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    Posts made by cteavin

    • RE: Gays in politics

      @Eridanos:

      @cteavin:

      I think we need fewer career politicians. I also think we need people in charge who run on qualifications and not personality.

      I fail to understand this. Aren't career politicians those who study politics and hence have the qualifications? Asking because in my country most of the new 'politicians' know zip about politics or economics, they're mostly celebrities or sons/daughters of politicians (but didn't study politics themselves)

      That is one side to career politicians, that some have studied politics formally. The problem is that you get people in office who are trying to protect their jobs rather than do what's right or what they promised. One way to do keep their jobs is to build alliances with special interest groups and their lobbyists. Ask the NRA has that works for them.

      A non-career politician might get into public office to effect some changes, like promote healthcare or fix the tax problem. They can make unpopular decisions because they're not looking to hold the office for thirty years. To that, incumbents have a higher chance of winning simply because their name is known, not because they have better ideas. A body of politicians that rotate in and out of public service engages more people to become active in politics, imho.

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • Scotland apologizes to gay men for historical convictions – thoughts?

      I don't know how I feel about this. The state did this but an individual is apologizing. It feels strange. The people who enforced the policy aren't apologizing. Neither are the people who enacted the initial legislation. Is this just more PC or it this necessary?

      https://ca.news.yahoo.com/scotland-apologizes-gay-men-historical-convictions-153855710.html

      EDINBURGH (Reuters) - Scotland's devolved government issued an apology on Tuesday to men convicted in the past for same-sex activity and passed a new law which will allow them to clear their names.

      "It is only right that we address this historic wrong," First Minister Nicola Sturgeon told the Scottish parliament.

      "Discriminatory laws, although abolished, continue to have implications for people to this day," she added. "The wrong has been committed by the state to them, not by the individuals."

      She added: "I categorically, unequivocally and wholeheartedly apologize for those laws and for the hurt and the harm they did to so many."

      Watching from the gallery, same-sex couples wept, held hands and applauded.

      Consensual homosexual acts between men aged over 21 in Scotland were decriminalized in 1981.

      "(The) apology will give a great deal of comfort to many who were unjustly prosecuted and will help draw a line, once and for all, under a dark period in Scotland's history," gay rights group Stonewall said in a statement.

      The legislation "acknowledges the wrongfulness and discriminatory effect of past convictions for certain historical sexual offences" by pardoning people convicted of those offences and providing a legal process for convictions to be disregarded.

      In January, the UK government passed a similar law relating to England and Wales.

      (Reporting by Elisabeth O'Leary; editing by Stephen Addison)

      posted in Gay News
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    • RE: Gays in politics

      @Mcjl:

      Does anyone think that we need MORE of us making decisions

      No.

      I think we need fewer career politicians. I also think we need people in charge who run on qualifications and not personality.

      We also need an educated electorate.

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • RE: Something Trump is wrong about..

      @raphjd:

      Your whole premise is based on executing innocent men so some guilty men don't go free.    I can understand why you don't want us to think about executing innocent men.   It makes you look like an asshole.

      No. It makes it look like you have nothing but an ad hominem argument. In all the anti SJW, 3rd 'n 4th wave feminist posts you make the people here tell you that you're an asshole for saying x, y, z without ever taking you seriously. You shout back and forth. You thump on your chests. You feel you've accomplished something.

      You don't.

      These ad hominem attacks just make you appear like a teenager – and I have no way of knowing that you're not.

      @raphjd:

      How many innocent men are you willing to allow to be executed in order to prevent 1 crime?    Give us a number.

      If you're going to ask this kind of question you first answer the same question about your own thoughts: How many people are you willing to let be victimized by repeat offenders before you say enough?

      By asking these kinds of rhetorical questions you stall discussion. You think you've made a great point but you're just punting the ball away. It gives the impression you don't have an answer – and you probably don't.

      @raphjd:

      Ok, so you admit that some innocent men are executed.  That is why I made my original post.   I said I support the death penalty in principle, but not in practice because innocent people get executed.    **You support the death penalty and say who gives a fuck about the innocent men who get executed, I don't know them.    That is the difference between our stances. **

      But those are real cases, that you support happening exactly like they did.   Also, if you want to complain about "emotion" then **why did you set up the scenario about my family? **  It was for emotional reasons.    Do you really not get that?

      Why did I set up the scenario about your family? Because you had previously set up a similar scenario about mine and then wished me dead for having done so. Otherwise, I wouldn't have. That's not my style.

      What you said is not the difference in our styles. Let me do a round about and then come back to this.

      Laci Green put up several examples of women who had been actually rapped but their cases dismissed because of lack of evidence, too much time passing, yada, yada, yada. She used those specific examples to say, hey, this system is broken. What we should do instead is redefine rape to mean this and change the existing ways the police to things. All of this was and is supported by pulling up specific extreme examples where the system didn't work.

      You're doing the exact same thing. You're saying look at these specific cases. OMG, the tragedy! Because of these specific examples we now have proof the entire system is flawed and should be abolished.

      What you both are doing is creating policy based on FEELINGS. This is why I don't argue from emotion (unless I'm feeling lazy in real life).

      The difference in styles between what you and I are arguing is that I'm looking at the system in totality and saying statistically people fall through the cracks. You're digging into those cracks. You're pulling pennies out as though they're things of value. I'm saying this is the system we have, let's deal with it; you're saying this one part of the system in broken – because pennies -- so lets destroy the whole thing.

      Does that make sense now? I don't think policy should be made from feelings. You apparently do.

      @raphjd:

      In your child molestation example, how does executing innocent men have anything to do with piss poor sentencing and the refusal to build more prisons?    In Europe, they don't "punish" they "rehabilitate".   This means they are weak on criminals, actual fucking criminals.   It has nothing to do with executing innocent men.

      Once again, my argument has nothing to do with executing innocent people. Zero. I explained this multiple times in the course of this thread. Perhaps the previous example will finally make it sink in for you.

      The rest of your argument proves my point. I think if you molest a child you should be executed. I, personally, am willing to concede that a person should be given one chance. If after they're rehabilitated they never do it again, fine. If they get caught again, off to the chopping block. Let me be clear, I'm talking about executable offenses, not theft. I'm also talking about such offences in the West, not in Uganda where being gay is an executable offence.

      @raphjd:

      Instead of focusing on executing innocent men, make the justice system really about justice.

      Stop focusing on executing innocent men and focus on prosecutorial misconduct, police corruption and the like.

      Not once have you advocated fixing the system.  Your stance has always been, the system if fucked, so execute innocent men.

      As I said, the choice is unfixable. There is a continuum. The choices on either side are binaries that learned men have been discussing for at least 2000 years. Interestingly, Sam Harris has said that within a decade we will most likely have computer systems that will be able to tell if someone is telling the truth perfectly every time. Such a machine would help rule out certain cases and help prevent the innocent from being executed.

      Otherwise, your solution is to throw out the whole system. I'm saying, no. In fact, the current system in the US has already been modified so much that it's more expensive to put a person on death row than to just keep him alive for life imprisonment. I think there are enough guilty people on death row to be executed right now. I'd put Charlie Manson at the top of the list but those changes to the death penalty say that he's not guilty by reason of insanity.

      @raphjd:

      I believe OJ is a murderer.  HOWEVER, the stench of shit by the LAPD, et al, never left my nostrils.      The cop that admitted on tape that he (and other cops) would routinely plant evidence was glaring when he is the one that found all the main evidence.    Blood evidence items left in a crime scene van with a broken cooling system.

      While I do believe he's guilty, I would vote NOT GUILTY if I was on that jury.

      One of the many problems with our justice system. It doesn't mean we should throw out trial by jury, does it?

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • RE: "Planned Parenthood"?

      @raphjd:

      At least, the bullshit argument that since it was a legal right, that we should have to pay for it has been dropped.

      I'll agree with that.

      Anyone have an answer for why the government should provide funding to PP?

      What comes to mind is that the federal and state governments are there to protect the general welfare of the citizenry. Polio was eradicated in our country by government subsidies, for example. There are some really interesting graphs online that show the number of children given to orphanages and foster care plotted against crime rates. The data shows that after Roe v Wade the number of children who were abandoned decreased and there was a long-term drop in crime. Anecdotally, if you look and movies and TV shows pre and post the number of storylines about a child being taken in by other family members have all but disappeared. If true, that's a public good.

      Healthcare has not been/is not a right in the US, so low-cost options like PP served a purpose for lower-income women providing pap smears, breast exams, etc. That's also a public good. If the US does ever get national healthcare, there's a good argument it should defund PP.

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • Is anyone else getting a slow connect time to the site?

      The past couple of days when I log into this site I can wait a minute or longer for each page to load. Sometimes it works fine, others a very long time.

      Is this on my end or the sites?

      posted in The Site
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    • RE: Best porn studio?

      I like Japanese porn. Coat and Get-Film are my favorites followed by Justice. If I'm looking at straight porn I like Carribian.

      posted in Chit Chat
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    • RE: Should I or shouldn't I? (a game)

      I shouldn't because I don't have the time to play with one.

      You should be more sincere and honest in your daily life.

      posted in Forum Games
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    • RE: "The person below me" game.

      Nope. One honest, sincere face.  :cool2:

      TBPM gives a fantastic blow job.

      posted in Forum Games
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    • RE: THIS or THAT: the game

      Theme.

      Sunrise or sunset?

      posted in Forum Games
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    • RE: Even CNN is now admitting.. "TRUMP WAS RIGHT!"

      Wow. Winter coats now needed in Hell. Make you donations to…

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • RE: Something Trump is wrong about..

      @Frederick:

      @raphjd:

      Of course I'd be furious that the criminal got off.    HOWEVER, what good would it do to execute innocent men?   How the hell would that make me feel better?!     How would executing a soldier who was proven not to even be in the country at the time (the UK case I mentioned) benefit me in the scenario you mentioned?  How would if benefit me to execute someone like Derrick Bennett (other UK case mentioned)?

      Your comment sparked a thought in my brain…
      Consider that your a horrible crime was committed upon someone you care about.  You are devastated and distraught.  There is a conviction and an execution.  But then.. you find out that the man that was executed was not guilty!   THAT would fuck up the rest of your life.

      I do understand what you're saying but let me reframe it so you can understand how I see the situation as a whole.

      I'm speaking generally of the entire judicial system where, statistically speaking, there are going to be some innocent people executed and there is nothing that can prevent that from happening. It's analogous to getting a procedure done to remove skin cancer, sometimes there'll be a fatality in the surgery. Does the occasional wrongful execution mean that we should scrap the program? I say no.

      For me, the trouble with arguing about this individual case and that individual case is that no matter how riveting or tragic the individual stories are, they are just an appeal to emotion. This means that you're indirectly suggesting we make policies based on feelings. But you're going to feel terrible if you find out he's innocent. Yeah, probably but you can't make laws that deal with feelings. That's the beginning of Political Correctness.

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • RE: Something Trump is wrong about..

      @raphjd:

      It is bullshit; pure and simple.   Do you want me to pretend that it's not?

      Of course I'd be furious that the criminal got off.    HOWEVER, what good would it do to execute innocent men?   How the hell would that make me feel better?!     How would executing a soldier who was proven not to even be in the country at the time (the UK case I mentioned) benefit me in the scenario you mentioned?  How would if benefit me to execute someone like Derrick Bennett (other UK case mentioned)?

      The points you brought up have nothing to do with your stance on it being a good thing to execute innocent men.

      **Option B is executing innocent men. **

      And option A is setting the guilt-free to prey upon the innocent.

      You're right, what I brought up has nothing to do with it being a good idea to execute innocent men. It's not about executing innocent men. It's the other side of the coin. You're obviously comfortable with letting the guilty roam free. I'm not. For every wrongly incarcerated man (or woman) you find I can ten to a hundred examples of people who were victims of someone let out of jail in any one of the four situations I outlined before.

      If you're focusing on the one man in a thousand who is wrongly executed (arbitrary number) what about the ten thousand who are victims of repeat offenders? Defend it.

      Your child is molested by a repeat offender who has been let out three times for the same crime. Tell the four children that it's okay because that's the way the law works. THAT'S bullshit.

      The reality is that there is no perfect system. We simply need to be aware of the flaws in what we have vs what we could have.

      @raphjd:

      I'm not saying you are arguing like a feminist.  I'm saying you are using the same arguments they use to justify their lies about rape stats, to justify their bullshit JUST BELIEVE and other things where innocent men are sent to prison.    You and feminists argue for sending innocent men to prison, JUST IN CASE.

      And I'm acknowledging that, yes, it falls on the same continuum but the circumstances and situations are apples and oranges in relation to one another and the comparison in unhelpful here when we're talking about the death penalty and violent crimes.

      @raphjd:

      You are deflecting by keep trying to change my words to be about HOW you argue, not WHAT you are arguing.   I'm not concerned about HOW, but about WHAT.

      Because how people argue is important.

      When you ask why you should pay for a woman's abortion (to borrow from another thread) you're putting a kind of rhetoric into play that is trying to hit at emotions and not the truth of the matter. The step from bullshit to an inarticulate stream of four-letter words really very short and then nothing gets discussed.

      I think in my short time in these forums I've proven again and again I'm here to have discussions, not shouting matches. I make an effort to listen. I try out different thoughts and don't take it personally if I'm proven wrong. Most of what I've seen in these forums is either shouting at an opposing opinion or nodding in an echo chamber – I won't do either.

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • RE: DisneyWorld Dilemma…

      @Frederick:

      Parents don't stay all day with young people?  Are you saying they dump the kids off at the park and pick them up later?

      Oh, no, not at all. I'm saying the parents who bring their kids don't stay all day with their kids but leave together. I'm not sure about an age limit here. I do know that groups of jr. high school students often go together without their parents.

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • RE: DisneyWorld Dilemma…

      @Frederick:

      @cteavin:

      @Frederick:

      Frankly.. the once great Disney parks are now obsolete.  Drive-in movie theaters are gone… Circuses are gone... World Fairs are gone.. most carnivals are gone.. state fairs are pretty much gone.. it might be the time to pull the plug on theme parks.

      No. Absolutely not. If anything, the standards set by Disney are what killed everything you mentioned but the Drive-in.

      Theme parks are fantastic but expensive. There are several here that are amazing, including Disneyland and Disneysea.

      And how is it you know that Disney hasn't opened their Hall of Presidents because of Trump? Unless they've said so it's speculation.

      I live about 80 miles from the Disney Parks.. and know people that work there..   and I've seen how far the parks have degraded over decades.

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      i have to mention something a bit off-topic about Tokyo Disneyland.  Maybe you have something to add about this.  In the Florida Disney parks, there are a LOT of children and babies in the parks… and a lot of strollers, etc.  The man I sometimes refer to that was murdered went to Tokyo Disneyland and took several dozen photos that were posted online years before he was murdered.  There was something very strange about the photos.. there were virtually NO children in the park!   WTF is up with that?  Seems that entertainment is for adults at Tokyo Disneyland.

      There are tons of children. I have fantastic pics of the baby strollers all lined up while familes are in line for rides like The Jungle Safari. Parents don't stay all day with young people, though. They either come after five for the discount tickets or leave early.

      I've never been to TDW. I've always wanted to go. Maybe when they open the new Star Wars themed section. 🙂 Let's meet up!

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • RE: Something Trump is wrong about..

      @raphjd:

      While ZERO innocent men may be impossible, that is exactly what we should aim for.    As long as innocent men are being convicted, we need to end the death penalty.    You on the other hand are advocating for executing as many innocent men as "needed" to foster this insane "crime prevention" bullshit.

      If anyone you care about is ever wrongly convicted, you had better get on TV telling the world how it's a great thing and not fight to free them. Doing otherwise would show that either you have been trolling this thread or you are a hypocrite when it comes to you and your own.  I suspect you are a hypocrite.

      Was bullshit really necessary?

      Here's your dilemma. I wholeheartedly accept the flaw at my end of the spectrum but do you accept yours? Let me put it into the same language you just used. If your husband and child were murdered and the perpetrator was caught but one of the following happened

      1. he got off on a technicality (didn't get his Miranda Rights read or somesuch)
      2. he pleaded innocent and there wasn't enough evidence to convict him but you know he did.
      3. he had been previously convicted of the same crime but was released after having done the time
      4. he is cleared of his crime because he's been rendered criminally insane.

      When looking over your dead partner's corpse, when thinking of your dead child you had better be happy that the law works as it works or you'll be a hypocrite here.

      Lastly, I also want zero innocent people sent to prison. I never implied I didn't. I've repeatedly said that given the flawed system we have to work with I'll take option B.

      @raphjd:

      Keep saying I'm talking like and SJW when your argument is the same as the feminists' argument.   You both want innocent men sent to prison, just in case.

      What exactly are you trying to say here? Are you saying that you're not arguing like an SJW because I'm (allegedly) arguing like a feminist? That makes no sense. Or are you attempting to deflect my criticism of how you're arguing by pointing out a flaw in how I argue? If that's what you're doing, you still haven't addressed the flaw in how your present your thoughts. Don't deflect.

      I don't want innocent people sent to prison but you're correct in that the thinking is similar. We've been talking about the death penalty. In terms of the death penalty, that is, for crimes worthy of the death penalty then it is true that I chose the stricter option. I would be comfortable to extend prison time to violent crimes, too.

      What third and fourth wave feminists have done is redefine rape and sexual harassment. Punishments for the now much broader definitions are often exercised through company HR, university administrations, and public opinion (a la Harvey Weinstein and Kevin Spacey). If you wanna go here, you'll have to open a new thread because this is a different topic altogether and I refuse to move these goalposts.

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • RE: "Planned Parenthood"?

      @benial06:

      Abortion is not about babies, it's about pregnancy. A baby is a fully developed fetus, outside of the mother's womb.

      And yes, men have a role on pregnancy but it is women who carry it and face the difficulties so the last word should be theirs, not ours.

      You're thinking of it in terms of gender when there are just as many women who believe it is wrong for a woman to take the life of her unborn baby. Were all the men to disentangle them from all the policy you'd still have the same fight.

      1. Is it the states responsibility to pay for such services offered by places like PP?

      2. Should our collected monies be used to pay for something that goes against the belief systems of a portion of the contributors?

      3. Since abortion is currently protectedby judgments made in the Supreme Court, should the federal government intervene in state laws that are trying to restrict abortions?

      See. There's no reason men and women can't discuss this.

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • RE: "Planned Parenthood"?

      @flozen:

      @raphjd:

      Women have 100% of the say in whether we are fathers of not.

      If men opt to wear a condom, they can pretty much rule out unplanned fatherhood.

      Why do you make such easily disproved and absurd remarks?

      Meme thinking: it's easy to argue from extreme points than look at issues in their complexity. Hyperbole can be an effective tool when used well. When used well.

      Anyway, we learned that raphjd does women. Apparently, he's knocked a few up, too.  ::)

      posted in Politics & Debate
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    • How do you breakfast? Do you and what do you eat?

      Over the years I've noticed a predictable pattern in my behaviour. In summer I can't be bothered making breakfast but from autumn I'm into big breakfasts. Body clock?

      Because I live in Japan I've grown to love their way of eating, typically fish, rice, pickles, and miso soup. The pictures are my breakfasts (the third one is a sweet bean soup with mochi – yum, it was a leftover from the night before).

      What do you eat? Photos?

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      posted in Health & Fitness
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    • RE: It's Monday. UGHH

      I love Mondays! It's the day I get to go back to work.  :cheers: The world goes back to a predictable pace nicely interrupted by the chaos from the weekend – balance is always nice.

      I think people who hate Mondays dislike their jobs. Life is too short for that. Always do something you love.  :cool2:

      posted in Chit Chat
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