Perhaps I've misunderstood. Any clarification is welcomed.
Some clarifications:
Paedophilia is a sexual attraction to children. Outside of 1984, societies don't prosecute 'Thought Crimes'. Like with Weinstein, he isn't being charged with being 'Heterosexual' AKA attracted to women but for sexually humiliating and assaulting women.
Rape and sexual assault tend to be about power. I'm attracted to men but I don't drug or rape men. It's more common for a man to be sexually assaulted, even raped, by a straight man than by a gay man. (Based on extensive research from prisons and war zones.) Rape and other forms of sexual assault are expressions of power rather than desire. The media conflates showing attraction to someone with demonstrating power over them. We need to talk about this.
"Hi, would you like to go out on a date sometime?" changes when there is a stated/implied "or I'll destroy your reputation/you'll be fired." We need to talk about this.
A lot of people argue that if a man is attracted to someone then he can't control his instinct to rape. ie Radical Muslims who demand woman cover every visible bit of their flesh, judges who say that a woman wearing a t-shirt was 'asking for it', and homophobes who say gay men can't be soldiers/teachers/athletes/clergy since we are male-rapists awaiting the opportunity.
We need to talk about sexual assault as an action of power.