Posts made by z3n1th

Yes, I'll weather it coz I think a million bucks is worth the short term pain…

For a million dollars, would you give up the chance to have a month-long experience with your favorite celebrity?

No poppers sex… I don't know why, but they give me a lingering headache...

Pre-arranged sex, or spontaneous sex?

Nope.. but I wish I could…

TPBM suffers from depression

Interracial and Bareback…

Pickle…

Simone Biles, or Michael Phelps?

Selena Gomez - I love you like a love song?

One previous serious relationship… In my second serious relationship now...

ROFL… that's funny... And yes, I would have it for a million bucks... but do some serious manscaping after that...

For a million dollars, would you give up driving (on the road)?

I actually quite liked IX… I think it's a bit underrated and undermentioned...

but yeah, does bring me back to a simpler time

Black (lactose intolerant), and sugarless (family history of diabetis)… but I'm used to and loving it!!

With clothes on… My skin is sensitive to my bedding... maybe I should change bedding

Yes, I do… It's mainstream for a reason... lol

TPBM does NOT own a car..

Have you ever considered getting it professionally waxed? Like a boyzillian…

I do mine once every 6 months because after you do it regularly enough, your hair starts growing back slower... so it wouldn't cost that much...

@Diakon:

I've had it happen to me plenty of times that I'd have a crush on or fall in love with someone, then eventually those feelings would turn into a sibling-like kind of love and the attraction would be completely axed, but that included both sexual feelings and romantic love. So when it happens only to one aspect of it, that's certainly unexpected, for me at least.

Are you still intimate with your boyfriend in any way? Do you feel the desire to kiss him and be romantic with him, even if you don't feel the sexual attraction? Conversely, when you're not in a relationship, do you normally engage in casual sex without any romantic attachment and actually enjoy it? If you have complicated feelings about sexual attraction in general that could be the source of this, but otherwise, if it truly only happens after you've started a relationship, and the romance is still there, then I'm not too sure.

Thanks so much for your response…

I do feel the desire to kiss him... and we are romantic with one another... and I love him more than ever, and am still excited with butterflies when I see him... and he does want to have sex with me like, all the time... but when I do have sex, it feels like it's a scheduled chore and that's the only aspect of our relationship that is a problem... hence we have been in an open relationship for the past 3 years - but it's a strong one and we are very connected/compatible/happy.

Since the romance is still there, I guess I'll have to accept that you are "not too sure" about it... lol... but thank you so much for your time and reply

Thanks for your reply.. I'd figure I'd ask because this forum actually did help me resolve my previous dilemma…

Perhaps if anyone else is experiencing something similar to I am, they could elucidate their situation so that I may find my own clarification... perhaps, I'm not really even seeing the underlying issue..

Fit guy… I find muscle builders to be a bit intimidating... lol

For a relationship: Ugly rich guy who is down to earth, or poor hot dude who is wild

Not on myself… but tattoos on other guys... YES!!

TPBM has been to Thailand

Everytime I fall in love and engage in a relationship, I find that my sexual attraction for that person will automatically be gone… Is there anyone else out there who is like this, or is there a fix or diagnosis for this issue?

I really find this to be a problem and feel bad for my boyfriend who thinks he's not attractive when really... that's how I have always been, even in the past...

Suggestions welcome

Nope… Laughter is a big part of my happiness, more so than money... and isn't that what we are all trying to aim for... happiness?

For a million dollars (USD presumably), would you be willing to have unprotected sex with 20 random anonymous men w/o the aid of PreP...

Used to, but I did lasik and now I don't… I still wear sunnies tho...

TPBM has had sex with more than 100 men...