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I recently lost 2TB of porn to a crappy External Hard Drive.  I'm back to 1 TB.

[bgcolor=#00C4FF]Paul Ryan[/bgcolor]

16 I think…

My first and second cocks were another couple from a highschool a few towns over when I was 17, I also topped both of them. Number 3 was a sophomore in college when I was 17, he had a nice 9 inch cock and he took my ass in his truck at night behind my high scool, coincidentally the high school he graduated from as well, thank you gay.com.  Number 4 was a hung rocker I met on gay.com and lived two streets down from me, I snuck out one night and he fucked my ass too.  Number 5 was an older man with the hottest six pack and 9.5 inch cock who I met a few times over the course of two years.  Number 6 was my first college hook up.  number 7 was my first bf.  Number 8-16 were a toss up between guys I dated or CL/Grindr hook ups.

I totally understand, and I don't think you sound at all outraged, your just expressing a concern / opinion. Things that 'concern/piss me off'

1. mislabeled torrents
2. not bothering to make sure the directory or file name matches the torrent file name
3. not bothering to upload a movie thumbnail sheet or screen shot sheet of each file being uploaded
4. .flv/.wmv/.avi/.webm …. basically any filetype other than .mov or .mp4 .... is it so hard to convert them before sharing
5.  when people upconvert videos of lower quality make the file size huge but having the same quality as it's smaller file size counterpart.
6. when people upload files without sound and don't note it in the description
7. when people upload webcam recordings that don't end in a cum shot and don't mention it in the description.
8. sketchy sex and fraternityx are way too good and DMCA take downs making it hard to maintain my collection of their videos, and they don't update often enough for a membership to actually be worth it.... they should really think of doing some kind of joint membership plan.
9. studio films being listed under amateur and homemade

and the list goes on.... this is still the best community to be a part of, our fellow members are really good at sharing videos almost the day they're released, reposting older films in good quality that usually become favorites, seeding like crazy, and the widest variety of gay porn anywhere.  plus this is the only place i've found with people willing to share purchased xtube videos without asking for anything in reaturn.

I can't believe my post got a thumbs down by someone who couldn't even bother to answer the question in their own post.

Well I definitely don't immediately tell people I'm gay when I introduce myself.  Since I fit a few stereotypes I don't usually have to tell people, but if I don't tell them at some point I have to deal with that stupid game of them subtly trying to get me to bring it up.  I take the first opportunity to come out to people just to get it over with, like when they ask if I'm dating any women, or if a thing a girl is hot, or I drop the name of a known gay bar when talking about clubs and bars.  I don't like investing time in relationships with people who will have an issue with my sexuality so that's why I think it's best to get it out of the way as soon as possible.

In professional situations, I will probably never mention my sexuality unless there's some kind of workplace diversity activity taking place or if my not saying I'm gay would lead to a lie including lies of omission.  I live in the United States and the state I live in has laws in place that prohibit workplace discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation so I'm never worried about how it would impact my job, I just don't think it's professional to discuss these topics unless it's somehow work related.

I don't think it's wrong at all, but it's not the smartest idea to mix a familial relationship and sex.  I'm assuming your talking about casual sex and not actually having a relationship with your cousin, and in my experience casual sex has a tendency to blow up in someones face.  There's also the chance of someone finding out, and is the drama really worth fooling around with your cousin.

If your talking about starting a relationship with your male cousin, I still don't think it's wrong, but keep in mind if your prepared for societies and your families views on the relationship, no point in starting it if it's just going to be too much for you or your cousin to handle.

As long as you don't feel you would be in danger by doing so, I say tell him.  I recommend finding a non threatening place to tell him as well.  If your in college, your dorm room is not a good place to have this conversation.  I've had friends in the past who were slightly homophobic tell me that me coming out to them and then hearing my story actually made them think the issue over and gave them a different perspective and now they are great GLBTQ allies.  Whenever possible I think it is our responsibility to educate people on how we're just like everyone else and just as deserving of respect as anyone else.  If it works out, be prepared for  1. Your friend either to be super sensitive in trying not to offend you, 2. Your friend continuing to make homophobic remarks without realizing it.  3. Your friend completely ignoring your sexuality, or 4. Your friend to think your coming out to him because you have feelings for him.  For 1. you'll want to let your friend know you don't want them walking on eggshells around you and you'll be honest if something does offend you and be open to discussing it.  For 2. you need to be patient and explain what the homophobic remark is litterally saying i.e. 'that's so gay for that's so stupid/feminine/uncool is not just a saying but a method to belittle gays and make being gay synonymous with something undesirable', how it makes you feel, and how it could make other who overhear feel 'good place to quote that GLBTQ teens are at extremely high risk of suicide and being exposed to intolerance increases that risk.  For 3. you really have to get it through your friends head that taking an interest in your dating/love life does not mean that your going to start blabbing about your sex life and talking about giving blowjobs and anal sex. 4.  Tell your friend to get over himself, just like he doesn't find every girl attractive, you don't find every guy attractive, and just like he, i hope, doesn't force himself on women, you do not force yourself on men.

Best of Luck, Let us know how it goes !

BB Stealthing
Cheating

These two things really turn me on in porn, but not in real life.

Not pulling out
Dirty Talk
Aggressive Vanilla Sex
Public Sex
Servicing 'Straight" Men
Anonymous Sex

These six things turn me on in porn and in real life.

Mind you when I was hypothetically talking about having sex with someone who claims to be negative, I was still talking about having protected sex 'with a condom'.  Although the likelihood of contracting HIV with someone who knows they are positive but has an undetectable and controlled viral load may be low, you still have to have a lot of faith that this person is following their treatment plan and there are no other factors in play.

HIV RNA tests can detect infection after 9 to 11 days from initial exposure date.

As far as what is or isn't scientifically proven, I'd really love to see what study your speaking about.  Understanding of the virus is growing more and more everyday and I definitely welcome the opportunity to correct any misconceptions I may have.

my taste in men and my preferences in sex change all the time.  Specifically the older I've gotten the less attractive I find skinny Twinks.  When I was in my teens and early twenty's young looking guys like that were so hot to me and now that I'm older they don't turn me on very often and I'm usually thinking "HE LOOKS SO YOUNG" and not in a good way.

Only if I had really no respect for my partner and for some reason hadn't broken it off yet.  I find cheating hot in porn but disgusting in real life.  It's so much easier to just break up with someone if you want someone else or just be upfront and mutually decide to be in an open relationship.  That being said if it's post break up and we're not friends,  all his hot friends and family are up for grabs.

totally prefer to bottom most of the time

i've only had threesomes.  I prefer one on one sex.  I guess I'm selfish when it comes to sex and I hate having to balance time and attention between people, I can imagine it's even more of a hassle when more people are included.  I've never been the ignored party during threesomes, but i've seen the face of the guy that gets left out or slightly ignored and it's gotta suck.  It's even more awkward for me when having sex with a couple.

I would not knowingly have oral or anal sex with someone who told me they were HIV positive even if they had a low viral load or even if I was on PrEP or Truvada unless for some reason I was so in love with them that I decided to take the risk and even then you better believe I'd go to a doctor first and begin a PrEP plan.  This being said, yes I know a lot of men don't know their status, some knowingly lie about their status, and even protected sex doesn't guarantee that you won't be exposed.

after twenty minutes of a guy pounding an ass even after an enema cleaning there would still be fecal matter on that penis, even if you can't see it or it's just mixed about with spit or lube….. definitely need to wash, rinse, or use a wet wipe..... gag .... same goes for rimming.

https://www.stdcheck.com/blog/how-soon-get-tested-for-stds-unprotected-sex/

http://www.nyc.gov/html/doh/downloads/pdf/ah/early-hiv-treatment-brochure.pdf

Here are Two links you may find helpful.

A HIV RNA Test can detect HIV after 9-11 days.  I recommend a doctors visit as soon as possible because depending on your insurance or country's health services it may take time to have this or other tests approved.  Furthermore if your results are positive for HIV the sooner you begin medication the sooner you can prevent the virus from spreading improving your health, life expectancy, and reducing the likelihood of developing AIDS

You are always at risk whether you swallow or not or whether he pulls out or not.

Unprotected oral sex is when you don't use a condom.  I will tell you personally that I don't use a condom during oral sex, but it is considered unprotected sex.  No one really knows what the likelihood of contracting HIV through oral sex is because of multiple factors like reliable information and it really depends on the viral load level of your partner, but it is possible and is thought to account for at least 3% of HIV infections.

It doesn't matter if his whole penis went into your ass, or whether or not he came in your ass, or whether you were exposed to precum or cum, or whether you are top or bottom.  Yes each has it's own level of risk and anal sex where the top is HIV positive and the bottom is HIV negative and the top cums in the bottoms ass is probably the sex act with the highest risk, it is still possible to contract HIV through any oral or anal sexual activity.

Because your partner was a drug user, and not something basic like weed, ecstasy, cocaine, etc. but crystal meth, the likelihood of him having used intravenously administered drugs with a dirty needle is higher.

The line about the condom breaking, was just a story you could tell potential partners incase your embarrassed to just say you had unprotected sex with someone with a questionable STD status while still being upfront about how your current status is unknown and will remain unknown until your doctor tells you otherwise.

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nair for men works wonders, just make sure to test it on your skin first.  I tolerate nair just fine anywhere on my body except on my face.  and before anyone mentions it, i was using the specific nair for your face for sensitive skin and i still ended up with this red irritated spot, but thank god i tested first cuz it would have been hell if i'd used it all over my face.  i use nair for men when it comes to my ass, no irritation, no fuss, a whole lot easier than shaving, and none of the embarrassment of getting someone to wax you if your not entirely comfortable with your body.