Posts made by ffuck

OH NO! I would never wax my stache, in fact I think mustaches are one of the hottest thing a guy can have :cheesy2: :cheesy2:

But well, I guess that's only my opinion, you can try it for yourself if that's what you want ^-^ ^-^

@danijelr15:

If they were so bothered by it, why didn't you just ask them to do it for you since, apparently, spreading your legs is an easier task than using a razor?

Cause apparently something like shaving your partner would be a taboo for them… STUPID STEREOTYPES.

I guess I just have to find someone who won't mind fucking a nice hairy hole ::) ::)

To everyone who is still a virgin and is ashamed of it: DON'T BE. Seriously, that's it. There is no absolute reason for feeling embarrassed for such a thing, as mentioned above sex is pretty much nothing (seriously, once you do it you will realize it too), it's just stupid society who makes this whole fuss around it. Yes, it is nice. Yes, it may feel great. But nothing more than that. Think of it as a hobby you haven't tried out yet. You don't have to do it at a certain age, and there is nothing wrong with you even if you never do it. I know how much frustration this whole thing creates in your mind since I lost my virginity at 21 which is way older than most people lose their virginity today. But what you have to realize is that sometimes good things take a long time before they happen.
On the other hand, if your problem is approaching guys, I can assure you as an ex-super-introvert (I am still an introvert and a shy person but I'm working on it) that dating apps are worth a try. Yes, you won't hit a gold mine on the first try. Yes, you will get a lot of perverts and weird people message you. But eventually you will find someone who is interested in you (and YES some guys actually find virginity sexy, so don't be afraid to mention it after you talk with a guy for a while). All that goes after that is simple: you will meet, go for a couple of drinks or something, talk, and if you click with each other, THINGS WILL FIND THEIR OWN WAY. If not, there are thousands of other guys you can experiment with. This is how it happened with me, this is how it happened for literally everyone. First kiss, first blowjob, first full sex, first relationship… They are all going to happen as soon as you don't overthink it let things follow their natural flow

Be patient, be optimistic, BE YOURSELF.

So I guess pretty much anyone is familiar with the typical archetypes/stereotypes men are associated with in gay erotica (sometimes in str8 porn too), and especially in vintage porn. Here are some examples to make myself clearer:

• soldier/army/military

• sailor/navy

• police officer/cop

• construction worker

• car mechanic

• doctor

• cowboy

• teacher

• etc…

My question is, how have this archetype affected your sexuality/preferences (if it has affected it at all)? Like, do you feel attracted to any of these particular stereotypes? Personally I feel extremely attracted to most of the ones mentioned above (with the only exceptions being doctors and teachers, which I don't have a problem with but it's not that I particularly like them either). I think it is really worth a discussion on WHY do those archetypes exist and how has the male archetype map changed and evolved through the years

@jody235:

fifty shades of grey

Really? Why did you even like it? I mean, whatever floats your boat as for the genre and the plot, but the writing style is awful, it is completely ungrammatical and barely makes sense at some points. Honestly I read parts of the book and it looked like terribly written fanfiction to me.

Anyways, if I had to choose one favorite book of mine it would be Still Life With Woodpecker by Tom Robbins. Small, funny, magical and with a really deep but easy to understand philosophy. Also, Dyed Red Hair by Kostas Mourselas (a Greek novelist, this particular novel of his has been translated in many languages including English). It is a great book but you have to be at least a little bit familiar with contemporary Greek history (although the genre is not historical at all, more like romance and psychological, but knowing some stuff helps you understand the characters better.

I will go for paperback. In fact, I think mass paperback is even better, since its a lot smaller and lighter (plus mass paperback books get a great vintage smell after some years and as a fan of secondhand books it's one of the big pros for me). Next I would go with hardcover, which I personally don't prefer since it bothers me that I cannot flip the cover and the pages I already read back. Last I would go with ebooks, they are pretty handy and can be easily downloaded for free and they are great for textbooks and general interest books but nothing compares to the real thing when it comes to novels; you need to feel the pages in order to feel the story.

@tk327:

It's impossible to cut yourself with modern razor  :blink:

Hahahah believe me, it's pretty easy to get even deep cuts with a regular modern razor if you are a klutz like me. I don't really have a problem of shaving my buttcheeks, well that should be simple enough (plus I'm not really hairy there so I wouldn't even need to trim them beforehand). I am scared of shaving around my hole, like, HOW am I supposed to shave there if I cannot see there (yes, mirror, but again, HOW??). Why does personal grooming have to be so confusing?? ??? ???

@Eridanos:

Guess you can try the lemon juice…

But honestly, if you have acne in other parts of your body besides your face I think you might use some products used for facial acne.

It can also be that you just have very greasy skin (due to age or genetics or both) so you have to use an exfoliant soap when you bathe/shower so discard any humectating soaps you might be using and use a body scrub or sponge.

Well it's not that I have greasy skin, in fact I don't even have acne anymore. My problem is different, I have dark blotches left in the spots that I used to have acne, they are like the aftermath of it and they take years to heal. I have already tried the lemon juice and it helps a little bit but only on the smaller not so dark blotches.

(I know I have spammed this particular section of the forum today, but honestly I have a lot of stuff I want to talk about and I thought it would be better if I made a separate topic for each one since they are different things…)

So, once again, I'm 22 years old and I have already started losing a great amount of hair (typical male hair loss pattern: both a receding hairline and a thinning crown), despite not having used hair gel or anything on them since middle school (if I have to use anything I always go with wax). I have tried vitamins, serums, pills, shampoos, and any possible type of treatment I could find but nothing really helped so I guess it is a gene thing and I can't really do something to prevent it.

I really don't like the idea of having random bald spots or uneven/patchy/scarce hair so I thought I would shave my head completely (in my opinion it looks more elegant and groomed than leaving the thinning hair be). I'm not sure if I'm gonna look good as a skinhead, and I'm also afraid that people in the gay community won't like it

What do you think? Do you have a similar problem? How did you deal with it? Would you date a baldie? ::)

I'm 22 and not really hairy, in fact I would most probably be considered a twink. My butt would be considered smooth with the exception of the area around my hole which is pretty much a small forest I have considered shaving the whole area (including both my buttcheeks and my hole) but I'm really scared I'm gonna cut myself with the razor (FYI I'm a really clumsy guy, I shave my face for about 10 years now and still get cuts EVERY TIME I groom myself)… I don't mind having a hairy butt and hole but I have got some nasty looks from guys I have dated

What do you think? Is it okay to keep going with a hairy hole or should I do something about it?

Does anyone here know about any effective treatments/remedies for body acne? I have dark blotches left like scars from acne on my back, thighs and butt, and it makes me feel really insecure and embarrassed of my own image. I have already asked some people (especially some girls who are interested and well-informed on cosmetics) and they have told me that lemon juice is probably the most effective on these particular dark marks, it basically bleaches the spot (in fact one girl in particular told me she has paid thousands on professional procedures and products to get rid of her body acne with none of them having any noticeable result but lemon juice worked exceptionally well).

Any suggestions are appreciated! Thank you!!

@FratRat:

Have you thought about using the word Androphile? As in: Someone who is attracted to masculinity. I think "Queer" has so many political implications, that it wouldn't make sense to me on someone who doesn't tend to be politically transgressive.

It's a shame there aren't more porn studios working with trans guys though.

OMG, I have never thought of using the term Androphile, now that you say it it would totally makes sense! Thanks a lot for mentioning it, I have heard the term before and I know the etymology and meaning of it since I'm Greek (this is why I'm really surprised that it didn't cross my mind AT ALL haha)

And yes I am aware of the fact that "queer" has a political hue, but well, personally I identify as an anarcho-queer (anarchist with prominent beliefs about glbt rights, sexuality and gender freedoms, equality, and feminism), so it doesn't really bother me that it carries a political meaning too.

When we use the term "bi-curious" we almost always refer to someone who identifies as a heterosexual but is curious to try homosexual acts (ranging from just kissing to hardcore sex). But I guess the term could be used in reverse, aka for homosexuals who have experimented or want to experiment with someone of the opposite gender?

Have you guys experimented with a woman before? Would you like to? Personally I have only made out with a girl (funny thing: it was years after I have realized I'm more into guys than into girls, I literally made out with her cause we were both bored, I didn't do it to convince myself I was str8 or anything). I liked it but I didn't feel any particular sexual attraction or desire AKA I didn't want to fuck her (and never thought having actual sex with a girl). The kissing/making out is a more casual playful thing for me, especially if you are a little tipsy

In fact, the reason why I think this is a queer/peculiar thing is that most guy who identify as gay are disgusted by vaginas but have absolutely no problem with other aspects of the female physique (for example boobs). For me it's basically the opposite, I would totally stick my prick in a vagina but I crave the beard, the flat chest, the body hair and the deep voice.

:hiya:
Writers are always welcome, I guess we all look forward to new topics and discussions!!

Welcome to our company, buddy!

Heya! I'm not from Down Under either, but I hope you find someone here! In the meanwhile enjoy the forum!!

Hello there! Welcome to the forums!! ^-^

About a year I decided to stop using the term "gay" to identify myself since I don't really like labels. Now, whenever someone asks me, I will just answer "queer", it's a much more fluid word. One of the main reasons I don't identify with the more strict "gay" label is because I feel sexual attraction towards FTM transgender people. Not only I could totally date and/or have sex with someone who has fully transitioned, but I really like the idea of being with someone who identifies as male, has started hormone therapy and undergone chest surgery but hasn't undergone genital surgery yet. Basically what I'm trying to say is that I'm attracted towards people who identify as men and look like men, except for the fact that they have a vagina. Someone told to me that I should basically start calling myself bisexual because of this, but I think that this would not feel right since I'm not attracted to cisgender women (apart from making out with friends, I never really fancied girls in a sexual way). At the same I feel really uncomfortable with the idea of having sex with a transexual woman (MTF) who haven't undergone genital surgery.

(DISCLAIMER: I have absolutely no problem with individuals of any gender/sexuality, I could absolutely be friends with anyone. This whole thing has to do with my personal preferences in terms of sexual attraction ONLY!!!)

Basically I think my situation is basically that I'm attracted to anyone who has the body physique/characteristics of a male and identifies as a male, with the genital part being less important.

Does anyone else have the same thing or maybe the opposite? I would love to talk about it!

I guess both are great for their own reasons. Piss showers make you super wet and sexy, and tbh I prefer showering on clothes (especially white wifebeaters, the piss stenches look hot as fuck). Drinking piss makes you feel the real experience, it turns you into a devoted piss pig. The taste can be really strong sometimes (especially in the morning) but most of the time it tastes just fine