@Kekkaishi:

I would also like to try escort services but due to the nature of the visit and "who might see what" situation, I have never tried it.
can someone please give me courage to do so? any advice?

I always keep some extra courage in the back on my pantry for moments just like this. take it, its yours.
Just be smart and if something doesn't seem right it probably isn't. But go live your life honey, sex work isn't anything to be weird about

I'm an Asian American but I find that many people in Vietnam on dating apps are looking for older white men, specifically sugar daddies, so some of it could be a money thing. Tried the sugar daddy thing, didn't like it. Although, I definitely was getting more hits from older white men when I was younger.

And up until 4 years ago, I was attracted to everything but Asians. Come to find out I was looking in ALL the wrong places lol

FYI my husband of 8 years is black so this is definitely not always true

Wear shinny shoes and get your foot close to the stall wall  :laugh:

You should have joined him!

@manrmen:

in pakistan, if a family member stains the honor of the family, they usually kill that member.

I’m not sure I agree with the word "usual" in this context. What you describe in your post is that in Pakistan every family is a mafia and a prison at the same time and is composed of pure psychopaths (and all of this literally). I am absolutely sure situations like these do happen, but they are not usual, because we’re all human beings and we’re not that different. We tend to show more respect and love to people with whom we live.

If what you say is absolutely true and that person risks his life by living at his parents, it would be insane to continue doing this. If for some reason I knew my parents were about to kill me, I wouldn’t just stand here waiting for my death. Maybe it’s just me, but I think it’s completely insane to live with psychopaths.

@JohnAllenson:

I've honestly seen a number of videos with aggressive or power bottoms.  It's just a really big bias in porn that the top is understood as more masculine (str8 presenting).
Look for some of the versatile guys who do both:  Rafael Alancar, Colby Keller, Xavier Ryan, Blake Mitchell….

Versatile..  :love:

Did you manage to do something in the direction you described?

@aleksopoulos:

personally i cant undrestand how people can like both

I don't understand how my mobile phone works.
I don't understand why some of the roses in my garden are white, and why some are red.
I don't understand how the universe is 14 billion years old still expanding.

The fact that I don't understand these things doesn't mean they aren't real.  And it doesn't mean that they aren't valuable, and good, parts of the world.

Hi Alveer!
Sidhart. Wow! I love him too.

Get someone to buy it for you if you can. And make sure you hide it somewhere they will NEVER look. Not a usual hiding spot, gotta be better than that.

Are they homophobic? Might not be worth the risk. Use a cucumber and throw it away after?

I love it.  Let's me know I'm a good for nothing, faggot cum whore.

Was a part of a group of about 10 once.  I'm vers, and I think I sucked every cock, rimmed every ass, fucked every willing bottom, and took a load from each top.  It was incredible.

Witnessed, no.  I was too busy choking on dick and fingering my hole to pay attention to what everyone else was doing.

@pmiller586

Cialis is much more suitable for longer sessions. My bf used once one and he was hard almost a weekend
I would suggest to consult a doctor before taking it

I had no idea this was a thing and I would never do it. But I do love a blindfold during sex (when I know who im having sex with) so I can totally understand how it could be really fun

I certainly haven't seen one that isn't a scam. I had one bot pretending they had to use it because they were previously a victim of a gaybashing which is a pretty despicable manipulation of people's empathy and fears around dating while queer.

If taking a fresh photo and arranging to meet in a safe public space isn't enough for these bots they will just have to go without.