Posts made by spam17

@frontlemon:

RPG's for staple, FPS to take a break… :laugh:

@cannonmc:

@spam17:

I enjoyed reading your detailed answer..

But was it necessary to quote all those details in full ?

Sorry, I should have used a spoiler..

:cheesy2:

@frontlemon:

just testing the postings

Well done!!

::)

@poltergeist:

I haven't. Still a virgin. I'm waiting for the right moment and comfortability :cheers:

;D

@MeatHook:

Whether or not to advertise your sexual preference is a purely personal thing, of course.  I think the real test though would be how you'd respond if someone assumed you were straight, or outright asked you.  Would you correct them or tell them you're gay?

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That's a good question..

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@poltergeist:

I think you should first find out what do they think about gays in general…

That could also be your startup discussion..

Good luck!

@horyna:

my parents, it took them a while, my mom had the "go see a doctor" for a week or so but I answered that that will never happen. Well, you must give others some time to adjust and it was 25 years ago.

Now they have fully accepted now and tell their friends and everybody who wants to know.

I've been out to school in the 90s too, that was exhausting.

In the 90s?

That should have been much different than it is nowadays..

@horyna:

I don't hide being gay, everybody knows. I left it to my sisters to tell their children themselves but that is more a thing of being lazy.  ;D

Lazy to your young relatives?

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I guess that almost everyone fears coming out in such family situations..

:blink:

Facing the consequences of being kicked out is stil not so easy..

:blink:

@antstorm:

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why would be out and Muslim be any different than say out and catholic or out and mormon , out and hindu or Jew ?

That's a good question..

;D

I guess that at the end it doesn't matter so much..

;D

Friends..

::)

@deko:

My straight crush who btw outed me to the entire school at the time

So, was that bad luck or did it "help" you afterwards?

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@scramer:

If you are unsure of how you really identify, if you live in an area where there is a lot of violence towards LGBTQ individuals or discrimination (particularly if there are not anti-discrimination laws on the book), you are dependent on your homophobic family for rent/living, you have no support or you simply do not feel ready. It is your decision if, how and when to "come out."

I would agree..

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@chatnoire:

26 and not out yet. Not exactly closeted though but I prefer not to say. My parents don't know (or maybe they do but I haven't declared yet to them) but my friends know. My public social media accounts are open to see the followers/friends list which consist of mostly shirtless guys.

Are they -your social media accounts- really open?

Are you so comfortable with that?

@pornom4n:

@karllos37:

Mothers always know, this is a fact

Trust me, my mother was leterally shocked when I told her
Anyway, maybe she knew but she was in complete denial…

It's hard to tell if they know or not..

@snickersgif:

I just read a book about raising boys (don't ask why) and there was a chapter on gays. It stated that boys could turn out to be gay and to accept them and know that schools were teaching kids to also accept it and blah blah blah. So my question is why the parents that read this still don't understand that being gay is part of your identity and it's not a choice.

I guess that most of the parents haven't read such bibliography..

@hean:

just dont fucking care…
and u will be fine

It's easily said..

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