Posts made by ffuck

Lights on!

Tea with honey or tea with sugar?

Of course, I never said I like only one of them, they are both great and also important!
I just like the pink triangle more since it symbolizes and honors a side of the queer community that we often forget about: the history. And by "history" I mean the riots and the fights of the past, as well as all the individuals that died for us to be here today, safe and happy and proud while waving our rainbows at a gay pride! They shall never be forgotten.

As for alternatives, I have seen both the rainbow colored triangle that you mentioned, as well as flags that include both the rainbow and the pink triangle. Those are a great option in my opinion since it honors both the past and the present (and why not the future too?)

@gaypraha2:

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hahahaahahha you're not wrong!! I still kinda dig it though. It looks, feels, and smells like the real thing, and make cute guys' faces even cuter >:D >:D

You're welcome!! I'm glad I could be at least a lil' bit helpful! ;D ;D

Being rimmed makes me melt… It relaxes me and makes me super-horny at the same time, honestly it's the best feeling ever!
Rimming is quite enjoyable too! Eating out a musky, hairy hole and listening to the other person's moans as they enjoy can be super hot!!

I think that this is not that much of a universal thing. I think it's more personal. Like, it kinda depends on how flexible your urethra is, what kind of sound/rod you use, etc… As I said, I wish I could help you more. Maybe one day I will try it myself :laugh: :laugh:

I experienced them both for the same time this summer. The threesome(s) was with a couple that eventually became a great triangle polyamorous relationship after the first time, and we all enjoy it a lot!! The foursome was more casual, found a guy on Grindr, decided to hook up, I wanted to do it on that very evening, he said he has already made plans with two people (who were friends themselves), I said I don't mind joining if they want me to do so, none of them had a problem either so it happened! We all enjoyed it a lot! And honestly, although I always thought I will feel rather uncomfortable with a threesome or a foursome or an orgy, it felt much better than a traditional 1-on-1 fuck. More people, more fun, less anxiety (even if the people involved are complete strangers like with my foursome experience)

TOTALLY! The feeling of getting a good rimjob is one of the most relaxing feelings ever for me, and I don't even need penetration after it to feel happy ::) ::) I also enjoy giving rimjobs to others, especially if my partner has a nice, musky, hairy hole :cheesy2: :cheesy2:

I rarely use any lubrication while masturbating, maybe my own spit if I feel like it's too dry. And the times I do use actual lube, it's because I have already had lube in my hand because of something else (for example because I'm in the middle of a sex toy session). In those cases it's mostly silicon lube, I find water-based lube quite irritating and it also dries pretty quickly (especially the lube you find in grocery stores).

Sadly, it's a no for me. I wish I had a musky hunk to change the year with in bed ::)
Instead, I spent my New Year's Eve chilling on my couch with my nice blanket, drinking mimosas (that's 50/50 champagne with orange juice), and watching stand up comedy shows ::) I won't lie however, I rather enjoyed it like that. It's way better than some noisy club full of people where you can barely move or breathe :laugh: :laugh:

How about you, samiderwish??

@seklas:

[…] but actually I've canceled my order and resumed it once again a couple of times yesterday and the day before […]

I would say you should not cancel your order at all! Even if you don't do it soon, you can keep the toy and maybe try it some other time, once you feel more comfortable about it, or maybe you find a partner who might help you with that :laugh: :laugh:

As someone wisely said above, it's not true anal if it's not a bit dirty!! >:D >:D

I usually just wash, and that's mainly for rimming (although myself I don't mind a dirtier asshole, I have to admit >:D)
As for fucking, you don't really need to douche if you don't want to, just take a dump before you have sex so you are empty (mostly cause a full bowel can feel uncomfortable during anal penetration), and wash properly (maybe let the water go inside with the shower head for a more thorough cleaning). And last but not least, if you or your partner are feeling uncomfy with the idea of a brown dick, just USE A CONDOM! This will keep the nasty stuff off the penis and you can safely give it a lick in the end

Douching: if you choose to douche, use lukewarm water. Hot water might burn the area easily (remember, it's far more sensitive than your skin), and cold water can cause cramps. Do not add body wash or soap in the water you use to douche, it can irritate the area badly. Also, do not douche all the time. Douching is a forceful substitute of the "natural way", and doing it very often might make your bowel lazy (aka you won't be able to go to the toilet properly since your bowel and your brain are used to the douching instead).

Antibacterial soap: DO NOT! I repeat, DO NOT USE ANTIBACTERIAL SOAP ON YOUR ASSHOLE, ESPECIALLY ON THE INSIDE! Your bowel is full of bacteria, which however are not harmful to you at all. In fact, they are very VERY important and necessary for your bodily functions. Antibacterial soap kills all bacteria, including this microflora and microfauna of the bowels. If you kill those bacteria, you might get serious irritation, bowel problems, or even an infection (since many of those are helping with keeping the dangerous bacteria away).

Last but not least, when it comes to the bacteria, remember: the bacteria you have in your bowel are natural! Chances are that your partner already has them too. However, in order to make sure that nothing bad happens, THE TOP SHOULD WASH PROPERLY AFTER SEX. And that includes washing the genitals after anal, as well as cleaning the mouth with mouthwash (for rimjobs).

Hope I helped!

I wish I could help you, since that would mean I can do it myself Altho I was always intrigued by sounding and always thought of it as quite interesting, I never had the nuts to try it. I always get nervous that I might do it wrong, and cause a lot of pain instead of a nice, pleasant sexual feeling.

The only thing I know is that you should definitely use a lot of lube, preferably by putting it in your urethra with a syringe (at least that's what I have seen and heard of).

Good luck with your new fetish, I'll wait for your thoughts of it, once and if you try it!

Which of the two symbols do you identify more with? The happy colored, optimistic rainbow OR the more strong, fighting spirit pink triangle?

For me it would be the pink triangle. Not that I don't identify with the rainbow too, it's just that I still believe that the gay community, or queer community in general, is (or at least should be) not only about partying and celebrations of queer identity, but also about fighting for equal rights and changing the world one step at a time.

I love both, but I'm currently craving a nice juicy burger more, so I'm gonna go with that!

Noisy, "party" club or regular, "chill" bar?

@spam17:

What does it mean to be gay?

Semantically speaking, the only thing "gay" means is "a person sexually and/or romantically attracted only towards people of the same sex with them, AKA a homosexual". However this is a widely discussed subject. For me, gay identity (or any queer identity for that matter) is a personal thing. Each one of us defines themselves in a different way, and thus gives the word "gay" a personal, extra-semantic meaning. For me personally, being gay means that I'm attracted towards masculinity, male characteristics, and the male physique, as well as the male way of thinking. For others. No matter how close or how far you are from the realistic, objective, semantic meaning, your personal opinion is valid as soon as it works for you and your identity.

@spam17:

Is it a requirement that a guy be top, bottom or vers in order to be a card carrying homo?

No. "top", "bottom", and "vers", as well as other labels given to gay male individuals (including but not limited to "bear", "twink", "effeminate", "pig", etc) are only optional and help putting people in categories, since this is exactly what humans in general are best at doing: putting people and things into categories of shared characteristics, organizing them properly and nicely. However, it is possible and very appreciated that a person might not want to identify with a label, any label. This might be because they don't like labels as they are strict definitions, or because they don't fit perfectly under a certain label, or simply because they cannot even define themselves with a particular label. THIS IS ABSOLUTELY NORMAL AND DOESN'T MAKE YOU LESS OF A HOMOSEXUAL! The only thing that makes you valid is your existence and the way you define yourself. After all, sexuality, same as anything else natural, is mostly fluid and less static, and labels in a fluid environment might drift away! :laugh:

@spam17:

Finally, does engaging in a specific sexual act make a person “gay”? If so, what is it?

Again, it's not a specific act that makes you gay. A man might have casual sex with other men, but still consider themselves str8. You are gay if and only if you see yourself gay!

I was 17. The first person I told was a friend of mine, also member of the queer community (back then they were considering themself a lesbian, later came out as a trans/genderqueer boy too). Later that day I also told my best friend. After many years, I finally came out to both of my parents this very year. Everything went well and I'm happy I can finally express myself the way I want It has been a journey, on which I learned a lot, and I'm proud that I did it!

Good luck and positive vibes to anyone who plans on coming out soon! No matter the outcome, remember that the first person that should love you is YOU yourself and don't let anyone make you do otherwise! :love: :love:

As for anyone who is not feeling ready yet, patience. A time will come during which you'll be feeling comfortable. Until then, live your life to the fullest possible and love yourself as much as you can!

Thanks GT.ru!! We all needed that!! You're awesome!

ORAL. Anal only with toys or fisting.

long hair or shaved head/bald on guys?

The first person I wanted to tell was my best friend. Eventually I was pretty nervous that day, so I gave a call to another friend of mine who was identifying as a lesbian back then, then also came out as a trans. I told them first, and they made me feel really comfortable. On that same day, in the evening, I told my best friend. Her reaction: "Dude, do you think I couldn't tell?" :funny2: :funny2: :funny2: :funny2: