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Playgirl?! lol :cool2:

Usually the super roided freak look does nothing for me, but there are exceptions where I find it crazy hot, especially on really tall guys. They can get away with more muscle mass and still look really good . I don't like lean muscle that much either though. Definitely gotta have big bulging bis and broad built shoulders.

same here :cry2:

For Me it would have to be Tipping The Velvet.

granted its a lesbian themed period movie based in the victorian era
but since i identify as Pansexual , i couldn't care less , it was highly erotic for me to watch
and i still find it erotic

The pics came from the unrated dvd version that I have of the film.  Perhaps you have an 'R' or somehow censored/cut version of the film.  I remember it being hard to track down my uncensored copy in the U.S.

The interviews I remember from the time indicated that the actual sex was simulated – he wasn't fucking the woman on set, just pretending to -- but when he steps back, that it is Stephen Dorff's actual soft, condom covered cock.

I found a discussion on imdb that seems to reference the interview I remember from way back then. The director (Lee Daniels - of "Precious", "The Butler", and U.S. television's "Empire" fame) had discussions with the US ratings board to find out exactly what he could show and not get an X or NC17 rating.  Apparently a soft, condom covered cock was ok for an 'R' rating.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0396857/board/nest/70847951?p=2

@herbert967:

@Joshuadean:

The right should be there but I think it's mostly a farce anyway, with so many failed marriages, why would we want to follow down that same path!?

I believe in gay divorce rights just as much as straight divorce rights.

How f'ing pointless

I have a neighbor who I found out has always been gay, but got married at 42, had 2 kids who are now 6 and 2. I found out he is fucking a 32 year old man who lives down the block. He tried to force me to sell him my house for 20% of its value so he could move his boyfriend into my house which is across the street from him. I told him to get lost, and somehow his wife found out that he's been fucking the guy down the block. They are now heading for a divorce. He never dares even talk to the guy down the block anymore, but the damage has been done.

@scramer:

If you are unsure of how you really identify, if you live in an area where there is a lot of violence towards LGBTQ individuals or discrimination (particularly if there are not anti-discrimination laws on the book), you are dependent on your homophobic family for rent/living, you have no support or you simply do not feel ready. It is your decision if, how and when to "come out."

I would agree..

:angel2:

@scramer:

If possible, go out and meet more gay or bi guys in your area. Start seeing more guys who might like you and you will probably find some who you like and could fall for

That is a very practical answer. Thumbs up!  :urock:

I know plenty who are religious and gay. You can certainly cling to the traditions you grew up with without actually believing. That's also nice.

i think the definition of str8/gay/bi sometimes is blurry
but a str8 guy can totally enjoy involving any sexual activities with his mates….....that s just sex to him.......nothing more

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@Godabed:

Sexuality can only be defined by the person themselves and whom they prefer to have sex with.  It doesn't matter if they have sucked a million and 1 dicks or have taken it up the ass a billion times. If they prefer to have sex with Women they are Heterosexual. No one has the right to try and define someone else's sexual orientation.

Exactly! I agree 100%.

Who is more gay, a guy who is forced by a gun to his head to perform sex with another man or lose his life (but who never fantasizes, seeks out, or watches any gay sex) or a virgin teenage boy who has never had sex with any man, but who constantly beats off to the thought of guys, and who has to hide his boner whenever he's in the locker rooms around other naked guys? Clearly the teen who has never had sex with another man is more gay than the guy who has had sex with another man (under duress).

How many gay men in here would have sex with a woman for $10,000,000 tax free? Does that make them straight? There are also plenty of gay men around the world (more so in the past) who regularly have sex with women just in order to stay in the closet. That doesn't make them straight or bi. They do it for reasons other than desire or arousal.

Comments suggesting that erections are not physiological reactions (and that they are somehow only controlled by desire) are biologically illiterate. Erections can be caused by physical or mental stimuli. If the penis is physically stimulated, it will react. It's no different to laughing when being tickled (even when you don't find being tickled funny). Sure, straight men are unlikely to get (or stay) hard from the visual stimuli of another man, but that's why so many of them can suck a dick for 10 minutes straight and remain fully soft, but as soon as they start receiving a blow job (or using another guy as a human fleshlite) they end up getting a boner.

Sexuality is on a spectrum, so there will be straight guys who are utterly repulsed and disgusted by gay sex and others who just find it mildly unpleasant and undesirable. Clearly the former group are not going to be the ones who are doing gay4pay.

Sexuality is not defined by who you have sex with, it's defined by who you WANT to have sex with.