Posts made by SoulsRevenge

1. Special Forces (Aleksandr Voinov)
2. Cut and Run Author(s)/Gloria H. Giroux
3. C.S Pacat/Crimson Nights Saga (V.L. Moon and J.T. Cheyanne)
4. Ginn Hale/Caethes Faron (Devotion series)
5. Maris Black/Sean Kennedy/Jane Seville

Speedos

Never tried beer, as for wine, I don't like it that much. Off topic but I love my hard liquor. Some scotch, whiskey, vodka, etc are nice.

I have board games where I live, sadly, I live alone so usually I just go out for a walk depending on the time of day (and if the weather permits). If not pull out a candle, and read some of my books. I use to hang out with friends and at their house, they had tons of board games and things like cards. So we usually play cards when the power goes out. Or just talk, you know, about random shit.

Brantley Gilbert - Just As I Am

No type of foreskin restoration at this point is truly a foreskin. It's just pulling what's already there to stimulate growth. I don't know much and if it'll act just like a true foreskin (keeping moisture).

I love cats. Dogs? I hate them, mostly because dogs acquire more attention. Cats are more solitary.

I never did like the smell of fags (cigarettes). The smell is a huge turn off to me. Mainly because I have really sensitive sense of smell. Things like perfume and stuff makes my head spin and etc. If it were a prop fag then sure, it'll be hot but once it's lit, it's a big no for me.

Typically any copious amount of anything can be bad. With sex, it depends whether or not you are topping or bottoming. If topping, do consider when Chuck Negron had tons of sex that made him penis swell… ignoring his doctor's warnings, he continued and his penis split in half with a pleasant ripping sound. As for bottoming, it should be fine as long as you aren't doing anything like taking up a dick that's too big for you to handle. However be warned of anal fissures, excessive sex with an anal fissure is serious.  :crazy2:

I never grew up with pets besides fishes. When I find my own place and have a nice stable income I'll adopt a few kittens. I honestly just love cats. I'll never adopt a dog though.

While this is great news to anyone gays or straight. My honest opinion on this is I wouldn't jump on it. Just because we are able to convert cells to sperm/egg cells, does not mean that there won't be any issues. However, chances are it won't be my lifetime before a full research is done on how the children are though. Plus, I'll rather adopt, there's enough kids in this planet.

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Hmm, there's specifically no health concerns from having foreskin. The main problem is that people may not clean them thoroughly or even at all. Some guys have difficulty pulling it back to clean, or other's are too thick so it's also a problem. Some just don't want to deal with it at all. I for one had my circumcision when I was a wee baby. I at least wished my parents would have let me grow up to decide that for myself, but no they took that away.

I should probably mention that my foreskin didn't go back at all, so that's why it had to be done. To be honest I so far I think i prefer it this way. It looks much nicer. I do wish it would have been done when I was a kid.

Hmm that's a very wise decision for getting rid of foreskin if it's a problem. I respect your opinion of wanting to get rid of it when young since it is less painful as you'll never remember it. A couple of things I should mention that having a choice is the main part of what's important. For you, you grew up with it and found it discomfortable. However when boys are circumcised at a young age, there's no telling whether or not they will have the same problem of being unable to pull it back, etc. Some may have been perfectly fine to keep theirs, but it was removed. Not for health concerns that are apparent later on the road, but mainly to avoid such a problem, or being misinformed and removing it based on the doctor's reconmendation. Doctors never know if it will be a problem for a boy, but they convince parents to do so.  We are the ones that know ourselves best, not the doctors. So the main debate about circumcision, is the lack of choice for boys who grew up without it. Painful yes because you're doing it when older, but you will be able to live with that since it is your choice. For me, I can live with the fact that I never had it, but not having a choice is why I am more saddened about not having it. I would rather experience it myself and then live with if I decide to keep it or chop it. In America back then, most men had it removed. There will always be men who feel more intense about it than others. This isn't a cancerous thing that needs to be removed, so some may feel mutilated, as it wouldn't kill them for keeping it. However this topic of circumcision can go on and on but I'll just stop here. But again, it is WHEN it becomes a health concern it should be removed, not before.

Hmm, there's specifically no health concerns from having foreskin. The main problem is that people may not clean them thoroughly or even at all. Some guys have difficulty pulling it back to clean, or other's are too thick so it's also a problem. Some just don't want to deal with it at all. I for one had my circumcision when I was a wee baby. I at least wished my parents would have let me grow up to decide that for myself, but no they took that away.

Hmm…. I came out to my friends through text. Not the best way to do it, but hey my friends are pretty chill so it's not like telling them in front of them will changed anything.

Yeah, I like it, it's more about the intimacy factor that you can do it with someone you care about.

George Michael - Faith
Enrique Iglesias - Bailando (spanish)

Depends. There are many different ways to enjoy things with friends. Going out to eat and just chatting, doing an activity (anything that peaks an interest, like going to a rollerblading derby, sports if that's interesting, karaokee helps with deepening friendships a lot, just don't make fun of anyone unless you are sure they can joke around, etc), or unless you just want talking, try interesting conversations (which ever, just hope it won't get out of hand). Watching movies is a good one, or showing off your music. Overall, it just depends what kind of thing they like doing. If your friends chat a lot, then just chat (however I recommend trying to persuade them to do an activity, it'll make things interesting). Below are a bunch of other activities.

Bowling, swimming, mini-golf, even walking around a mall, amusement parks if any, board games, cards, biking, going to museums/zoos, horseback riding, bake-off, laser tag, mounting climbing (the fake mountains), arts and craft (still fun even as grown ups, includes painting, drawing, making stuff, basically anything), water parks, go karts, etc. There's a lot to do, maybe search events that are happening in your town, those are fun too.

Everyone seems to have given you some good advice. The best would be to come out to him (if you honestly are courageous enough). Note that if he doesn't have a good attitude, then expect other things. Testing the waters is fine also like others said.

As for the post above me, it's fine if you ask questions when he's drunk sense guard is down. HOWEVER note that there are chances where it will end up being a violent situation. Especially since it's impossible to know what a person might do when drunk.

I find that the majority of the time, the reactions to such things are due to social factors. I believe in my honest opinion it's fine if a straight man wants to have sex with another man. It's just sex, in other terms, pleasure. Reactions to men having sex with other men, for example in western culture where masculinity is portrayed as being competitiveness, aggressiveness, shagging like rabbits, etc, men may be more aggressive when topics such as this comes up, but times are changing and others react differently. In other cultures like chinese, they show different traits in terms of masculinity, even they will have different reactions. Though, you'll be much better off getting opinions in other forums that aren't exactly as biased (I believe the majority of users are gay or bi, with occasional straight men). Hypothetically speaking and this is all made up in my mind, a straight men raised by same-sex parents are more willing to experiment or just do casual hook-ups with the same gender. It may not be accurate, but it gives you insight of how one is raised gives off different reactions.

I do not know what it is like to be gay in India, however the best advice I can give is gauging what your coworkers think about homosexuality. Even if the environment may not be accommodating to homosexuals, your work place might. If it is not a risk, you can bring up things that can be easily inserted in a normal conversation like asking what they think of the equal marriage that was legalized in the US. Try to see how they react, also depending on how they react, try to see if you can placate them. Say for example, they reacted horribly, try convincing them otherwise by saying other things. Simply it is just testing the waters. It'll at least give you an idea of how they will react. I live in Canada and when I liked this guy, I got to know him better, and a year later I just told him was bi (better than coming forth about being gay) since in their minds, being bi is safer than being gay. Anyways then I brought up this conversation me and my friend that we were bored and made this bet about whether me or her will end up marrying the better looking guy. He responded by laughing and saying that he would try and land the hottest girl. I found out that he was straight that day and just moved on.

Fair warning though, things don't always go to plan, so it's best to weigh your costs and the benefits.
For me, coming out to my parents is going to get me kicked out. So I'm just keeping it a secret until I can financially live by myself.