Posts made by notquiteme

boy would i want them too

done.

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hahaha some nice sounding hefty folk here

legs heheheh

203 lbs here… 5'7" too.

some might be bigger than i would like, but they must still have hefty hugs

how are these?

hahaha wow!!! i do, i like them very much!

try bearforest and growlr

hahaha pretty hot guy

The bigger guy looks like the guy from Chub Videos' Big and Hairy. I'm trying to find the actor's name to help you but i haven't found it in the past 20 mins.

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Bears of Venice - where michael mcquaig gets fucked by venicecub. hahaha can't ever replace that vid on my pc.

also, choosing the right online dating site matters - there used to be a site called chubspot which was dedicated to chubby guys and people who like em… then there's still bearforest and biggercity.

interesting, but i think a bit too large for me.

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yumyum

Yes, there are those… i was one of the "average" guys before, but then one of the guys i dated started being saying i was becoming a chub and thus no longer attractive to him.

my partner typically likes slimmer guys, but he's okay with me gaining a bit of weight. i've always liked bigger, chubby or muscular guys.

It is a common frustration to feel like a minority group, but there it is.

my partner sometimes cums to straight porn. me, never. hahaha.

I never assumed that a guy who likes straight porn is straight, though i believe that only straight guys will be turned on by female homosexual (or lesbian) porn. As a matter of fact, guys sometimes get turned on by girls kissing.

Only gay or bisexual guys will be turned on by gay porn, i think. but that's just my opinion.

I think I mentioned in my other post that i think naked girls are icky - sexually anyway. but that's just me.

Acceptance is weird in our culture. most of the time, people can talk about gay actors/actresses, gay talk show hosts, gay hairdressers, gay dance or fitness instructors without batting an eyelash. But when you talk about other people, ordinary folk who are gay, sometimes they can't accept it (especially when too close to home.) I actually grew up in a household where making fun of gay people was originally okay. much more in school where i was in a boy's school (and daaaaaaaang that was difficult since the guys around me were gorgeous, to say the least).

Having said that, yes, my "first" time was weird, but at least the guy's still my friend. he pokes fun at me sometimes about my first time. i felt so guilty afterwards (must be my religious upbringing) but after awhile i came to terms with my orientation. and i was a late bloomer (i was 27).

personally i've known i was attracted to bigger guys since about 7th grade. for me, girls are icky - and so are slim guys. But then i'm in the minority of an already minority group.

i don't even think i can function THAT way around a woman. Or a slim guy.

I did have a phase where i was intellectually considering girls, but when i started to think about them - i think "Ick. Nope".

No regrets here.

I actually tested the waters on numerous occasions:

1. When my parents talk about anyone who's gay, they usually refer to them as "the gay" like - do you remember our principal, the gay? - sign that for them, it is a unique identifier

2. When one of my closest friends came out, (his name is norman) and my parents know him, they started making quips like "oh i thought he was norman, turns out he's norma instead" and "omg are you sure he's not attracted to you?"

3. I was once video-chatting with one of my friends when this quirky guy starts singing in a falsetto - my dad heard it.  over lunch, he pretty much screamed at me saying: "DO YOU WANT TO TURN OUT LIKE HIM? YOU WILL TURN OUT LIKE HIM!!!"

I guess for me it might not ever be the right time. Both my parents have heart problems and if they were to have a heart attack if I came out, my siblings would most likely blame me forever.

But yes, coming out to my friends wasn't precisely easy, but it opened up my world just a tiny bit more - being able to be open to them. They pretty much opened their arms to my partner, as well.