@Ellis:
was a guy who ended up being what I’ve termed as my “live and die guy”–the one I live for, and the one I’d die for, the one who continues to put up with me and my shit, and has always been there for me since we got together in 1982.
Thats mine right there. I'm still seeing the guy and I should know better but he moved on and found another boyfriend. I still slept with him knowing he had another boyfriend.
I guess it's easier being the guy who isn't being cheated on. I've been asked by guys for sex, who cheating on their boyfriends, and I can easily say no. But with my ex, I can't say no to him.