I used to be polite and pc so I'll reply,
'Thank you for your interest.
However, you and I are not suitable.'
But after a few rare occasions where the interested person bombarded me with very nasty replies and even hounded me online, now I think it's best to not even reply. Most Asians are afraid of losing face so not replying is still not rejection as there are other possible reasons.
I'm typical middle of the roader,
1. no scrawny twinks
2. no chubbies
3. no sm stuff - but rough sex is fine and energetic
4. no tv
5. no scat or golden showers
Bad news: you can't.
In some cases, becoming a full-time alcoholic (as in: be drunk 24/7) can help you keep your hair on your head but I really can't recommend this.
That I'm very interested.
I love to drink away the blues but like those who drink would say, I'm not alcoholic.
I still have a full head of hair but as thick as before.
I have a really tight hole, and it often hurts to get fucked. I'd love to be a power bottom, but I don't know how I could get there. Any advice?
ha, that's a 1st world problem…
seriously, enjoy that tightness while you can
because it won't take long for men to seek you out and loosen you out as nature takes it's course from overuse.
Then how to tighten it back would be the million dollar question.
l've never heard of any top complain about a tight hole but a loose hole is too easy to find...
Shy to say, I love to drink too much even more than sex.
We have a saying, let's drink and be merry for tomorrow we die.
In this dessert area, there's nothing much else to be merry about.
Call me debauched if you must but I love sex while being drunk. I don't care.
But being the drunkard that I am, I'm very well aware of myself even when drunk and alcohol brings up the sexual feelings while being penetrated by someone that's not my choice.
All those studies about erectile dysfunction or not consenting seem not to be my experience at all. Through the ages, how can there be merry making like sex without drinks to up the fun? I just got to have that drink very badly before I'll even think of allowing him near me. All that anxiety seem to evaporate and I can act whatever I want to and I fuck care about the bloody world.
Yes, 6 packs are made in the kitchen.
I do 60 crunches, 40 side crunches in addition to other exercises everyday.
The 6 packs are still hidden inside as you can see from my pic.
However, if I want to show them, I simply go on strict diet for a week or so and they'll pop out. But then I'll lose a lot of body mass so I'll put back the mass for the softer smoother rounder look.
Hello guys,
I have a medical problem,which is widely known and that's-internal hemorrhoids.I discovered them last months while doing an enema and I kind of freaked out.They seem to be grade I ,no bleeding,no swollen things,just a bit of discomfort from time to time.
I decided to begging the treatment with suppositories,I started to eat healthier(a lot of fibers,vegetables,fruits ,I drink a lot of water) and I did not have anal sex as a bottom since May ,but today when I made an enema to check the improvement…surprise,no ...
I have a big hemorrhoid(like 0.5 cm ) and like 3 smaller ,I examined them in the mirror(after lubing and playing with the ass to relax the anus -yeah ,so fucking romantic..) and I saw them.
Well ...I am freaking out ,this medical condition begging to make me obsessed about what I how I eat,what I eat,when I eat,how I poop,to see if I have blood in poop and so fucking on...
In addition to the psychological and medical impact and the stress caused by these concerns,I am mostly bottom and these little freaks make me feel insecure ,embarrassed and reluctant to any anal sex even if I want to(especially when I am horny and I wanna be fucked).Sincerely ,I am overwhelmed and depressed by this fucking situation and I do not know what to do. Everything seems to be not helping and 0.
Extra Bonus: Imagine a hot date,you and him are in the bed and you tell him:honey I have some little hemorrhoids which want to be fucked so fucking hard(not happened ,but I imagine...).
I am freaked by the fact that they could bleed out while sexual intercourse .
I didn't know what is hemorrhoids until last year after being a regular bottom to my Arab guy.
He's not big but he's a horny bastard who'll eat me out before pounding me silly.
After being worked over, I was sore sore sore for days.
Took me sometime before the skin down there thickened and got used to the rubber burn.
Or so I thought. Till one day he said he felt a thick vein inside my anal wall.
He guided my finger inside and I felt what seemed like a thick ropy vein bulging out.
It's about an inch inside and not visible outside.
We did a quick search on the net and concluded it's early sign of hemorrhoids but nothing serious.
Of course he refused to give up sex but promised to be more gentle.
After the heavy pounding, we checked and it's not any discomfort yet, just that I'm aware he's rubbing it with his penis.
After sex, I was still worried and suggested that we stop further anal sex till I'm better.
I was sort of blaming him for causing this. Would you believe his corny jokes that I'm like the woman telling the man when she discovered she's pregnant.
Again, he's not agreeable but promised to check up on the proper treatments.
I told him that I'll go see a doctor that week.
He told me not to as hemorrhoids may be considered as a type of sex disease from anal intercourse and the doctor may be required to report my case. Since buggery is death penalty, we cannot afford to take the risks.
Unusually, the next time he came back with a folk remedy from another matured bottom.
It's to use extra virgin coconut oil to massage it till the blood vessels circulation drain the blocked veins. Therein lie his corny virgin jokes and his defense that his penis massaging my insides actually helped and not the cause of my hemorrhoids. Anyway, I told him since he's the cause then he'll have to massage my hemorrhoids before having his fun. Again his corny jokes that he's a responsible man and will carry out his duties. Furthermore,he'll be more responsible if I allow him to fuck me raw and impregnate me. That we didn't want to discuss because he knew that he's the one who has the control and there's nothing I can do about it if he wanted me raw.
It actually worked very well and within a month, the hemorrhoids shrunk to almost nothing.
Maybe the previous soreness was not taken care of and the thickening skin caused more rough friction and thickened the veins. Regular rubbing with extra virgin coconut oil helped to smooth the skin and with smooth penetration, the pounding isn't chafing my anal wall anymore.
Once he accidentally spilled the oil on me and oh boy, my smooth skin literally shone from the glistening oils on my skin as he thoughtfully rubbed them on me, trying to stop it from dripping onto the bed. But it was too late as some got on the blanket. He's worried that the hotel would know that we had sex. It's this type of internalized paranoia about gay sex even though it's so plain and simple with 2 full grown men leaving the hotel room with semen stained bed and towels.Anyway, he was so turned on that we laid down the blankets and had sexual massage with pseudo oil wrestlings on top.
I find this review on a mainstream tech gadget site.
Seemed to me anal sex is no longer taboo in the mainstream.
When the reviewer( who professed to be gay and a bottom) couldn't find the gay porn he needed, he had to use a straight porn. Come to think of it, gay porn always started borrowing from straight porn. After all, it's basically the same except that one guy has to assume the female role.
Though I'm mostly versatile, my recent being forced to be the bottom for a rather nasty Arab top, who explicitly told me he's not gay but treating me as a female when fucking me because I'm smoother than Arab women. I can understand that he need to vocalize even calling my body parts in female terms because of his self denial fears of his homosexuality.
But of course, he don't want me to cross dress because he's actually still sexually aroused by a male body. It actually crossed my mind to cross dress just to freak him out 
.But I didn't because he could really get unstable and violent.
So now, it crossed my mind again to join this VR chat room as a female and really experience being female and virtually banged by a straight guy with virtual dildo with virtual touch then reveal my true self to freak him out
http://www.engadget.com/2016/02/03/the-future-of-sex-part-two/
At my age, almost everybody is younger.
My experience is that usually those before 30yo are too immature and needy. They expect to be pampered. It's cute in the beginning but gets tiring after sometime like caring for a whiny kid.
So now I prefer to date someone above 40 where we behave like full grown adults.
I have this weirdest fetish to play naked outdoor in the heavy rain.
As kids, we used to strip naked and play in the heavy rain at a big playground with lots of trees, shrubs and a big grass field.
There's a big drain at the side of the playground that swelled with the flooding rain water and we'll jump into the fresh clean water to catch small fishes. We were all hale and healthy kids without catching a cold.
Of course we were totally unaware of sex then and never thought about it. That's what made it so fun, being naked is so innocent, free and easy. Unlike now as adults, that sex organ creates tension and unease even among a group gay men wondering about to tease or to sex?
So unlike most gays who go for nude suntan, I'll go to a sauna rooftop for nude rain drenching. :surprise: at the roof deck. But I'll first heat myself up in the hot sauna before laying down, feeling the cold rain drops pelting down on my skin and causing my contracting surface blood vessels to force blood to rush to my head and interior. I feel a euphoric rush to my head and ahem…to my engorged organ.
I don't care if guys watching would think I'm weird laying naked in the heavy rain with a big hard on. They think that I'm just an exhibitionist.
3D VR Porn Goggles? What, you can't use normal 3D VR Goggles to watch your porn?! That's insane.
Honestly, rather than having 3D VR Goggles I'd prefer a real, 3D man to watch my porn with and do naughty stuff.
Of course we all want the real thing for sure.
But….can you get the hottest man of your dream for real?
So the next best thing to get him on 3D VR goggles that's supposed to be more interactive than 3D TV.
There was a lot of buzz that the porn industry will be the first to exploit this new tech like other new tech before.
But I've yet to see that happening, not even on straight porn.
Maybe nowadays porn is so common that porn stars don't seem that hot anymore.
I mean some of the popular porn stars are so well exposed, we see more of their intimate body parts than a doctor would. All the thrills and mysteries are gone.
Ahem, gentlemen, they are referring to those proper saunas. Though there are gay saunas with quite good proper sauna facilities, most men go for the more fun stuff.
The proper way to use a sauna is to get heated up and sweat out those toxins in our body. Sweat is like urine, it helps our body to excrete waste inside our skin. Then jump straight into the cold pool. The colder the pool the better the thermal shock. In Scandinavian countries like Finland, they even jump straight into a freezing lake.
The thermal shock has 2 major effects
1. The sudden contraction of the blood vessels near our exterior creates a sudden pressure to push blood into our brain and interior. You experience a sudden surge in blood pressure into your body like you've done some heavy exercises. It can produce some pleasant euphoria in your brain. But be warned that this stress on your body is dangerous for those with poor health. But it strengthens the circulation system of our heart and improves it. That's why these men live longer.
2. When the process is done two to three times with proper rest in between, your skin gets good exercises stretching between the hot and cold treatment like heat/cold treatment of steel to strengthen it. Our skin is the biggest organ in the human body. This hot and cold stretching is the few proper exercises it can get. It keeps our skin supple, young looking and radiant. Your muscles need exercising to keep fit and so do your skin. You should see some Finnish men with glowing baby smooth skin and be convinced.
I go to those gay saunas with proper facilities and spend most of my time using the sauna facilities. They post a notice on the wall that sauna is not recommended for those with heart problems.
Some guys think I'm weird while others think I'm a pretentious exhibitionist. Well, in some ways I am because I believe if you got it, you can flaunt it but take the effort to maintain it else it's gone.
I remember there were lots of buzz about 3D porn when 3D TVs were being pushed for sales. But till now I've not seen a single 3D gay porn? What happened?
Now there's 3D VR goggles coming soon, so will 3D gay porn finally happen? Will you buy a 3D VR goggle?
For me, I don't think I would. It's only a novelty so I hope to rent one for the experience but not buy it.
If a guy is hot and sexy - I could care less about his cock size…..as long as he has one
Ditto.
In fact, the cock is the last thing I care about.
Yes only if there's chemistry because it will likely lead to anal sex. Otherwise, I wouldn't let him near it because it will imply consent.
To be honest, we men all know that the cum will build-up inside our balls and make us deliciously horny.
We masturbate to release the sexual pressures from this cum build-up.
If we hold it in for too long, we get blue balls which makes our balls tender but deliciously sore.
If we hold even longer, we begin to have notti erotic thoughts all the time. It's the natural mating instinct, called "in heat". In a sexual environment like a bar, the potential mates can "smell" your body language of being"in heat".
So we masturbate for temporary pleasures without a mate. But we hold the masturbation to seek a mate for sexual intercourse.
Three men have been given life sentences and are allowed to bring one thing for fun. The first one brings a deck of cards. He says, "I brought these to pass the time when we're bored."
The second one brings a harmonica and says, "I brought this to cheer us up when we're down."
The final man, who happened to be blond, brought tampons. The other men ask him, "What the hell did you bring those for?"
He replies, "The back says you can swim, run, and play sports with these."
And I thought it was for those heavy days when the other 2 men get bored with what they brought and Blondie is the entertainment. Am I dumber than Blondie, like my fb says of me, big boobs NO brains?
Well, sometimes in this part of the world it can't be helped.
I don't have the money or the connections to get what's needed to work here. It's very common here to pay to get things done.
Anyway, I'm no spring chicken myself. It's fair exchange between consenting adults.
Like it or not, most of us here are no saints and have been around and about.
We all have loads of sexual escapades to share but not all of them are unique or hot.
But some of them are like wow! , I need to share with someone >:D
As can be seen from my profile pic, I'm smooth like a baby.
At my matured age, that's a big advantage.
The Arabs are almost all hairy but I don't like hairy men.
I'm so smooth that my skin will shine when I exit from steam sauna or the swimming pool. It attracts lots of attention for the interesting contrast against my salt and pepper hair.