I tend to fall for guys I can't get. How to fix this
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like married guys or straight guys in general
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isn't this just the human condition? Even with heterosexual infatuations?
Or maybe I'm just another person susceptible to this scenario – it's not necessarily straight guys that I fall for, so much as guys I know that will never perceive me as being in their league. I become the supportive, attentive, reliable "good friend" for them instead, the always-available shoulder to cry on.
We always yearn for that which we can't have.
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Sorry, get your act together and try to find someone who is into you… if it's unavailable guys or ending as the shoulder to cry on, NO FUCKING WAY.
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Pretend your feelings are a piece of paper. Slowly and tightly screw them into a paper ball. Toss them in the fire. Smile while they burn. Always worked for me
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If possible, go out and meet more gay or bi guys in your area. Start seeing more guys who might like you and you will probably find some who you like and could fall for
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I think it's pretty normal, there's more straight men than gay men in the world and society. We often like Straight men because they're manly, strong, and serious. We have the idea that a straight man might be an amazing lover, but that's not completely true. Well, in a way yeah, in my experience straight men usually are merciless-nasty-dom tops, which is good for my ass and inner slut, but at the same time, it's almost impossible to have a relationship with them. I often want something more than just sex, I want a kiss, cuddling, get cozy, and sleep together; and "straight" men are not willing to give you that, if they're willing to have sex with you, all what they want is use your body as an orifice to satisfy they're own pleasure and shot their loads, which in a way is hot and delightful, but it's not enough.
I guess you often fall for manly men. What you need to do is find a gay manly man, or at least a Bi one. Go outside, meet people, don't expect that a man will magically appear in your life, you have to find him! Stop fantasying about men around you, go outside, and try to meet people like you. If you haven't came out yet, that would be the first step.
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If possible, go out and meet more gay or bi guys in your area. Start seeing more guys who might like you and you will probably find some who you like and could fall for
That is a very practical answer. Thumbs up! :urock:
