I'm a nudist and completely positive about nudity in general, so if the other person is alright with it then yes, I will walk around naked without any problem or shame ;D And I hope the other person is attractive and does the same (altho there doesn't need to be any sexual attraction, even just having the eye-candy is good). And I think it kinda bonds men together too (whether str8 or gay). No clothes, no worries! :laugh:

@kenjysn1:

U are so crazy, maybe you don't love each other, I don't know weather bf is the same with partner,as your partner loyalty is all of the basis. Sorry for my poor English,but I want to say don't do that if u love him or her.

i totally agree with you.If you really love someone, seeing him with someone else will tear you apart.It's logical for me.

I broke up somewhere around November and I haven't had sex ever since, I met people but I don't feel ready or the need to do so for the time being, I don't want to jump again in a sex frenzy… I even feel calmer than I hope I'd be. Of course, me and my ex had terrible sex so that helps, I endured almost 2 years or bad/regular sex, having no sex at all means no difference.  ::)

Coconut oil.  Or I make a lotion with coconut oil, vitamin E (in liquid form), and vanilla.

yes

i like sex toy

@DamaDama:

i am too defensive against this kind of acts lol

It actually depends I think, because those long sounds do look terrifying. But a small plug, I don't think it would be too dangerous or too much trouble, because it wouldn't reach the thing deep inside or your bladders. Of course, there's always a risk, but It shouldn't be too bad if it's just 2". It's just weird that no one on here can actually tell me their experiences. I was pretty sure that someone would show up and tell me "STOP DON'T DO IT" or maybe the opposite 😄

Jim Kerouac

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waaaaw its soooo funy to try it

I've never had any interest.  What is it about piss that turns you on?

As someone wisely said above, it's not true anal if it's not a bit dirty!! >:D >:D

I usually just wash, and that's mainly for rimming (although myself I don't mind a dirtier asshole, I have to admit >:D)
As for fucking, you don't really need to douche if you don't want to, just take a dump before you have sex so you are empty (mostly cause a full bowel can feel uncomfortable during anal penetration), and wash properly (maybe let the water go inside with the shower head for a more thorough cleaning). And last but not least, if you or your partner are feeling uncomfy with the idea of a brown dick, just USE A CONDOM! This will keep the nasty stuff off the penis and you can safely give it a lick in the end 😉 😉

Douching: if you choose to douche, use lukewarm water. Hot water might burn the area easily (remember, it's far more sensitive than your skin), and cold water can cause cramps. Do not add body wash or soap in the water you use to douche, it can irritate the area badly. Also, do not douche all the time. Douching is a forceful substitute of the "natural way", and doing it very often might make your bowel lazy (aka you won't be able to go to the toilet properly since your bowel and your brain are used to the douching instead).

Antibacterial soap: DO NOT! I repeat, DO NOT USE ANTIBACTERIAL SOAP ON YOUR ASSHOLE, ESPECIALLY ON THE INSIDE! Your bowel is full of bacteria, which however are not harmful to you at all. In fact, they are very VERY important and necessary for your bodily functions. Antibacterial soap kills all bacteria, including this microflora and microfauna of the bowels. If you kill those bacteria, you might get serious irritation, bowel problems, or even an infection (since many of those are helping with keeping the dangerous bacteria away).

Last but not least, when it comes to the bacteria, remember: the bacteria you have in your bowel are natural! Chances are that your partner already has them too. However, in order to make sure that nothing bad happens, THE TOP SHOULD WASH PROPERLY AFTER SEX. And that includes washing the genitals after anal, as well as cleaning the mouth with mouthwash (for rimjobs).

Hope I helped! 😄 😄

i think if u use condum its safe

went to Singapore for a short holiday. chatted with this guy who is apparently into stuff that i am into (public humiliation).. we arranged to meet at a mall and i will be waiting in a bathroom cubicle. I ordered him to get naked the moment he goes in our cubicle… he was a chinese boy and had a beautiful body.. he kept on sucking me and i played with his cock and nipples (whilst hearing people coming in and out) until we both cummed (i cummed on his face lol)...  afterwards we had coffee.. lol still in contact with him.

Easiest way is to ask that couple.

lol this thread is hilarious. keep them going  :cheers:

The first rule of the Gay Slut Club ("gay slut" not used as an offensive term, more like a pride term) is:

TRUST YOUR GUT!!!

Even if your mind tells you that there is nothing to be afraid of, even if your cock is hard and needs another guy desperately, your gut feeling is the only thing you should always listen to. It doesn't matter if it has to do with hookups, dates, cruising, or anything else. If you have a feeling that you shouldn't go, then don't. If however you don't have that gut feeling but you still can't manage to hook up with a guy:

arranging a meeting in a public place helps a lot and will ensure safety (cause most of the time the said "gut feeling" comes the instant we meet for the first time irl) do not trust people who won't share pictures, their first name, their age, etc. Secrecy on those basic things is always fishy. having a drink and a bit of chit chat with someone before you do the do takes some of the anxiety away. No need to go fancy, it's not a date after all, but you can still have a beer and talk a bit. Also, if you know the other person at least a bit makes the sex better. last but not least, do not trust your boner: if you are horny, you are willing to have sex with anyone no matter if it seems fishy or if the guy is a creep. Don't go out of your league unless you are feeling comfortable (i.e. do not go with a guy much older than you unless you are comfortable with the idea and it's not making you feel nervous or scared).

I hope I helped you at least a little bit 🙂 🙂

It's normal.  Don't worry about it.