@kalayaan Deeply rejecting the sex you were born as (male/female) & feeling it's a horrible mistake is, to begin with, unstable or a process of mental illness - it used to be called Gender Dysphoria.
It goes beyond gender play, gender non-conformity and same-sex attraction, all of which are natural / they do not involve delusions, they do not involve you feeling that your own body is a nightmare.
I'd call Gender Dysphoria a type of extreme self-hate, or link it to the other body-hating or self-hating disorders like Body Dysmorphia, anorexia, self-mutilating, internal homophobia, etc.
It's sad. But doctors "affirming" someone's Gender Dysphoria with wrong-body hormones & surgeries may often add to the person's instability, yeah.
And society rewarding violence (what @raphjd said) adds to people's instability yet again.
It's going to get worse.
Certain powerful interests want to harm & destablilize humanity, for whatever reasons. They used to just promote Communism but nowadays they also promote Covid-ism, Climate-ism, Woke-Trans, wars / Russophobia, etc.
All the "isms" take a kernel of truth and tell masses of people to get crazy, violent & self-obsessed over it.
Each one smells like China's "Cultural Revolution" of the 1960s... because that was the prototype. That's where they had Mao & Lin Biao develop the propaganda techniques of scaring the masses and rewarding craziness.