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Whether it be for relationships or just hookups, do you prefer to be with someone your size, smaller, or larger? I've seen a definite rise in the whole "chub for chub" thing. In fact, a lot of the chubby guys I attempt to court tell me that they're only interested in other chubs. What do you guys think?

I swear, every time I try to hook up with someone, I have to deal with some crazy fetish. Everybody wants to be shit on or slapped around or hung upside down. One guy wanted me to wear a pair of underwear for three days and then let him sniff them while we did the deed. Wait…WHAT?

And I get so tired of guys asking me if I'm a "dom" or "aggressive" top. No! I'm not gonna rough you up or spit on you or call you "my bitch"! Can't we just have normal freakin' sex?

Not to be a jerk, but I probably wouldn't face it by calling it "some shit like this". It's just a thing that exists. I'd hoped that by the time I was an adult, being gay wouldn't be a thing to be dealt with. It would just be…a thing.

"Hey, Mom. I'm gay."
"Oh, that's cool. Help me get the groceries out of the car."

I'm not naive enough to think that's an absolute possibility, but one can hope. In response to the question, I actually did date a guy whose siblings were also gay. Two gay men and one lesbian-turned-male. She was a very accepting parent, he told me. As for how I'd personally deal with it, that's hard to say. As a gay man, what would it matter to me if all my kids were gay? And I can't speak to the heterosexual parenting experience because I'm not a heterosexual parent. All I can say is that I wish being gay wasn't cause for panic anymore.

Because at 69, they blow a rod.

If there's one thing that bothers me as a Black man, it's when people tell me how "into" Black men they are. Is that supposed to impress or entice me somehow? Quite the opposite. You've reduced my ethnicity to a fetish. Why would I feel good about that? I usually hear things like:

• I just love the contrast!
• I've never been with one before, and I wanna try it!
• You know what they say about Black guys!
• It's so exotic!

And the absolute worst thing I usually hear:

• I like chocolate!

I'm not a food or a flavor! I'm a person who happens to be Black. I'm not going to help you fulfill your Nubian/Mandingo fantasy. Furthermore, I'm about as exotic as crab grass. Stop saying this crap!

I think it's a hilarious show! I was just watching the episode where Murr has to get his nipples pierced as punishment for losing a challenge. Comedic gold, I tell ya! Such a funny show. Plus, I have a wicked crush on all four guys.

Lots of people watch porn. We know this. We wouldn't be here if we didn't. LOL!
What's one type of porn you really enjoy that has raised a few eyebrows?
What's something you like seeing in videos that you may be a bit shy to mention?

As for myself, I have two:

1. I like superchub videos. Don't ask me why. LOL!
2. I like videos featuring older men…much older men...much MUCH older men. (70+)

Dish, dish!

I haven't had sex in almost 7 months. The last time I tried, I couldn't get it up due to a bit of performance anxiety. It'd happened the last few times and I've stopped having sex altogether because it's really embarrassing. Does anyone have any tips on how to relax so that this doesn't happen again?

Pop, rock, and soul! Some of my favorites include Michael Jackson, Fleetwood Mac, Celine Dion, and Selena.

When Love Calls -Atlantic Starr

Do you write stories or screenplays, gay-related or otherwise? Tell us a little about what you write!

As for myself, I'e been tinkering around with writing a novel based on the experiences of the band Fleetwood Mac, but with a fictitious band and setting. I'm also in the process of writing a gay comedy series about the 7 deadly sins. It's gon' be HILARIOUS.

What about you guys? What do you write?

I make no secret in my everyday life that I'm attracted to older men. Not exclusively, but it's a thing that exists. My question for you guys is this: is there a celebrity you didn't think much of back in the day, but now you're taking a second look since they've aged?

For example, Leonardo DiCaprio was utterly useless to me for the longest time. So twerpy looking. But now he's older and less "pretty". And he got rid of that ridiculous 90s boy band haircut. Speaking of boy bands, how hot are the Backstreet Boys now that they've matured?!

"Thinking Of You" by Earth, Wind & Fire

Ulf Ekberg from Ace of Base

Okay, I'm spamming the board about Big Eden. LOL! I saw it for the first time last night. I'm surprised I didn't know about it before, since it came out back in 2000. It was a little schmaltzy in parts, but it was nice to see:

a). a gay film not dominated by sex and innuendo. There's no sex in this film. Imagine that!
b). a gay film featuring average looking men. No twinks-on-parade, no supermodels.
c). a genuine gay love story not focused on superficial matters, but with matters of the heart.

I highly recommend it. There definitely need to be more movies like that.

Gay media in general is pretty much bunk.
Even though it may fall into the category you call "cheesy sentimentality", I found Big Eden to be quite endearing.

It's a very sweet movie. I thoroughly enjoyed it.

If you want to see a movie that evokes genuine emotion and doesn't feature a bunch of pretty boys prancing around for two hours, I'd suggest Big Eden.

I just watched Big Eden for the first time last night. Henry/Pike definitely win for me. That whole movie wins for me.

I've been in one and I absolutely hated it. Being suspended in air like that made me dizzy.