when you are about to cum, your balls will generally tighten up towards the body….grab them and pull them back down and try and slow your jerking or stop it...once you hit the threshold, there's no going back
I tried it casually once while being tied to a bed…was intense. more of a tolerance thing than a get off thing...the dom told me that using e stem to cum takes a really long time to achieve
ANYTIME!!! lol unless I literally just blew a LOAD…. but then again there is always ROUND 2 and 3 LOL so anytime as long as its with some one good looking!
I wouldn't tell him, I would show him how you like to be kissed…make it a game. make him do as you say. hopefully he will pick up on it without being criticized...when you start criticizing in the bedroom...can be a bad thing
I find this "style" can help build…say if you are texting with a friend about sex all day...your cock gets hard in your pants...lots of precum...over and over and over all day...until release sometime that night. great builder and similar and I do it all the time
Anonymously or meeting up with someone for some fun? If anonymously, your best bet is an adult bookstore with video booths or, if your area has one, a bathhouse. If you are strictly looking to meet up with someone you know, I'd try a forested/wooded area, backseat of a car or a private beach area.
