Posts made by notquiteme

I think that the biggest problem here is that the Roman Catholic Church is governed by a group of people (the college of cardinals, of which the Pope is the Cardinal of Rome) who deliberate or are enlightened in some way about what are to be doctrinal truths.  However, regardless of what they say, nobody is infallible, and I believe those people to be as able to discriminate along with the worst of them.

Knowing this, morality is an externally imposed set or mores/norms that we are trained to do, while conscience speaks from the heart (or soul, if you wish).  What irritates me now is that the Church has wielded so much power (especially in the 12-16th century) that they have been able to impose their set of mores on a very large percentage of the world.  They did it so well that now we're trying to besiege a fortress that is entrenched in tradition.  How do you fight against a group that will only shake their heads and say: "It's wrong"?

I go to church religiously, but i avoid self-righteous or fire-and-brimstone priests.  I go there in the most basic way… and the most literal interpretation of the word:  Communion.  To commune.

I'm more into those who are more… insulated, myself.  But you wouldn't know that from all my posts.

i personally like stylized monochromatic dragons coiled/flying.    but that's just me.

my boyfriend's bi.  i've accepted that for now, he loves me and i'll take that as far as it goes.  if in the future he decides that he's hetero, then I know i have to let go of him.

I also dated a guy who was in a relationship to a girl, then experienced gay sex.  Then he stopped being turned on by the girl and had to break up with her because he was drinking every night just to have an excuse not to have sex with her.  Now he's gay and confesses that girls no longer turn him on.

Would anyone else have similar experiences?  What if your boyfriend/husbear/partner suddenly woke up one morning and said he's attracted to a girl?

Very sensible, brandon.

Actually i've never been attracted to girls… ever.  I also don't think it's abnormal.  I mean undesirable if it were to become a majority of the population, because then we'd die out due to lack of offspring.  But it is by no means unnatural, because you're just responding to your person/gut/libido.  If it were abnormal there wouldn't be so many of us, and dating back millennia.

for me, seven's already big.  Seen some bigger and i just couldn't take them.  so i agree with the earlier post… nice to see, nice to hold, but not too nice to have inside me.  Of course i'm a little on the smaller side myself.

i hope the cry of the masses is heard by the owner of that magnificent cock!

Loooooove the chunky bear!  woof!  Yeah, the cock needs to be milked.  Twice.

Looks kind of incomplete.  Would be able to tell for sure in person hehehe.  YUMMY!!!

I wouldn't vote for him solely on the basis of his verbal show of support for gay rights.  I will, however, vote for him if he is consistently displaying a mind of his own and not just what the rest of his party are saying.  This means he will attempt to look at each question from different perspectives before making his stand.

Here in our country, we see gays everywhere (literally) but it's still kind of taboo in conservative families.  And the reputation of gays is terrible.

very nice specimen

Careful, you might poke someone's eye out with that thing! Hehehe.  Seriously, I prefer cut men. 

the sling is fine… the bondage, not quite my cup of tea.  Always wanted to try the sling hehehe

Hmmmm i prefer the big ones especially when they're attached to bigger men hehehe.

But this one's a fiiiiine specimen for me hehehe.

Simple.  Two thoughts:

1. he fought them off, so he must have started it.

2. he fought better, so he must be violent.  so let's suspend the violent guy.

I love school administrators' blinding logic and intellect.

Agree.  And that's exactly what irks me about the whole ban on gay marriage thing.  How else can we be "family"?  Move to a different locale?

It has to do with respect regardless of language.  I mean if they were saying "white devil" in their native tongue, it's not less of an insult just because i don't understand it.

NOW, what i think the point of the whole thing is that there are muslims, and there are muslims.  To judge a race by the example of a single individual is wrong.  Of course to think that they're all nice just because one of them was nice isn't exactly right, but it allows you to be more open minded, which is the opposite of what happens when you think wrongly about an entire race, which makes you uncharitable, to say the least.

Even if we call it "gay civil unions" i don't honestly see how it is anyone's business to ban it.  Sheesh.  It sucks that i can't name my husbear a dependent if i need to.  I also can't visit if he's sick because i'm not "family".  Now is that really fair? (at least that's the way it is in america)

I'm tempted to keep a small card in my wallet identifying my boyfriend as having visiting rights, if ever.

i wonder if anyone who does prostate examinations does it because they're gay

Honestly, I've fantasized about having multiple partners.  But when i'm with my bf, (even just online) what i experience totally blinds me to all else so i guess it was just a passing fancy, or saved for when i watch porn hehehe.

So the answer is no.  But no offense intended to those who say yes.  Or maybe… some day we'll be okay with a group thing, but not likely.