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Anthares – Ralf would seem to be a product of my imagination and/or inability to read with sufficient comprehension. O. Henry once used the expression "a moment of temporary mental aparation," which pretty much sums it up. Grrr.

Thanks, Ralf. So a bigger head is better for the owner's enjoyment. And the idea of the foreskin as a site of particular pleasure sensors is certainly new to me. I assumed having the head covered kept IT more sensitive, but not that the prepuce itself was a potent erogenous zone. Don't think I have ever seen videos of anyone specifically stimulating their foreskin. Suggests an abundance of such skin can be enjoyable in different ways than typically thought of. Also suggests that "docking" is more than an intimate erotic connection but a different kind of stimulation. This added information– for which, thanks again!-- suggests possible impacts for the orally inclined. This is a topic about which I, for one, would like to know much more. Experiments will follow.

Still hoping someone can say whether men with big dicks have more sensors and sensations with the extra length and girth than those who have less flesh to stimulate. Is all about the size of the cock head or does more surface area of the shaft produce more points for arousal?

Happy to vote for Hillary or any other Democrat, but Bernie has been for gay rights longer and did not need to be wised up on the matter. Just go watch The Big Short and the 2011 Margin Call and spread the word.

Jacking, jerking, wanking, choking the chicken, bashing the bishop, painting the ceiling white… it's all good for you, it says here:

hXXp://www.iflscience.com/health-and-medicine/happy-news-masturbation-actually-has-health-benefits-0

For men, masturbation helps reduce risk of prostate cancer, probably by giving the prostate a chance to flush out
    potential cancer-causing agents.

Masturbation also improves immune functioning by increasing cortisol levels, which can regulate immune functioning
    in small doses. It also reduces depression by increasing the amount of endorphins in the bloodstream.

Also protects against STDs, and supposedly is good for your partner, too, if you like to watch or exhibit the popular
solo sex behavior. Why, even women not only enjoy pleasing themselves, they also get benefits, it says here.

A previous thread on his arrest is now old, but it did not include any update on the outcome of his arrest at LAX for carrying three bags of Crystal Meth up his butt. No sympathy for the fallible human on that earlier thread, either. Seemed to me that if he was high on the combination of drugs named and visibly tweaking as reported, he might not have been operating close to whatever his usual level of good sense might be, or he would not have gotten loaded in case he needed his remaining wits to deal with an emergency situation while attempting to smuggle drugs and being obviously in a non-standard state while navigating Big Brother Spy Central– an international airport full of scanners, sniffer dogs, and suspicious travelers in a time of well-funded religious and political panic.

Yup, right on the money. He apologized in court to the country whose laws he broke, said it was addiction that did him in, and credited his time in the nick for helping him get, as they say in the popular jargon, "clean and sober."

hXXp://www.gaystarnews.com/article/uk-porn-star-bruno-knight-gets-two-years-trying-smuggle-meth-out-lax-anus051214/#gs.xZmPDhk

So he pleaded guilty to attempting to smuggle 226 grams of speed with intent to sell. That's identified as half a pound or, if you are converting measurements for baking, just over one measuring cup.

Sentenced to two years, which typically would include the five months he spent sobering up in the federal pen waiting for trial, and time off for good behavior. Let the crassest and most vile among us now post some self-degrading prison rape comments because what could be funnier, right? Unless, I suppose, you or someone you know has been the victim of such pain and degradation.

Interestingly, Bruno Knight was reported to be a mere 31 years old when news of his sentence was reported on 5 Dec 2014, so he might  be out within the year, perhaps is even out already, what with prison overpopulation issues and the throw-away-the-key attitude toward nonviolent drug offenders. Not that for-profit prisons have any reason not to continue this barbaric situation, of course.

The big bear's real name is Patrick Jizzie (the stories spell it with a G but my spelling is much better) and in "Security Control," a film not on this site, he plays an airport security guard who searches a man's body for drugs. Personally, I like the whole manufacturing, packaging, and delivery system for the healthy youth serum males manufacture and have such joy spreading around as a "medicine for melancholy," or at least for their own. Why do I think that was not the drug he was looking for?

Shame. Just a bloody shame. And the beatdown goes on.

Of course this story might have been much worse if he had been driving that car while tweaked like that.

Gus Van Sant Re-Teaming with Dustin Lance Black on ABC Gay Rights Miniseries ‘When We Rise’

Gus Van Sant is boarding ABC’s gay rights movement miniseries “When We Rise” as an exec producer and director, Variety has learned. He will direct the first two-hour episode.

First announced in summer 2013, “When We Rise” has been in development for two and a half years. With Van Sant on board, the project is officially a go, and will soon head into production.

Van Sant’s appointment marks a reunion between the “Milk” director and Dustin Lance Black, who won an Oscar for writing the screenplay to the 2008 Harvey Milk biopic. Black is writing and exec producing “When We Rise” for ABC.

hXXp://variety.com/2015/tv/news/when-we-rise-abc-gay-rights-movement-gus-van-sant-dustin-lance-black-1201666289

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Not a handsome man by some standards, which should give hope to ordinary men everywhere who might find a fit young Speedo-wearing gay diver someone they'd like to chat up or otherwise entertain.

When they get to the part where naked men got frisky together, I know one athlete I'd like to see as one of the frolickers. Maybe he could fill in for a young Greg Louganis….

Series has been in development a LONG time. Let's hope it is as good as it ought to be, or even better.

Also, isn't it nice to see a director who started out with a small, highly personal film like "Mala Noche" continues to carry his sensibility and directorial skills into the mainstream?

Would bet lots of people have worn a used jock strap from someone else. Does that count? No, I've never done that, unfortunately,
but there is a certain appeal to wrapping your package in the same garb as someone who turns you on, so you can feel your equipment being held and rubbing against the same material that caught his crotch sweat, maybe picked up a few pubes, has a yellow stain or white crust for some reason fun to think about. Prince Philip wrote his mistress that he wished he could be her tampon. If I could be reincarnated as anything other than someone my biggest crushes wants to use as his sole and permanent sexual partner, of course I would do that. Oh, yes, let me be the one he wants most. Or the one They all want most and can enjoy one at a time or in an endless orgy.

But that aside, I sometimes do think it would be amazing to be reincarnated as all the jocks worn by all the world's best athletes, or at least become every condom they put to good use….

Apparently I still have not figured out how posting works because I just put up a half finished version of my half-assed commentary.

And yes, he has taken some gay roles. Why, James Dean and Marlon Brando and Rock Hudson played straight men all their lives. What does that prove?

PateKCartier: "Guys just don't get any hotter than Nick.  Fine as FUCK!  He is most likely straight or at the very least bi..  A buddy of mine was the grip on his "Jealous" video that he filmed with his then gf and said that they were very hot and heavy in his trailer between takes."

Anecdotes are not data, but that welcome insight (and it IS the Internet, etc.) is v much in line with everything else. I figure the more he fucks, the more partners, and the more often, the better for all of us. Might even turn on on screen some day. (Leaked videos? Oh, dream on and on. Why not) As it is, we've seen his butt in a number of episodes of Kingdom, including him fucking women and getting blown outside a gay bar.

OF COURSE there was nothing explicit, and it was all the usual things paid actors do with other professionals on set with a million people around, but it keeps the imagination lively.

He also has no problem showing off his outstanding abs, even for a crowd of fans at a gay bar. Considering the amount of poon he must be getting as a healthy very young heartthrob who is also world famous and a millionaire, how likely is he to be uptight about whether he is manly enough or run in fear at the thought some of his friends might think he plays That Way? And if he fucked the tattooed Beaver child on pay per view, would any fewer women want to spread for him? Would all the wannabes who would say, "That proves he's queer?" suddenly gain more credence? You think he's going to flunk auditions as a result?

Truth is, "real men" can fuck anyone they choose, with the usual legal limitations, of course. And if he wants to bellydance for a gay crowd, more power to him. If it turned out all these women flinging themselves at his… feet... are a bigger fraud than the preposterously nonsensical "war on Christmas" that wingnuts obsess over on an annual basis, so what? "Not that there's anything wrong with that" if he is gayer than an Ungaro spring frock, equally as strait as a rainbow, etc.

None of it means he's going to sleep with me, And while I have not met any of you, my guess is that unless you look a lot like him and have a similar amount of money, charisma, and fame, he ain't breeding you either. Hmm. Nor letting you breed him, for that matter. A corollary to real men remaining "real men" no matter their choice of partners, "real men" can "take it like a man" and bottom without suddenly developing a swish and lisp. Or a wrist injury. That is a matter of choice and preference and stuff, but "oh, that will make me some dude's bitch" is a sign to me that such a fool would lose all sense of his actual masculinity.

PateKCartier: "Guys just don't get any hotter than Nick.  Fine as FUCK!  He is most likely straight or at the very least bi..  A buddy of mine was the grip on his "Jealous" video that he filmed with his then gf and said that they were very hot and heavy in his trailer between takes."

Anecdotes are not data, but that welcome insight (and it IS the Internet, etc.) is v much in line with everything else. I figure the more he fucks, the more partners, and the more often, the better for all of us. Might even turn on on screen some day. (Leaked videos? Oh, dream on and on. Why not) As it is, we've seen his butt in a number of episodes of Kingdom, including him fucking women and getting blown outside a gay bar.

OF COURSE there was nothing explicit, and it was all the usual things paid actors do with other professionals on set with a million people around, but it keeps the imagination lively.

He also has no problem showing off his outstanding abs, even for a crowd of fans at a gay bar. Considering the amount of poon he must be getting as a healthy very young heartthrob who is also world famous and a millionaire, how likely is he to be uptight about whether he is manly enough or run in fear at the thought some of his friends might think he plays That Way? And if he fucked the tattooed Beaver child on pay per view, would any fewer women want to spread for him? Would all the wannabes who would say,

At this moment there is a freeleech torrent that sounded good, so I downloaded it and will watch soon.:
    Kus me zachtjes (2012) Eng Subtitle
    https://www.gaytorrent.ru/details.php?id=a8d99d2aaf3a3825721e650ad4175fa3d5f91ff06dd44df2

Meanwhile, in correcting the IMDB link in the description, I found myself musing aloud again and meandering off topic. Again. I wrote:

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Actually the IMDB link does not work, but whenever someone makes any attempt to provide that kind of link, it is obvious that the poster cares and has gone beyond uploading something, but taken some trouble to describe it. Oddly enough, not everyone even manages to do that.
This link:
    http://www.imdb.com/title/tt2599822/?ref_=fn_al_tt_1
takes you to the database, but it basically adds nothing since this  short film known in English as "Kiss Me Softly" contains no audience reviews and the always welcome Parental Advisory (wherein we may learn about issues like nudity, on-screen sex, violence, and the ever-popular drug advisory pointing out appearances of cigarettes, alcohol, and other often illegal pleasures) is also missing.
Ever notice how hard it is to find short films online? YouTube has a lot, full length movies as well, and lots of labeled Gay content, but unless a short turns up there or, in the case of gay topics, is in some collection of gay shorts, one is pretty much out of luck. If you go to IMDB and look up some favorite hunk to find out what he has been in that you missed, you will often find that Very Big Name Movie Stars have done shorts. Some are for DVD extras. Some are Making Of or Behind The Scenes stuff. But some is just some shot made by ka friend or by some film student for school.
Try and find those. Just try. It's often as hard as finding old television shows. Much loved Fast and Furious star Paul Walker had a whole show when very young, enticingly called Throb. Not anyway in English that I can find. Much more recently, hairy-chested and gay friendly Paul Rudd had a telly programme called Wild Oats. Did we get to see him spread his in every episode? Any episode at all? Probably not, but there does not seem to be a single episode online. For even more frustration, look up your own silver screen crushes.

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The reason I'm putting this comment here is that it is a peeve of mine. History, what's left of it from now until we grow gills, is that we have reached the point where history happens like a torrent. Years ago, when Usenet and email were all there was on the Internet, it was said that reading news from Usenet was like trying to drink from a firehose. Much worse today, on the Internet of Off.

Old books like The Gutenberg Galaxy and Future Shock barely hinted at the inundation of info and misinfo all around us. People you don't want to talk to make statements on their tee shirts. Buying clothes is like watching the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade– an endless succession of logos and corporate sponsors. Elected politicians should wear similar display patches to announce their sponsors just as many sports teams do, and probably all successful race car drivers.

But it is not possible to keep track of all the stuff, or to be on top of sorting the wheat from the chaff. Hence, blogs and Likes and other online clues. And still the good stuff gets lost. The entertainment industry has addressed the issue by creating an endless array of reward shows where people you've never heard of win awards in categories that rarely matter. Seems like there is such a spectacle once a week, just like there are more US football bowl games than there are games in the regular season.

The result is that stuff gets lost in the shuffle. Which is where the Intertoobz come in. (A  brilliant US politician from the party you probably have already guessed) described the Internet that way. Hint: He's in the same party that, unlike any other on earth, is angry over the Great Global Warming host that this year brought the US, for example, the hottest Christmas on record.)

If it were not for torrent sites like this one, lots of stuff really, truly, would be lost to the ages. Classic Hollywood movies with major, legendary stars and directors, would be unfindable, even for cash money. And specialty niche items like non-porn movies with gay themes is only the start of the accessibility problem

As mentioned earlier, try finding short films. Pretty much not all that handy except for the video site named. Old television is another problem. One season of The Man From Uncle is not online where I have looked, and neither is most of such long-running shows as Bonanza, a western in which young Michael Landon went commando and did not always get strapped down for discretion. Or Murder She Wrote, in which Angela Lansbury did not, afaik, sing a single note but solved a crime a week for what seems like half a century, ending every adventure with a freeze frame to capture her perennial twinkle at the camera.

And those were popular shows that ran forever. What about a 2014 show called "Anne and Jake" with Matt Dallas, somewhere between Kyle X/Y and being in the news for coming out and then for marrying his boyfriend. (We won't mention the leaked solo sex video.) And you remember what a hunk Ben Browder is in Farscape and Farscape, right? That fur. That basket. He did some TV movies, too, before he became famous, but where is Martian Law? Nowhere. Maybe lousy, but I've yet to see him in anything where he did not brighten the screen even when he did not outright steam it up.

The same situation exists for print media. Forget early gay skin books or even the strait ones, some of which were ghostwritten by authors now very, very famous indeed. Think instead about magazines. On any US newsstand you can find titles along the lines of Teen Stars, Unthreatening Boys Named Corey, Skateboarders Shred, Longboards Rule, Nearly Naked Workouts, Hunks in Soap Operas, The Scent of Cage Fighters, Recipes You Might Not Have Seen Yet, Things You Can Knit....

Try to find any of those a month later. They are maybe randomly found in used book/magazine stores or if you are quick enough, maybe you can get a back issue from the publisher. But in general, hobby magazines, almost every sports magazine, and similar transient, time-sensitive stuff is just lost in the Gutenberg Galaxy. It's not on microfilm. It's not in libraries. It's all basically evaporated. Heaven help the person trying to research one of those topics, or to find out what Men's Magazines featured over the years and how it changed. Pro boxing is covered and even archived, but bicycling? Good luck with that.

And microfilm is another problem. Not only was everything scanned years ago, and badly much of the time, but then the originals were all discarded because the cheap newsprint was costly to preserve and if you have not thrown out last week's daily papers yet, you already know the bulk involved for storage. Unfortunately, Sunday colour magazines and comic supplements got saved, if at all, in unscintiallating black and white that does nothing to preserve or showcase covers by leading artists of the day. Comics fans are making old Pogo color strips available, slowly, but that is hardly the norm.

"Suddenly the past has fallen in behind us." A whole generation of young Brits has never heard of Shakespeare or complete the sentence that begins with "Romeo, Romeo...." But then, there are more Americans who believe the Lunar Landing was a hoax than supports of the pig party's billionaire assumptive candidate sometimes called The Ego (or with a reference to the Mafia he has been linked to in some detail, The Don). I'm horrified by people who have never seen Mae West, W.C. Fields, or The Marx Brothers. Since they would not know Fred Astair from Ginger Rogers, it's all fairly hopeless....

But at least, thank the godz, there are torrent sites where classics are preserved, where there are documentaries and feature films and such useful options as collected sex scenes without the rest of the movie getting in the way. Everyone who downloads something and seeds it helps preserve the culture and its variants. That does not mean you can find all of Harry Reems, but like Jeff Stryker, at least some of his work is around.

Oh, phooey. Sic transit, etc. Aren't these lovely icebergs we can watch from the deck? Stop, hey, what's that sound? Everybody look what's going down....

Not that anyone has complained about the omission in the post above, but the calendar can be discovered at

hXXp://www.menwhobern.com/

through Dec 28.

A pathetic article with the above title has been posted at

http://pophitz.com/17-gay-actors-who-have-yet-to-admit-they-are-gay

It includes a number of speculations, smears, and stereotypes that some might find offensive. And while you and I may not think it is a smear for a person to be identified as gay, whether they are or not, the lip-smacking innuendo in this article sure treats the claims as something more shameful than hiding one's private life. Also, much of it is simply idiotic.

The first thing one notices is that little Tommy Mapother, couch-bouncing cult shill acting under his better known screen name in such hits as Risky Business, where he appeared in an attractive pair of tighty-whities (briefs). and All the Right Moves, where careful frame inspection shows his naked willy is visible (no big thing). Or perhaps you may remember him playing against Val Kilmer in Top Gun. (Whether forthcoming Top Gun 2 will have the same manly appeal as the original remains to be determined.)

But while the most widely believed closet story in Hollywood is overlooked, speculation otherwise runs wild.

Seann William Scott "tends to act a little gay." What does that mean? He acts like Harvey Fierstein? Joe McCarthy? Andy Warhol? Ed Koch? Rock Hudson? David Kopay? Justin Fashanu? Maybe dead 911 hero Todd "Let's Roll" Beamer? Or NY Fire Chaplain Mychal Judge, a first responder who died that day at the World Trade Center?

Is "acts a little gay" a code phrase for "lisping, limp-wristed, and swish? There is NO gay "lifestyle."

Want to know what "straight" men act like? Judgmental racist bigots? Child abusers? Wife beaters? Mass murderers? People like the 'phobe who showed up in comments to proclaim, loudly just as if anyone cares, that HE will schlong any queer fairy fruit who raises his paranoid suspicion for fear that without a violent response he will be giving permission?

John Travolta "appeared in several musicals (including dressing as a woman and singing a love song with Christopher Walken)… And Hugh Jackman played a gay singer in his one-man show on Broadway. What's your point? Christopher Walken sang a  love song with John Travolta, but you're not implying anything about Walken for some reason.

Josh Hutcherson: Good to know that anyone who posts naked selfies, publicly campaigns against hate, or has ever been in a photo with Cher is a latent fag.

Tyler Perry: "He does have a girlfriend, whom he recently impregnated which might suggest he’s not really gay. In any case he needs to come out." So if you have fathered a child, you are "not really gay." but need to come out annyway? WTF?

Hey, ya wanna know what a gay man looks like? Look in the mirror! "But... but... I'm not gay." That's my point. Wanna know what a "straight" man looks like? Look in the mirror?

BTW, Aussie heartthrob Brenton Thwaites, discussed at

https://forum.gaytorrent.ru/index.php?topic=26999.msg192239#msg192239

was asked in an interview, "What do you look for in a partner?" and promptly inquired, "Male or female?" That may or may not have been a sendup for what he considered a stupid and inappropriate question, but it does not seem to have triggered any speculation from the author of the clickbait to which these remarks are a response.

Also, for all the wishful speculation about famous ab man Nick Jonas, they don't get around to speculating about him either. Hmm.

The old democratic socialist from Vermont who is running for president of the United States is raising money from individuals, not corporate fronts. And someone has created a hunk calendar to support him. It includes the dates of primaries and so on, and monthly eye candy. The money does not go to the campaign of Bernie Sanders (lots of legal issues), but is used for organizing for the candidate in New York.

Must be the first calendar ever made for a US presidential candidate that makes such an obvious effort to reach and please Gay voters. Time is running out. More info and images at MenWhoBern.com

Non citizens of the US cannot legally donate to a US presidential campaign, but buying a calendar where the proceeds go to an independent organization is not a problem, so if you have wanted to do something as the world's greatest and most conceited country goes stark-staring mad, you might at least go look at the pictures.

For those who will not say "Merry Christmas" because they think it is a religious holiday,
perhaps the above saucy remark will work. You know what Hollandais is, don't you? Just
what some of us would like in order to have a white Christmas.

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Three men died on Christmas Eve and were met by Saint Peter at the
pearly gates.

"In honor of this holy season," Saint Peter said, "you must each
possess something that symbolizes Christmas to get into heaven."

The first man fumbled through his pockets and pulled out a lighter.

He flicked it on. It represents a candle, he said.

You may pass through the pearly gates Saint Peter said.

The second man reached into his pocket and pulled out a set of keys.
He shook them and said, "They're bells."

Saint Peter said you may pass through the pearly gates.

The third man started searching desperately through his pockets and
finally pulled out a pair of women's panties.

St. Peter looked at the man with a raised eyebrow and asked, "And
just what do those symbolize?"

The man replied, "They're Carol's."

And So The Holiday Season Begins….

Have not seen this discussed anywhere, but if it has been, people here ought to know and large or small, they are likely to be well qualified to offer an opinion.

So when I see or experience a big one, what strikes me is the long distance the head can travel, the amount of staff that is stimulated by the pressure and the motion. There are as many sensors per square millimeter/inch for a foot-long as well as a small dong, right? Actually, I have no idea whether the amount of sensors is spread with the same density from man to man, but assuming they are equal, doesn't that mean the long, thick elephant trunk has more nerves to fire than those of us who never have to think about whether we dress right or dress left in our underwear, or even when clothed but going commando.

If a big, stiff one can send a "catcher" into happy swoons, doesn't the "pitcher" have at least as much opportunity to rejoice as the whole engorged wand gets increasingly excited?

Cocksuckers may enjoy the way fresh hot seed expands their partner's already hard nozzle as it moves toward the gaping hole it will gush out of. The longer the distance, the more of that feeling there is. And if a long, thick prong is stimulating whatever body part is encasing it, they equally are stimulating all that exciting flesh. So again, the more flesh, the more potential neurons available to go nuclear at the moment of meltdown.

The downside of Big is that not everyone can handle it. A woman may always be sore. Porn stars are paid to have what Looks like great sex, whatever they may feel, but those with notable size have figured out ways to keep their professional counterpart sufficiently stimulated and happy that they'll come back for other scenes rather than be destroyed. Maybe that is why so often fucking only involves an inch or two of penetration, or a hand wrapped around the shaft while the head is molested by lips and tongue is all the actual flesh involved.

Seems like kind of a waste of perfectly good size, if properly controlled with experienced motion, but at least no one gags or fails to be entered by at least some of the dick, even if no more than the, uh, pleasure dome.

Anyway, for pros there are workarounds to look like the centaur (half man, half horse), is breeding happily. But assuming it all fits where it wants to go and plumb new depths and provoke prostate pressures rarely available– if the size is not inconvenient for either partner, then doesn't the bat boy have more stimulation than the average horndog?

Maybe all that counts is the amount of surface area at the bell end (esp. the frenum and corona). In which case does a giant mushroom head produce more pleasure for the peter pusher than a bigger rod with a smaller knob?

It's just that I keep thinking, boy, that dude has so much more sensitive area to work with than most, I wonder if that makes it easier for him to climax. I wonder whether he enjoys having so much throbbing length as he ejaculates. Does that affect the quality and power of his orgasms? Or is it just a lot of extra enjoyment during the buildup to launch.

Since we all only know what WE feel with our own dick, whatever size it is, however hard it gets and whatever the angle of its dangle and the amount of mass to the ass, there may be no way to know any of this stuff anyway, short of someone in a lab counting neurons or something (91, 92... Now I have to start all over again, dammit!), but any input (ahem) would be welcome.

It surprises me that no one is saying they have had sex with str8s who got off and perhaps even repeated the experience, even though they are busy pursuing sex with women, often even lots of women.

Back before the love that dare not speak its name because the love that would not shut up, there was a time when most everyone you knew was strait, virgin or otherwise. If they had sex with a man "faut de mieux," that was just being horny and welcoming the convenience, not their real interest.

Perhaps it is hard for men today to believe that kids fooling with kids etc. does not mean lies and hypocrisy, but a man who is not afraid of who he is and what he wants can pretty much get off whenever circumstances allow. Good thing, too, because back when everyone lived in a closet or really was strait, the first and most important fact in getting laid did not involve a decision about the orientation of your lust object, but his attractiveness and availability.

Military men on leave from an all male environment of communal showers, communal sleeping in racks perhaps stacked three high, and toilets without separation all build up a head of… steam... for when they are allowed loose, and not all of them find welcoming females. Whether they are sailors home from a long voyage at sea or athletes breaking training when lured by a bimbo groupie, men are men with manly needs.

I've known some Navy sailors who have had dozens or even hundreds of women, sometimes whores at the rate of two or three a day, and had no doubts that getting a bj from a fag friend was going to ruin their reputation even if anyone ever found out about it. A rather bearish roofer slept with me, came in the morning, and then met with me later that day after a workout and shower to get ready for our sex date so he could give me another friendly load, and glad to do so. I liked seeing the photos of his kids that he carried in his wallet, offspring from three different women in as many different states.

Why anyone would think a hetero man would never ever get his rocks off with another dude is a mystery to me. And if it happens in real life, it sure as hell happens for cash. There are few uniformed military mingling in city streets these days, but when the draft was in effect, there were uniformed dudes everywhere, and they were all a target for men who liked that sort of thing. Made for some good times after sneaking into a strip club where they were too young to drink but not too young to be in jeopardy on the front lines when they got shipped out the next day. If nothing else, they had a place to stay for those last few nights before shipping out, and it was not as expensive as a hotel room, either.

None of which necessarily involves alcohol, btw, or other mental impairment.

I just don't understand why people are so committed to labels. A recent study or studies says women are almost entirely more bi- than not, whether they do anything about it or not. And sexuality is fluid, too. One successful female singer publicly fell for and partnered with another woman and then pissed off feminists everywhere when she fell in love with a man again, much to her surprise.

Shift happens. Sex happens. Be glad most men have never had much luck with blowjobs from women, and that they may be thrilled to have a chance to give an ass pounding to someone who can stand up to the unleashed animal fury of an unrestrained man who has finally found a place he can put the entire length of his scary third leg and enjoy benefits he's never known before.

Just as there was a time when there was no gay porn-- books, magazines, or cinema-- except for the very brave and very determined queer with money, we are now at a time when spurting dicks are easy to view, even outside of porn with women. Things change. Gloryholes are no longer a well-kept secret known only within the fraternity of men. Now masturbation jokes and pot jokes and casual nonjudgmental homosex jokes are mainstream.

Personally, I like to think that guilt, shame, and eternal damnation are less and less associated with any kind of voluntary sex acts and we can all really enjoy the function of the orgasm to heal our minds and bodies and, according to Wilhelm Reich, stifle the mass psychology of Fascism, at least for those proud to boast, "I'm a lover, not a fighter."

During a New York City garbage strike, some clever folks wrapped their garbage in attractive bags and boxes from major department stores and left them near an open car window for snatch-and-grab volunteer garbage collectors who had no idea how helpful they were being.