Their own kind – men?  Then certainly, yes.

In a broader sense, this could encompass physical type, age type, skin type/cultural affiliation, socioeconomic status, general interests, sexual interests...

I've met as many men who prefer "quite similar" as those who prefer "quite different" when all those factors are tallied...

Hey guys,

Thank you for your advice, turns out you were both right. Even though I decided to continue our relationship for as far as it could go it seems that it ends in bitterness.

Long story short, we kept seeing each other and engage in fantastic sex, but also a deeper connection was evolving. He kept sending me double messages, but I could understand that he cared about me more than just raw sex. One time, he said to me "I need you more than you need me" and he cuddled with me until we fell asleep. I did not respond.

So during our last meeting I decided to open up about my feelings and said that "I am starting to fall in love with you". He said "you should stop doing that" (stop developing feelings for him). So I drunk a lot and it ended with me in tears in some sort of meltdown. He left the house. The next morning he send a message asking how I was feeling after drinking too much. I replyed that I am OK, and this was our last talking.

I understand by our talks that he has a vision for his life which cannot include a m2m relationship or romance. Even though I feel a little sad about the way things ended up, I was expecting that this is how it would end.

Once again thank you for preparing me for the future that would come.

Thank you for your informative input on this topic ColinTNM.

@ColinTNM:

Gay men were invented by well off middle-class white Americans sometime after the second world war.

If that's true, we owe those folk an immense debt of gratitude. ;D

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There are some clips of this at https://www.gaytorrent.ru/details.php?id=ce10ed5fbd9e40eb3f627acd8bc2072fb85e2c71ce5e7517

Yeah, especially with people whom I meet from Grindr.

@Kekkaishi:

I would also like to try escort services but due to the nature of the visit and "who might see what" situation, I have never tried it.
can someone please give me courage to do so? any advice?

I always keep some extra courage in the back on my pantry for moments just like this. take it, its yours.
Just be smart and if something doesn't seem right it probably isn't. But go live your life honey, sex work isn't anything to be weird about

I'm an Asian American but I find that many people in Vietnam on dating apps are looking for older white men, specifically sugar daddies, so some of it could be a money thing. Tried the sugar daddy thing, didn't like it. Although, I definitely was getting more hits from older white men when I was younger.

And up until 4 years ago, I was attracted to everything but Asians. Come to find out I was looking in ALL the wrong places lol

FYI my husband of 8 years is black so this is definitely not always true

Wear shinny shoes and get your foot close to the stall wall  :laugh:

You should have joined him!

@manrmen:

in pakistan, if a family member stains the honor of the family, they usually kill that member.

I’m not sure I agree with the word "usual" in this context. What you describe in your post is that in Pakistan every family is a mafia and a prison at the same time and is composed of pure psychopaths (and all of this literally). I am absolutely sure situations like these do happen, but they are not usual, because we’re all human beings and we’re not that different. We tend to show more respect and love to people with whom we live.

If what you say is absolutely true and that person risks his life by living at his parents, it would be insane to continue doing this. If for some reason I knew my parents were about to kill me, I wouldn’t just stand here waiting for my death. Maybe it’s just me, but I think it’s completely insane to live with psychopaths.

@JohnAllenson:

I've honestly seen a number of videos with aggressive or power bottoms.  It's just a really big bias in porn that the top is understood as more masculine (str8 presenting).
Look for some of the versatile guys who do both:  Rafael Alancar, Colby Keller, Xavier Ryan, Blake Mitchell….

Versatile..  :love:

Did you manage to do something in the direction you described?

@aleksopoulos:

personally i cant undrestand how people can like both

I don't understand how my mobile phone works.
I don't understand why some of the roses in my garden are white, and why some are red.
I don't understand how the universe is 14 billion years old still expanding.

The fact that I don't understand these things doesn't mean they aren't real.  And it doesn't mean that they aren't valuable, and good, parts of the world.