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Yes… More specifically, in recent times, we have seen a huge influx of serial cheaters attempting to abandon one account, then create another. By closing the signup to make it invite-only, we have effectively closed the door to this option.

u can share the link because dunno about this name ><

And here I was thinking this was a thread about RuPaul's Drag Race lol.

I've been around the block a few times, so have no illusions. Most people on the Gaydars Squirts, and Scruffs of this world are there for a quick shag at best, or a sneering browse at worst. So I have come to a few, perhaps jaded, conclusions.

If you are more than 40, beware; there's no fool like an old fool. Those winking twinks, gagging for your favours, are seldom what they seem.

If you are looking for a long term relationship, skip the sites. Chat to people at the bus stop, corner shop, or join a club. If you share an activity (stamp collecting, motorbike racing, scuba diving etc.) you are more likely to click.

95% of datesite users cannot accommodate. Why? Partners? Wives? Lodgers? Stranger Danger? So, if you are one of those who can you will become instantly attractive to others. Beware; inviting others (unknown others) into your house is a risk. Do some research before inviting. Perhaps meet them in a public place first. Take a photo of them, their car and anything else that could identify them later if things turn nasty. If you do let them into your place, make it tidy. Hide all the expensive stuff away. Remove temptation of that sort.

Be realistic. There will be some people who mess around. They may agree to meet, but make an excuse just before the time. Work, the wife, family crisis, sick dog. The list is endless. So you reschedule only to discover that the day before they caught the cold from hell. So it goes. Be kind, some of it may be true, but only allow three no shows before you quit that avenue. If they just don't turn up, leaving you high and dry, then call it a day just then. There is no excuse for such bad manners.

So, in conclusion, the answer to the question, Dating websites? Yay or nay? I have to say yay, but don't expect much more than an occasional no strings shag and be prepared for some odd timewasting folk.

I guess that almost everyone fears coming out in such family situations..

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@Lynxlux92:

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I painted my bedroom black, once. I don't suggest it. I had a 'vision' I was striving for, and like burgers looking excellent in pictures - but terrible irl - such did my room. It doesn't carry light well. It does have a nice effect from a ceiling light, but overall you always have a sense of being blind, or out in the dark.

Darker shades of other colours work quite nicely however. It darkens the room a bit - without the feeling of shrinking it - or the absence of sight. So go with something that wouldn't contrast too much with your floor and curtains (not dark grey either - it brings a wet cement feel to the room and looks horrid) By darker shade I don't mean navy blue to a light blue - more of a saturated shade inbetween. It's kind of amazing how dark a colour can look that isn't actually dark - or how light a dark colour can look x=

nothing yet guys?

If they put Stella back into the game I'd be incredibly impressed with Tabata

Until then, FFXV is on the "cautiously optimistic" backburner because I still don't believe they have a full game that will be released sometime this year

I would imagine that to some degree, muscular guys/bodybuilders have a bit of an ego - I mean you basically have to if you're going to devote so much time and energy + blood/sweat/tears towards sculpting your body. It's practically a lifestyle change - diet and exercise/weighttraining to get built - so yea, I'd expect muscular guys to have some level of egotism if they pour so much time into molding their physiques.

I live in an Indian household in the middle east. The chances of me not being kicked out of the house when I come out are very small (5% in my head).
So, whenever I think about coming out, for me, the scenario is almost always when I've graduated from university and have a steady job to at the least support my basic necessities.
It's definitely hard to think about, but I've just kind of come to the conclusion that my parents will not/ won't be able to accept me being gay.

But my advice to everyone, me included, is to make sure that you don't lose hope. No matter how small, there may be a chance that your family will be able to look past what society thinks and accept you for who you are.

Nevertheless, just for precaution, be sure that you can support yourself if you are kicked out.

Much love to all the people struggling with coming out!!  :love: :love: :love:

@cannonmc:

"We plough the field and scatter the good seed on the land"

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Yeah! Big time…..

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danlancey!

I quit bothering with all the cam sites. As others have mentioned, the models constantly ask for tips and set goals that ending making you stick around for a while, if you want to see anything. Not worth my time.

Friends of course, extended family then and finally, your parents, they will be the last ones to know and the most difficult ones to accept they might be both sad and disappointed (even angry) about the news, they can even argue whe "chose" this when deep inside they know that wasn't the case leading to yeeeeeeeeeaaaarrsss of therapy to cope with that moments, I have an ex that after he told their parents the subject was erased, that never happened and his mother keep suggesting him to get a girlfriend and settle for once, she bluntly ignored what happened and decided to pretend it has never ocurred. So yes, friends, also, a note, they only one who was a bit upset about the news turned up to be gay too 3 years later so careful with that, it's not only our process, it could be other's as well.