You don't. If he feels you're too young for him, then that's that. Keep the rhythm going and move on.
Posts made by Domosuke
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RE: How do you seduce an older guy who holds back?
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RE: For a million dollars would you?…
Wow, I don't know. I probably would if I was under sedation. If I had to live without a penis I wouldn't mind either lol. Yes lol.
For a million dollars would you run your car into a shopping mall? lol.
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RE: "The person below me" game.
No. I've never been in a relationship period.
TPBM is hungry.
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RE: "The person below me" game.
No I don't. I live in a house.
TPBM, it's raining outside right now where you live?
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RE: THIS or THAT: the game
That's tough. You also didn't say what type of doctor because that can settle it. I'll say cop though.
White socks or black socks
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RE: For a million dollars would you?…
Yes if god blesses me with a boyfriend and I can bring my pets and still gather food and go to markets and shit, I lived in a place to where I wouldn't get tempted like on some tropic island.
For a million dollars would you sew your lips shut for life?
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RE: Why is there such an age barrier in the gay society?
Yeah I ask myself why is there ageism/age barrier's in gay society? I also ask myself;
Why is there virgin shaming in gay society?
Why is there racism in gay society?
Why is masculinity challenged in gay society?
Why is femininity shamed upon in gay society?
Why is promiscuity so praised in gay society? (Not that I'm complaining about it)
Why is unsafe sex and bareback so rewarded in gay society?
Why are there so many divisive and enclosed groups and cliques in gay society?
I don't know, it's just the way it is. You don't have to follow any set agendas.
You would have to ask each and every individual person to get a clear consensus, even then. People can lie so.
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RE: For a million dollars would you?…
No I would not.
For a million dollars would you turn yourself into a dolphin/whale? lol.
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RE: "The person below me" game.
No but my father has.
TPBM has a crush on someone.
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RE: THIS or THAT: the game
Starbucks
Approach people or let people approach you
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RE: Poll: Discrimination–Abuse and You
Education levels (of the parents and personal) tends to dictate bigotry.
It's not even about that. It's just the unwritten guy code. No matter how civilized and educated a man is, if he himself is not homosexual, he's just not going to get it and it's just the way it is.
He's going to distance himself from a homosexual man unless he's known him his whole life or they for financial and personal reasons have to be around each other. Like family, friends, coworkers etc.
He can be tolerable and be an "ally" and "to each his own" about it, but at the end of the day, it's not his issue to worry about.
I don't agree with that. There are plenty of straight males who are more than happy to be around gay men. I live in Boston and nobody cares here. I do think that education does play a role as raphjd stated above. This state has more educated people than any other per capita.
We will just agree to disagree.
I stand by what I said in my original post. Most straight men want nothing to do with gay men and they are laughing at you and not with you. No, they won't hang you and throw stones at you, but they aren't going to relate to you that much.
Your best bet is to find gay or "bi" guys who are more understanding.
Even then in that case;
I even forgot to add in my first post, that sadly even gay men are assholes too. They will on purpose be closeted around other open gay men which just makes the situation worse. The gay community itself has issues.
"More than happy" What the fuck does that mean?
All the straight men I've known kept their distance with me. They let me know from jumpstreet not to mention anything gay related to them. Or if I do come across as too gay from them, they usually change the subject and alert me to stop.
Maybe it's just the fact that I'm more flamboyant and feminine. That's bullshit though. This is the way god made me, so that shit is dismissive. I'm a human being first and foremost.
I've had "bi" guys that didn't seem to give a fuck, and allow me to hug them and mess around and bitch with them.
I live in LA. It doesn't get more open minded than that.
I don't think education has anything to do with it.
It has to do with guy code and male masculinity.
I have met more homophobic professors and educated men. I have seen so many open minded homeless guys who have no education.
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RE: For a million dollars would you?…
I'd give it a shot. It's not toxic right?
For a million dollars would you shoot yourself out of a cannon with no safety cord on your back or anything? lol.
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RE: Poll: Discrimination–Abuse and You
Education levels (of the parents and personal) tends to dictate bigotry.
It's not even about that. It's just the unwritten guy code. No matter how civilized and educated a man is, if he himself is not homosexual, he's just not going to get it and it's just the way it is.
He's going to distance himself from a homosexual man unless he's known him his whole life or they for financial and personal reasons have to be around each other. Like family, friends, coworkers etc.
He can be tolerable and be an "ally" and "to each his own" about it, but at the end of the day, it's not his issue to worry about.
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RE: RPGs or FPS?
Neither. I like Music and Rhythm games.
The only FPS are like survival horror and maybe GTA if I'm feeling sadistic.
Not really into RPG's as they are boring and are set in like unrealistic parallel universes and crap. There are exceptions to the rule but ugh.