Relationships that start of with having to "work" at it usually don't end up "working" in the long term. I'd say, let him read what you typed there for advice and go from that.

sounds like your bowels are being angry after being rearranged from fucking

I chose gay. By and large, that is accurate in every way. But I've never been very sexually motivated in the first place, so it does not seem inconceivable that I could potentially fall in love with and have physical relations with someone of the opposite sex. The way I look at it, sex can either be merely a form of glorified masturbation, or something totally transcendent that people with a profoundly deep, indelible bond can communicate "spiritually" through. That's not to say that sex is ever absolutely one or the other, but real (read: consensual) sex always exists on a continuum somewhere between the two.

While I don't see myself ever getting that close to a woman or someone transitioning MtF, FtM or somewhere in between, I certainly don't consider it out of the question. I do believe in my own capacity for love/interconnection that goes beyond gender and corporeal presentations. I just think it's much more likely to happen with another man because I naturally default to my physical/romantic predilection for men before ever getting very emotionally invested in people as individuals.

+1 Peter North (aka Matt Ramsey for his earlier gay stuff)

My personal fav is Masaki Koh R.I.P. - his cumshots were always very good. If you don't like Japanese porn because of the mosaics/masking, but are into big cumshots, you should still check out his stuff, they don't block out any of the cum!  ;D

@MrMazda:

@kenjysn1: Come to Canada… Here we have very strict laws against being anti-gay in any way. Gay bashing, or otherwise practicing habits that discriminate against gays in any way is considered a hate crime here, which in and of itself is a federal offense. Plus, if you move to a city like Toronto, we speak English, French, German, Polish, Punjab, Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Italian, and Vietnamese lol

Thank you for your advise, we are planning to move to another conoutry. although it's hard but we think it wealth for a try.

not too big to not be able to put it deep in my mouth

love to give, ambivalent about receiving. it's in his kiss…!

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ususally just get my dick out, but if i'm cruising/horny/feel like it the balls follow

I think it's perfectly ok to have a preference. It's another thing to insult people. Do gay men hate women for not being attracted to them?. I don't think so. The race thing is the same thing. I don't think people are racists for having a preference but I certainly think some are assholes for posting shit like "Not into asians" on dating sites. I personally don't find smooth or skinny people attractive and most asians are smooth and skinny. I like big hairy men and most asians don't have those features, but I would never post on a dating site profile that I'm not into asians. Having a preference doesn't mean you have to make people feel bad for who they are.

I had a bf who was jealous of my porn watching.  It  was ridiculous.  It had nothing to do with him. We aren't together anymore…...

@kabrep:

sometimes Ive been attracted  :cheesy2: :cheesy2:
theyre cozy, soft, intelligent, wise.. its something different

Just remember… In order to be old and wise, you must first have been young and stupid. 😉

Of course it's normal!! Nipples are erogenous zones in both men and women, I think you will find only a few people who don't enjoy at least some forms of nipple play (whether speaking about the LGBT community or society in general). Personally I love both sucking and being sucked ;D And a little bit of nipple torture is not bad either >:D

no, bcos my partner is on his business trip,it's several thousand s far away. at the new year's day I decide to tell him a joke in english everyday. so from now on i need 700 jokes, maybe when he back out english will be even better

I'm sorry for them, but hopefully (and very likely, based on what you told us), that was the right decision and they can both move on to something better for them now.

I'm a nudist and completely positive about nudity in general, so if the other person is alright with it then yes, I will walk around naked without any problem or shame ;D And I hope the other person is attractive and does the same (altho there doesn't need to be any sexual attraction, even just having the eye-candy is good). And I think it kinda bonds men together too (whether str8 or gay). No clothes, no worries! :laugh:

@kenjysn1:

U are so crazy, maybe you don't love each other, I don't know weather bf is the same with partner,as your partner loyalty is all of the basis. Sorry for my poor English,but I want to say don't do that if u love him or her.

i totally agree with you.If you really love someone, seeing him with someone else will tear you apart.It's logical for me.

I broke up somewhere around November and I haven't had sex ever since, I met people but I don't feel ready or the need to do so for the time being, I don't want to jump again in a sex frenzy… I even feel calmer than I hope I'd be. Of course, me and my ex had terrible sex so that helps, I endured almost 2 years or bad/regular sex, having no sex at all means no difference.  ::)