It seems to me that he wants to be st8 but he cannot ignore his natural urges for men. Sooner or later he may come in terms with his sexuality but that should not be your concern at this momnet.

I had a similar experience which did not end well. If you can stay in the safe zone of sexual encounters then it is ok but if you have feelings it is better to take your distance from him. This guy will never accept you as a central part in his life, he does not respect you and he refuses to give you his phone number. You will only be a fringe part of his life and he will come to you only when he will want sex with men.

There are many men out there who would be more open and available for you, don't be disapointed.

If I was in a similar position, I don't think I would have brought the case to court. In my view, if a baker does not want to sell me a cake I am going to the next one...the baker loses a client and I support a more tolerant bussiness.

However, I am not happy with this decision. Freedom from discrimination in the provision of services is very importnat and this decision paves a road: now it is a baker, next it will be a restaurant and a hotel, next it will be a doctor , next it will be discrimination in the employement and so on....and suddenly we dive in a new wave of intolerance. This decision sends the message that we do not deserve the same amount of respect in society.

@trevor613...I am not sure I agree with you. Just because we are not persecuted in some countries does not mean that we should be compromised with an incoplete form of equality. We deserve to be fully equal and be respected in the society that we live and contribute. This is not something that was granted to us as a form of charity. We fought for it for so many years.

Finaly, even though I can understand the need to balance religious beliefs and non-discrimination in the provision of services, I cannot fully understand how making a cake for a lesbian couple can interevene in somebody's religious practice. It is just businness and it would be more prefereble if someone could keep his religious beliefs outside thw business environment.

It is very sad that you are involved in such a difficult and risky situation. I believe that maybe you should consult with a lawyer (find a friendly one) and conisder the possibility of legal action.
Also check if there are organizations and NGOs that provide support to victims of abuse and ask them if they can help you.

@kalayaan Yes, the Unruh Civil Rights Act prohibits any business in California from engaging in unlawful discrimination against all persons (consumers) within California's jurisdiction, where the unlawful discrimination is in part based on a person's sex, race, color, religion, ancestry, national origin, age, disability, medical condition, genetic information, marital status, sexual orientation, citizenship, primary language, or immigration status.

Apparently the judge decided that the baker's right to religious freedom and "artistic" expression overthrows the non-discrimination act.

By digging a little to the case, I find it important that the baker was represented pro bono by lawyers of a conservative coalition. Also, her case was capitalized by conservative media as a victory of the "moral" people over the sinful.

If I was in a similar position, I don't think I would have brought the case to court. In my view, if a baker does not want to sell me a cake I am going to the next one...the baker loses a client and I support a more tolerant bussiness.

However, I am not happy with this decision. Freedom from discrimination in the provision of services is very importnat and this decision paves a road: now it is a baker, next it will be a restaurant and a hotel, next it will be a doctor , next it will be discrimination in the employement and so on....and suddenly we dive in a new wave of intolerance. This decision sends the message that we do not deserve the same amount of respect in society.

@trevor613...I am not sure I agree with you. Just because we are not persecuted in some countries does not mean that we should be compromised with an incoplete form of equality. We deserve to be fully equal and be respected in the society that we live and contribute. This is not something that was granted to us as a form of charity. We fought for it for so many years.

Finaly, even though I can understand the need to balance religious beliefs and non-discrimination in the provision of services, I cannot fully understand how making a cake for a lesbian couple can interevene in somebody's religious practice. It is just businness and it would be more prefereble if someone could keep his religious beliefs outside thw business environment.

I don't think that men become bisexual due to women become aggressive and/or repulsive against men.

Bisexuality is an orientation, a person's ssexual identity. You either are or are not bisexual and this has nothing to do with external factors, such as women's attitude towards men.

The existence of many bi men in your city does not come as a surprise to me. In our days, people are more eager to explore their sexuality and be open to their feelings. Also many LGBTQ people prefer to live in big, more tolerant cities, rather than small conservative towns.

This is also the case for me (Athens, Greece). You will find more bi people in Athens than in small towns which are more homophobic and biphobic.

Here are some questions that need to be answered first:

1. Are you sure he is gay? nothing in your description mentions that.

2. Are you sure that he is over the age of consent? realy you need to be extra careful about that.

3. Suppose that he is gay and legal. Had he any sexual experiences before? The answer to this question leads to a different approach.

Now, approaching him depends on many factors, for example how open he is to older guys, the environment and social cycle etc. If you the town you live is a small town, and not very gay friendly, this could have severe consequences. 18 is still considered too young by some parents and it may cause drama.

Check his social media status and try to figure out were he stands. This is a good and safe start.

Again, be sure that he is over the age of consent.

I like the idea of gangbang with me as the bottom. It is a fantasy I have and I like gangbang pon.

I had a some sort of gangbang in the past (me and 3 top men) but this is the maximum I can get. In reality I am afraid of doing a gangbang with more persons. I am not very well "trained" to recieve so many dicks at the same time, I am afraid of accidents and pain.. Seriously I am not sure how many porn stars are able to get this through

I watch porn every day, but when I go to my parents' house I can stay without watching porn for more than 20 days.

I also have a big porn collection stored in my hard drive but not 2 TB

I have a profile on romeo

I had sex with married men and multiple partners

So you decide the level of my addiction

Yes I have heard that, an ex boyfriend had this kind of fetish and proposed to me, but I could not suscribe to that

str8 men that have sex with men? this does not makes sense.
I had sex with several married men who identify as str8 but they are so eager to have sex with a man. Well they need to accept the fact that they are bisexual if not gay at all.

Generally speaking, my experience with married men did not leave me with good memories. Yes sex was hot sometimes, but their identity issues does not let them be totaly relaxed.

Also, it pisses me off when most of them express homophobic opinions which I find both hypocritical and intolerant.

In conclusion, I have decided to avoid those kind of men. Why? I feel that they are selfish. They think that we exist only to please them, but when it comes to equality they are against us.

It is very sad that you are involved in such a difficult and risky situation. I believe that maybe you should consult with a lawyer (find a friendly one) and conisder the possibility of legal action.
Also check if there are organizations and NGOs that provide support to victims of abuse and ask them if they can help you.

It seems to me that he wants to be st8 but he cannot ignore his natural urges for men. Sooner or later he may come in terms with his sexuality but that should not be your concern at this momnet.

I had a similar experience which did not end well. If you can stay in the safe zone of sexual encounters then it is ok but if you have feelings it is better to take your distance from him. This guy will never accept you as a central part in his life, he does not respect you and he refuses to give you his phone number. You will only be a fringe part of his life and he will come to you only when he will want sex with men.

There are many men out there who would be more open and available for you, don't be disapointed.