Posts made by ffuck

A happy triangle one!

TPBM is ticklish.

I do!!! :police: :cum:
TPBM has or wants a cock piercing >:D

Totally, even if it's just for the experience, for the "bucket list" as you said! ;D

your average blue-collar 20-something dude ::)
I work as a mechanic (or more precisely a mechanic's helper) in a company that makes spare parts etc for firetrucks and fire extinguishing mechanisms ;D

Hot and spicy, I hate sweet and sour.

mustard or ketchup?

face and mouth are always the best places to cum :cheesy2: :cheesy2:

I'm a nudist and completely positive about nudity in general, so if the other person is alright with it then yes, I will walk around naked without any problem or shame ;D And I hope the other person is attractive and does the same (altho there doesn't need to be any sexual attraction, even just having the eye-candy is good). And I think it kinda bonds men together too (whether str8 or gay). No clothes, no worries! :laugh:

Nah, not really.

tpbm has engaged in piss-play >:D

Proud Vers
However, idk really enjoy having a dick in my ass. I will still do it to make my men happy (cause this is what a good slut does :P) but I much more prefer getting fucked by a dildo or other sex toys Weird, I know, but welp, this is who I am ::)
When it comes to all other things (oral, fetishes, etc) I'm usually the one that takes it all, aka the hungry, perverted bottom. >:D

Can't choose if I'm a dom or a sub tho, that really depends on the other person tbh :-[ :-[

This is why we all say that you should put more effort on your appearance AKA the way you present yourself to strangers. No one says that you're not attractive on the inside, I'm pretty sure you are a really cool guy to spend time with! But, realistically looking at it, external appearance matters. The cover DOES matter. Because no matter how beautiful you are on the inside or how attractive your brain and soul are, when you first meet a person, the only thing you really KNOW about them is what they look like. It's the only thing you can actually believe that is true about the other person. And you may say, "well, I also provide info on my profile about my interests and such". And you are true. But just because someone provides that kind of info for themselves, that doesn't make other people 100% sure that this is true. You'll only find out about a person's character, humor, and inside world only when you meet them in person. And until that happens, you have to attract by whatever you've left: APPEARANCE. It's harsh and unfair to most people that this is the first thing that meeting others focuses on, but it's reality. And honestly, I do believe it's not really bad that we focus on that either: Appearance tells a lot about ourselves. The way we dress, the way we stand, the way we smile. By looking at a person's fashion, hairstyle, posture, gestures, facial expressions, way of walking, etc, you can tell many things about them. People who choose to wear suits are different from people who wear jeans on the same circumstances. Smiling in pictures makes you appear more extrovert, serious face is more introverted. Having a neat haircut, that is stylized to perfection shows a perfectionist. A more carefree person would also have a more carefree hairstyle. The colors that we wear, or the colors of the pictures that we upload on dating sites and/or social media (color vs grayscale) also plays an important role on how we affect others. It's an entire field of science and psychology behind uploading a picture on a website for dating. This is why we all give you (as well as any other who might have a similar problem) advice. Because we know it's hard, and thus the ones of us that have solved part of the riddle (cause no one has found the perfect picture yet) should help you and anyone else who needs help. Accept other people's advice: sometimes you don't see some things because you are biased and you need others to point it out to you. You don't have to follow the advice if you don't want to, but always accept it, whether it's good or harsh. Cause this is going to make you (and all of us actually) better - not only externally but internally too.

I hate all teen idol shows, for sure. (sidenote: Eurovision is the best thing that Europeans ever created, you'd better all watch it at least once in your lifetime, even just for the gigs and not for the actual music).

tpbm is not particularly sure how they feel about gay pride parades.

Never had lobster tbh, only prawns. Chicken is my safe food as well as my comfort food so I'm gonna go with that.

savory pie (meat pie, sheperd's pie, etc) or sweet pie?

@RainbowCloud:

@furfiend:

You asked a direct question.  100% honest answer?  I don't find those photos attractive at all, but cut the hair, and we'll talk.
Of course, I'm like ffuck; I hate long hair.  To the point that even tall, muscle-bound, hairy-chested, porn star-bodied, movie star-faced guys with long hair just make me want to grab the clippers and cut it all off.

So, between the long hair and the glasses that hide your face, I really can't tell how you look underneath that.

As I think I clearly stated in an earlier post (or maybe not…) I wear the glasses everyday, no exception, because I cannot see without them.  I had surgery when I was really young.  If you are by chance saying I should take pictures without them, I don't like being deceiving.  I mean.. If me having glasses is that big of a deal, to where I am not getting responses, how do you think these people will feel when we meet and I am wearing glasses?  Not being truthful rarely works out in the end, and it isn't a good way to start off a potential relationship.

Not sure if I said it before in here, but when I was in my early 20s I had short hair.  When I was in my mid 20s I had medium length hair.  I can't say at any point in my life I have had an easier time getting attention.  So while I respect your opinion, I am not so sure having long hair is the complete dealbreaker as to why I can't even get a date.

Just to clarify, I personally meant that long hair doesn't look good to ME personally. And not only on you, on anyone. But there are tons of guys out there that like long hair a lot (in fact I think there are more of them than guys who like baldies or nearly baldies like me). So yeah, I don't think that the long hair is a dealbreaker by itself. It really depends on what kind of guys you encounter. And also, changing style on your hair may help. I don't mean to cut it if you don't want to, I mean to try and stylize it in a different way: manbuns, ponytails, etc are all possible and you don't even have to worry for trying it: go with it once, see how it goes, if it goes well keep it, if not don't do it again. Also, trust a barber/headdresser on that. They should give you advice on that.

When it comes to glasses: I don't think it's a problem that you wear glasses. I wear glasses 24/7 myself too, and I know by personal experience that many guys (and girls too) are actually attracted to that. But I should try to make a change there too. You know, buy a different set of glasses, different shape, color, anything. Pretty much the same as it is with clothes (for all people).

To sum up, I don't think you are ugly. You just seem that you have given up on finding a style that suits you or creating a new one. Experiment. Switch it up. Try something crazy. DO NOT BE STATIC. This is what makes you think of yourself as ugly. Cause being the same all the time makes you see yourself as boring.

For me, Strongfat is the hottest one.
Built fat comes second!

I used to be skinny but now I have turned into a skinny lumpy thing, aka Skinnyfat.

[to OP] Honestly, I think the only thing that I don't really like is your hair. But this is a pet-peeve of mine, I don't like long hair on men at all.
Otherwise I think you are attractive, just not the stereotypical "beauty" promoted by media, etc. But honestly, that "model beauty" is getting boring. Beauty is not much about being ripped or having the perfect face/hair/eyes, it's much more about confidence and learning how to project yourself to others. I'm not in the "model" category either, but the last year I have done HUGE steps towards loving my body and appearance in general and accepting it as it is. And it worked to the outside too: once I became more confident in my own body, I started getting more compliments, both by people who were sexually interested in me but also people in general

IT'S ALL ABOUT THE CONFIDENCE!!!

@baymartin:

So, ffuck,
is there a movement, which promotes asexuality? I'd like to know it better. I, myself had no sex with another person for7 years. I am 49.

I am not asexual myself, so I cannot recommend you specific groups/etc to look for. However I know for sure that there are many resources of all kinds on the internet that can help you search and learn about the topic more. This can range from scientific resources, books, forums, closed-groups, activist groups, wiki articles, ask-for-help groups, FAQs, and even dating sites for asexuals (so they can meet other people who might want a romantic relationship but don't seek sex). Google is your friend! I hope you find the information you need

@JerodParker:

Gay Anarchy?

Yeah, Queer Anarchy is a movement which is based on the philosophy that social liberation and freedom starts from liberation from our moral chains, the ones that have to do with gender expression, sexual expression, fetishes, relationships, etc. In other words, it combines the theoretical philosophy of anarchy with queer theory, promoting freedom to do whatever you want with your body or on your body. Homosexuality, Bi/Pansexuality, Feminism, Gender-neutral aesthetics (including Drag), Polyamory, Open Relationships, Fetishes (of all types, including BDSM), etc, are all considered good by Queer Anarchists, since they are going against the puritan social norms.

I am getting sick so it's not really probable. Plus, there's like 40cm of snow outside

TPBM has mud-wrestled at least once in their life (whether as a child or as an adult)

@famousbovine:

Yes. I'd kill him/her.

For a million dollars, would you resurrect Adolf Hitler, Mao Zedong, and Genghis Khan?
PS. They would have the same power and influence as they did back in their day.

AHAHAHAHAHAAH :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: I died a little bit with the directness of your answer :laugh:
I'm a chaotic neutral. I would do it only to see what happens.

For 1mi$ would you tattoo the inside of your eye? (yes, it's actually a thing)

Volcano.
Whiskey or Vodka?