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Latest posts made by jjevvann
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RE: Is coming out necessary at all? what is coming out actually?
some ppl feel a huge burden lifted of their chest when they come out - declaring their sexuality to friends or family and u know that it has bugged them to keep it a secret. this is what i have been told.
i am still in the closet and i dont feel the slightest weight being carried. if at all, i just find it annoying when ppl try to set me up with some random woman. at that point i wish i can tell i am gay. but that means they might start setting me up with random man. which is also sthing i dont want.
guess its to each his own. having said that - have had gay guys tell me that i should come out and be visible and not hide. annoying as f***.
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RE: I don't think making gay marriage legal should be so important to us
always though that if the state recognizes civil unions and grants the couple all the rights as a straight married couple gets - then thats fine. But so many guys i spoke with on this says its not abt rights, its abt being equal. and i guess its not equal rights but rather equality to go abt getting those equal rights.
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RE: How'd you react if your kid was homophobic?
it will be crushing. but i wonder if that would be telling of the job i did as a parent.. like i did not educate/teach my child adequately..
then again, lots of screwed up kids with perfectly alright parents.. hmmm
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RE: Have you ever come across discrimination of being a gay in your career?
i know that being in the legal fraternity - being gay is career suicide.. or being gay and being out. at least thats because i am here in south east asia.
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RE: The worst things that turn you off while you're having fun?
breath that can wake the dead.. uggghh.. what a buzz kill to have to suddenly pretend that kissing isnt my thing.
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RE: How to tell a straight friend you're gay not loosing his firendship?
well.. maybe if u tell him.. all the '"gay" steriotypes in his dump head' will be proven wrong.
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RE: Is gay marriage legal in your country?
being gay is against the law. same-sex marriages? LMAO!