism and Post-Colonial theories but they can not be used to rewrite history, just give an alternative vision to help us think – that's useful. The problem is that cultural critiques are trying to write legally binding laws.

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • RE: Rape claims

      @aadam101:

      I find it interesting that the women who accused Weinstein are telling the truth but the women who accused Trump were a bunch of liars.  Funny how that works.

      That's because Weinstein has decades of rumor about him and The Casting Couch is actually a thing enshrined in movies.

      Trump said something secretly recorded, part joke, part male bravado, and people wanted to believe it's true. If Trump had actually been grabbing pussies that rumor would have preceded him long, long, long before he got into politics. Then there's that woman who said Trump reached over and grabbed her twat on an airplane. There's nothing credible to the story. We've been told to believe all rape victims and Never Trumpers have resorted to lies an violence to try to get their way.

      That's why accusations against Trump didn't stick but those against Weinstein have gained traction.

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • RE: Order Yours Before They Run Out, Part Two!

      @flozen:

      Well, don't worry too much – apparently, there's a bountiful supply of the original.   :crazy2:

      https://news.artnet.com/art-world/trump-fake-renoir-parker-brothers-masterpiece-1122221

      IF that game is real, I'd actually like to play.

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • RE: If You Found George W. Bush’s Speech Offensive, You’re The Problem, Not Him

      @aadam101:

      For starters he is going to start a war with North Korea.

      TrumpCare premiums are rising 24% in my state next year. TrumpCare is a total disaster!

      Going to is not the same as having actually started two wars, like President Cheney Bush.

      You can't blame Healthcare on Trump, either. Obama passed a piss poor plan expecting Clinton to enter the office and fix it, her plan she outlined during the debates. That didn't happen so they're going ahead with repeal by a different route.

      Bush 43 is still the top contender for worst President ever. Trump, one of the more polarizing.

      @rapjjd, what kind of wiretaps are you talking about with Obama? He had authority via The Patriot Act, which the American people allowed to pass unless you're talking about something else.

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • RE: THIS or THAT: the game

      Not sure which qualify as old: Whichever Teen Titans Go! and Rick and Morty are.

      Ridding on a super packed train at rush hour which is quicker or sitting in traffic on your drive to work?

      posted in Forum Games
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    • RE: "The person below me" game.

      Was a thief – of hearts.

      TPBM just caught the Madonna reference.

      posted in Forum Games
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    • RE: Should I or shouldn't I? (a game)

      I should – I'd love either a cat or a few rats -- but I like my long holidays, which wouldn't be fair to them.

      You should start preparing for Xmas/New Years, already!

      posted in Forum Games
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    • RE: Order yours before they run out!

      @Frederick:

      http://gettrumpybear.com/

      Oh, I was thinking it was another kind of bear…

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • RE: Which one worse for muslims?

      @KissMyAirs:

      People in my country (Turkey) say that gays go to hell, its a sin etc etc.
      But many people raped, murdered in my country also, but no one cared about. Child abuse and baby-rape is becaming more day by day, no one cares! Governments steals from folk and get richer day by day, no one says a shit! But when they see a gay couple, they will never shut up. Its not true, its not natural, bluh bluh. Sometimes, i really think that religion is just a way or illusion for those you want to do or dont want to do.

      Couldn't agree with you more.

      posted in Religion & Philosophy
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    • RE: Should I or shouldn't I? (a game)

      I absolutely should. I was watching a classical music program on tv and they brought on a Japanese singer and sang the theme from Frozen, Let It Go (in Japanese). Now it's stuck in my head. Singing it out loud might be the only way to get it out. 😉

      You have extra dessert today, you deserve it!

      posted in Forum Games
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    • RE: "The person below me" game.

      Nope. But I can't wait till it's cold enough that we need a coat.

      TPBM is sexy and he knows it.

      posted in Forum Games
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    • RE: THIS or THAT: the game

      Yup. Look up basashi.  :cool2:

      Desert. I grew up in the desert in so far as Los Angeles is surrounded by one. I love the ocean, too, but there are too few opportunities to see the glory of a desert sunrise/sunset.

      Cow's milk or soy milk?

      posted in Forum Games
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    • RE: Isn't PROTESTING a VIOLATION of FREEDOM OF SPEECH?

      @raphjd:

      Obama and Co are responsible for most of the mess we are in.   They engaged in blatant race baiting, demonizing their enemies and insane identity politics.

      Here I have to disagree – strongly.

      People are shifting the blame for what they do and how they feel onto a scapegoat. In saying X baited Y, Y took the bait and is equally, if not more, responsible. If we accept and/or engage in demonizing others, in identity politics, then we are to blame. We all have to stop blaming people in positions of power for the messes we wind up in.

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • RE: "The person below me" game.

      With all the wind and rain? Nope.

      TPBM is going to work tomorrow.

      posted in Forum Games
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    • RE: Should I or shouldn't I? (a game)

      No, I shouldn't. Sunlight is bad for your skin.  😉 I wouldn't mind relaxing under an umbrella at Starbucks on a sunny and cold day, though.

      You should take 10/31st off to enjoy Halloween.

      posted in Forum Games
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    • RE: "The person below me" game.

      Well, I don't know what to do next and I don't feel spiritual either. (I'm actually stuck, atm. There's a typhoon coming and there's nothing to do but stay in tonight.)

      TPBM loves a rainy night.

      posted in Forum Games
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    • RE: THIS or THAT: the game

      Hmmm, both are delicious. But I think I'd prefer horse.

      Poultry or fish?

      posted in Forum Games
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