"In an ideal world, I know the girls would like their mother and father still to be together, but they love their 21st-century family that we have built, too. Their father has a boyfriend. It’s that complicated and that simple, but finding James means I will not have to lie to anyone or grow old on my own."
Supportive response: Good for him. He's done something monumentally difficult and I wish him the best.
Snarky response: Looks like there's a new queen in town! LOL!
Everyone post about a date or a hookup you had that was just…awkwarrrd! Here's mine:
A few years ago, there was this guy who was always pursuing me online. I wasn't really into him, and I couldn't quite pinpoint why. But I decided I was being stupid and gave him a chance. He picked me up for what I thought was going to be a date. He took me to his place, which was a seedy motel in the bad part of town. So I was a little nervous. When we get in, he says, "I had a long day. Mind if I do a little coke?" He actually used a euphemism, but I don't remember it. I told him I was really uncomfortable with that, so he sits down on the bed, pulls down his phone, and opens Grindr (I could hear the sounds). I just kinda stood there by the door like, "Uhhh, what now?" He says, "I'm inviting someone people over to join. They might be a little coked up, but they won't hurt you." I ran like the wind! I knew there was a reason I didn't want to go out with him!
I guess I'm the minority! LOL! Multiplayer, definitely! I don't play video games that much, but when I do, I like having someone to play with. If I'm dating someone at the time, I usually like it if he plays with me. Other than that, I like playing against people online. Except for when I'm playing Mortal Kombat and I get hustled. Haha!
well, youre the only one that needs to be shamed. try doing your own thing instead of preaching pc bullshit to other people. while you may be right in saying you dont want to listen to your acquaintances (youre definitely no friend to this poor fellow) escapades, youve absolutely no right to tell anyone else how to live their life, let alone pass judgement on them, nobody has.
Let me break this down for you.
1. First of all, tossing around buzzwords like "PC bullshit" doesn't make you sound smarter. It just makes you sound like an angry Internet troll with no real argument.
2. Just because I'm someone's friend doesn't mean I have to agree with everything they do. That would be stupid. Blindly accepting someone's life choices under the guise of friendship is called "enabling". And I'm not about that life.
3. As tough as it may be for people to swallow, I can pass judgment whenever I want. Just like you did. There's a difference between passing judgment on something someone can't help vs. a decision they consciously made. I have no right? I have every right, my dear.
4. You sleep with married men, don't you?
ah. the sound of being left without arguments.
No, honey bunch. That was the sound of being left without brain cells after reading that inane ramble you posted. You clearly don't know the difference between attraction and fetishizing.
well, they reduced your gender to a fetish. they like you in the first place because you're a man. does that degrade you too?
sexual attraction is discriminating. some like it thin, some like it thick, and some don't like thin or thick. political correctness as rational and sex as irrational don't go together. get over it.
Um…what?
what if the guy doesn't tell you he's married? It's just a hook up and you don't get his background.
Well, that'd be a different story entirely. How would you know if he didn't say?
I was 100% bottom for quite some time, only because the men I was interested in were usually tops and I'm just an accommodating person that way. I can't really say I ever completely enjoyed it. In fact, most of the enjoyment came from the fact that I was bringing pleasure to my partner. When I transitioned to top, my sexual adulthood really began!
I do, but only if they aren't too smutty.
The person below me lives in the United States.
I had sex in a tree in front of my house once. It wasn't as risky as one might believe because it was 3am and no one was around.
I have a friend who literally only sleeps with married "straight" men. I tell him all the time that I find this to be absolutely despicable and I don't want to hear about it. His defense is:
1. The wife doesn't put out anymore.
My response: So what? That doesn't mean they aren't married anymore. He made a vow to another human being. And if he isn't happy, he needs to leave.
2. Nobody's getting hurt.
My response: Would you have that same attitude if someone did that to you behind your back?
3. He's gonna leave his wife.
My response: Yeah. Fucking. Right.
I find it absolutely reprehensible that there is an entire subculture of the gay community dedicated to bedding married men. It's just sick on both ends. For one, the man is MARRIED. Not just talking to someone. Not just testing the waters. MARRIED. In lots of cases, the men have children. If you're a married man sleeping around, you should be ashamed of yourself. As should you be if you're a man (or woman, for that matter) who chooses to be intimate with a married man.
The person below me is between the ages of 30 and 35.
I know we all know how to play this! But for those who don't…
One posts a random fact and assumes it to be true about the next person who posts. The next person affirms or denies the fact, then posts one of their own for the next person to answer. For example:
Post 1: The person below me is wearing green underwear.
Post 2: Nope. My underwear are blue. The person below me hates beans.
And so on, and so forth. Let's get started!
Celine Dion - "Somebody Loves Somebody"
All of them, as long as they keep wearing those tight, shiny pants.
Ugh. Dating.
For the longest, I've considered myself to be a pretty romantically minded individual. But let's face it. Relationships just don't last anymore. Especially when it comes to gay men. Of course, that's a wide generalization because there are plenty of gay couples who have been together for eons. But most of the ones I see come to a screeching halt. I know my relationships all have. Is it even worth it to try? Why put all your effort into something that's doomed to fail?
Whether it be for relationships or just hookups, do you prefer to be with someone your size, smaller, or larger? I've seen a definite rise in the whole "chub for chub" thing. In fact, a lot of the chubby guys I attempt to court tell me that they're only interested in other chubs. What do you guys think?
I swear, every time I try to hook up with someone, I have to deal with some crazy fetish. Everybody wants to be shit on or slapped around or hung upside down. One guy wanted me to wear a pair of underwear for three days and then let him sniff them while we did the deed. Wait…WHAT?
And I get so tired of guys asking me if I'm a "dom" or "aggressive" top. No! I'm not gonna rough you up or spit on you or call you "my bitch"! Can't we just have normal freakin' sex?