Posts made by ffuck

@martin526:

@ffuck:

I mean, I could kill for a man like this:

Is he a gay porn actor?

I guess. But I cannot really help you with his name, if that's what you want haha sorry for that… If anyone else can identify him I would love to know too!!

It depends on the season and the reason. Summer showers are more close to lukewarm (cold showers are not helping, they lower the temperature of your body and later, when exposed to hot summer weather you sweat a lot to counterbalance the temp difference – the hotter the shower the better to help with sweat). In winter I take hot showers most of the time.

When it comes to reason: if I take a shower to relax, it's gonna be hotter. Colder if I want to wake up or be stimulated. So it's usually hot in the evenings, colder in the mornings.

I mean, I could kill for a man like this:

@Eridanos:

Vodka+whatever fruit juice is available

Ehh…is that even a cocktail? (I actually don't drink much)

I usually call those mixed drinks but it could be called a cocktail too. I mean, the Screwdriver is one of the most famous cocktails and it's just vodka with oj

Just for fun!

to OP: I wouldn't call it a fetish really, since it's not necessarily sexual. It's more like an aesthetic preference ;D ;D

Ironically, altho I wear glasses myself (and I pretty much like myself with glasses, thus never thought of lenses or surgery), I don't really like guys with glasses. Some times yes, it makes the guy look more mature or smart or sophisticated but if I like that guy, it's not primarily because of the glasses.

Another thing is that I cannot stand metal frames or no-frame-around-the-lenses glasses. It makes me cringe, I don't know why. It's cool if the person wears glasses only for reading or when not wearing contact lenses but if they wear glasses 24/7 (like me) I prefer plastic/thicker frame glasses. And it's not a gender thing either, I hate metal glasses on both men and women, they should be banned for aesthetic safety reasons (the glasses, not the people)

**No offense btw, this is just a personal pet-peeve, I don't mean to hurt anyone :-[

@userka:

not every man looking good with them.

Agreed. tbh I mostly like it on white guys, especially European ones. I guess it's because I have kinda connected it with the European queer subculture?? Some Latinos can pull it off too, but I still find beards, stubble or all shaved better looking on darker men (latinos, arabs, black)

Young, scruffy Harrison Ford (Indiana Jones era) and young Bruce Springsteen :love: :love: :love:

Renly Baratheon and Drogo

Do you mean what's my preference for me or my preference on other guys tho??
Personally I would almost always go with boxer-briefs, they are the comfortable golden ratio lol
I do occasionally wear briefs, they are kinda old-school I guess and I like that.
On other guys I would say it really depends on what their type is: twinks look good in colorful briefs and boxer-briefs, the older the guy is the most classic his underwear should be (that's what I like personally, if you think otherwise it's perfectly fine lol). Thus, a hunky bear in his mid-40s looks super hot in white or black undies (and yes, that includes the not-so-very-liked white briefs)

What's your signature cocktail/drink? The one that you will most probably order in a bar, that is.
I'm always between Tom Collins and Old Fashioned, can't really choose between those two
How about you?

Am I the only one that likes the "pornstache" (aka "moustache-only") look on guys?? Not only I don't find it creepy, I do actually find it extremely hot, whether on a young guy or an older one. I'm clearly born in the wrong era, ha

I used to drink white coffee with lots of sugar and milk, but I have switched to black with a bit of honey for some time now (yes, honey in coffee is a real thing and it tastes amazing). How about you?

I LOVE BEARS, by both meanings actually (as in the animal and as in a hairy man)
Bears as animals are amazing and should be protected at all costs (I have actually donated money to a bear protection facility/organization cause it's really important)
Bears as hairy men are always awesome! You get a blanket to keep you warm when you cuddle :-[ :-[

TPBM is interested in conspiracy theories (not necessarily believes them, just interested in reading/learning more about them)

Can we talk a little bit about the idea that the US have on foreskins??
I grew up in Europe and I have never encountered a circumcised guy until much later in my life, and that would be only because of phimosis or some other medical condition where circumcision was the only solution.
I found out some years ago that people in the US have this twisted idea that having a foreskin is dirty, unhygienic, or even dangerous. In other words, they believe that the NATURAL is WRONG. Seriously, why??

• Foreskin is not dirty. Unless you are a dirty person yourself and forget to clean under it, that is.
• Having a foreskin doesn't make you a freak. Nature is not freaky.
• If you shame someone for being uncut you are a horrible person (same goes for shaming someone because they are cut).
• IT'S YOUR CHOICE HOW YOU ARE GONNA SPORT YOUR WILLY.

That said, don't give your son a circumcision (unless a medical reason demands it). Plus, as said above by many, he can always get the circumcision later in his life if he wishes to

@rufusmc:

Shower, haven't had a bath in years, they take too much water and heating.

That really depends on what kind of showers you get. If you get navy showers (aka not let the water flow while you are lathering up), then yes, shower comes cheaper. If you take regular showers tho (20 minutes, water flowing from start to finish) you probably waste much more water than you would waste on a bath. It's just that you don't realize it since the water goes directly into the drain.

I shower too however, mostly cause I don't have a lot of time to spend in my everyday routine to fill up a bathtub and take a nice long bath I won't lie tho, I won't say no to the occasional hot bubble bath tho :-[

Au naturel (aka no shave/wax/trim at all) works the best for me. Since I was in middle school I have had people around me say that I have to shave cause that's what everyone does and that having a bush is dirty. So I did shave quite often altho I didn't really want to. It only made me feel itchy and weird. After years I now know that body hair (whether pubic or armpit or whatever) is natural and beautiful and I shouldn't touch it if I don't want to. That doesn't mean I will judge a guy who trims/shaves/waxes tho. Whatever floats your boat, really. It's not about what other people think, it's about you feeling comfortable with yourself and you body :love:

I go for a really short buzz cut, so I do the entire head on my own every week or so. I actually got a new set of clippers for myself (early Xmas gift ::)) and it's amazing! It's cheap, easy, and people say it looks great on me (many of them, especially women, say it makes me look more masculine and/or tough and it's sexy).

However, I will occasionally let one of my boyfriends buzz my hair or even pay a few and go to a barber (and also get a straight razor shave on my face). It feels good when someone else does it and you can just sit back and relax

Bald is hot, no matter if natural or just a style thing. However, DO NOT LEAVE GRANDPA HAIR (bald on top, hair on the sides). It's the biggest no-no on guys. If you DO start balding seriously, just shave the entire head. It looks neat and sexy.

And one more thing: you will not make your bald spots less prominent if you let your hair grow and "try" to cover it. Seriously, it doesn't work. In fact, this will make the contrast between bald and hairy spots more clear. Just get some clippers and shave your head completely, either on a typical buzz cut style or even closer to the scalp. This will make the balding spots less prominent, since the contrast will be lower. And yes, it will look (and feel) weird at first, especially if you have never sported that short hair before. But eventually you will get used to it and even start loving it (I know, I have been there, and now I cannot even imagine myself with longer hair).

Whether it's your choice or you cannot do otherwise, just rock your shiny scalp and be happy ;D ;D

Who doesn't love cats? Not a crazy cat man tho, but they are cute ;D ;D

TPBM is a backpacker or wants to become one but still haven't found the courage to start (like me :P)