Posts made by alma

@4hired:

every 3 months, if you are sexually active.

I just came here to say the same , Though i'm not sexually active .

@brianboru72:

@Eridanos:

Yes it was harsh…but sometimes people need harshness instead of sympathy or pity.  Problem is, 'Sam' is putting himself in a very delicate situation.  There are people that, once they realize you have no self-love, no self-respect...will trap you and seduce you and make you love them hard and fast and then...they will take advantage from you. In Sam's case, he sounds so sad and desperate that he seems capable of great folly for just some morsels of love that might not even be real.

He needs to stop pitying himself, because that's what he transmits to others, and believe me...there's a very fine line between pity and contempt.

HE also seems to have absorbed many issues: ageism, lack of confidence, the mistaken idea that you need to be in a relationship and if you are single by a certain age, then you're a hopeless spinster.  That is all bullcrap, both homo and heteronormative nonsense we need to get rid off in order to fully mature and enjoy ourselves as individuals.

I couldn't agree more with what you've said here! Ageism is insidious. It's a struggle to come to terms with the fact that we will all get older. And the sooner we accept and make peace with that, the better we'll be.

Also- the sooner we make getting into a relationship less of a race and more of an adventure, the better for us. I know some people who cling desperately to a relationship where they are miserable as hell, JUST to avoid becoming single again. 

And alma- I get where you're coming from. You strike me as a nice, kind person. And a couple years back I would've been with you- I couldn't say anything harsh even if it's what was needed. The intent wasn't to be mean, it was to help. Harshness can often work to push people to act where kindness and coddling will not. Hopefully that's the effect here.

Hmm .. idk , I know he asked for some judgment since he is the one who posted on the net , But still i don't think we need to be harsh to motivate him , Since that will lead to anger and anger leads to BAD BAD decision .

So i don't know …he is not a user on this site right ??

HE also seems to have absorbed many issues: ageism, lack of confidence, the mistaken idea that you need to be in a relationship and if you are single by a certain age, then you're a hopeless spinster.  That is all bullcrap, both homo and heteronormative nonsense we need to get rid off in order to fully mature and enjoy ourselves as individuals.

This i know what you mean , But no need in attacking a person now .
ALTHOUGH  … I do agree with you on the ageism part , i Think it's ridiculous that he thinks he is old at 35 when that is just so young  ... still that is a person who is pouring his heart out to the world , no need To be mean to him , Its not like he is Being Rude or anything ..

@Eridanos:

Well…this is what I would answer him.  He definitively needs a slap back into reality, not a shoulder to cry on.

Dear 'Sam in Florida':

I'm 31, Gay and I honestly don't care if I'm single forever or if I find Mr. Right.

Why? Because I've realized love comes unannounced, like many big things in life, but in order to be ready for it, you must love yourself first.

My friends and acquantainces are getting married, pooping out babies and showing them up in fucking Facebook...do I care? No.

They're them....I am me...

And after reading your pathetic letter...I despise you...so much that If I could meet you I would seduce you and then break your worthless heart into tiny-bitty pieces and enjoy every damn second of it.

You clearly don't love yourself....you have people who love you and yet you don't love yourself.

If you think that you won't be attracting anyone because you're older I say to you...compensate the aging with character and become interesting...be like a good wine: age makes you better.

Don't beg for the love of some vain 20 something...interesting, older men have 20 year olds running around them...as their bitchboy fucktoys, not the other way around!

And if you want love...then you don't hook up! Love needs to be NURTURED. And in order to nurture love with others you need to love yourself first.

Don't you think that phrase from your acquaintance was a compliment?! Maybe he/she liked you! But your self respect is so crushed you had to think the worst possible meaning to it.

Grow a fucking pair....because you were totally whining.

TOO TOO HARSH MAN , God dammit he was sharing his fears and needed advice not an attack  :blink:

as long as i'm alive , i will try to get married to the person i love … Need to find him first !!

@Eridanos:

Kinda need to improve the facial features though…

As others have stated, is too big to stash away in your closet so...maybe make it double as a mannequin for your clothes?

(Seems a good way to prevent your nephews from asking why uncle has a big naked Max Steel doll - and an anatomically correct one to booth!)

Lol true

I myself Will NEVER agree to an open relationship .
If my future boyfriend wants to do it , then i think that would be our end since pretty much we'll be wanting different things !!

@2222:

@alma:

Weekend and i LOVE IT .
It's really a good film , Loved how Real the atmosphere was !!

One of the best film, simple but deep. How would you rate it?

I would rate it 7 and a half as a film , As a gay film i would rate it 9 .

the sound was a bit low , i lost some of what they were saying . But the film is SO REAL.
Shows the upside and downside of dating really . Or simply meeting someone new who doesn't want the same thing .

Would you Really buy one ??

I mean idk it's kinda weird to buy something like that !!

It's Too real to hide it in the closet .

Also what would they smell like ??

@helloitsmesf:

if you have curly hair maybe once a week
straight hair probably 3x a week

3 times a week is good for long hair !

@helloitsmesf:

ok, thanks alma

You are welcome , Just make sure to watch some trimming videos before you do it , helps you NOT to make a mistake

@farkme:

Erm, Because they are a rapist? He did it because he wanted someone who didn't want them back. Drugged them so that they couldn't fight back.

I know .. what i meant to say was , why would a person do that ??? I mean why would someone rape or kill or hurt ???

Where does this need comes from ??

Even if it's clean ?

Nothing really …
i don't think he is my type ..
But still good looking .

I'm sorry but i really need to know …What does cisgender means ?
I read about it but it still Don't get it .

I keep hearing cis but what does it mean ???

welcome dear

Big no … I think ...
if My boyfriend  smokes , he needs to do it out of the room , also Brush his teeth ... I think the taste would be Too strong ..

But i really don't know , since never tried it ..

maybe rubio

@tyragossa:

Oh I get it. It makes sense and I was guessing that this is the case, just needed confirmation. Many thanks my friend.

You are welcome

@tyragossa:

Hey guys! I can't download a torrent because there are no seeds but one. It's a 400MB one dating back from 2009. I 've requested re-seed but only one PM was sent so I dont think anything is gonna change soon. Is there any chance I could download it if I made it freeleach? Thanks in advance everyone!!! :cheers:

Not really , since the user is probably way gone from the site .
I tried it once , didn't download so i only lost my bonuses over nothing >_<