Posts made by Dene

@TheNewt:

Gay for pay is a myth that the porn industry has used for decades to sell porn.  It's based on homophobia/biphobia and bad stereotypes about bisexual and gay men.

No guy that's hetero/straight is going to do porn where he has sex with other men, or have sex with other men for money as a hooker on the side.

Contrary to what people believe about the myth of porn, you don't make a lot of money from it.

Most men and even women that you see in porn are prostitutes on the side as that's how they make most of their money, and the videos are basically just advertisement for them; but it has been this way for decades.

Gay 4 Pay is real - the extent may be arguable, I think some are  straight but not all that claim the gay4pay tag are straight, but it is 100% real -.

100% agree re : "It's based on homophobia/biphobia and bad stereotypes about bisexual and gay men." - it sells because of his - most gay men believe, either consciously or subconsciously that straight men are more "manly" and it is fantasy

Early Sean Cody are built around this and hence why it grew so much

There was a blog i read recently, written a long time ago about a gay guy's experience with Sean Cody - I think i found it on these forums - the behind the scenes we do not see is so very different to what we see

the money adds up though - i mean 8k a month for certain sites for 3 or 4 scenes is nothing to sneeze at and i'm sure some earn more and do more scenes - for some of those guys that's a gold mine

Teacher Gives Kids Fake Spelling Test For April Fools’ Day, Includes Hilarious “Drag Race” Question
Which famous "Drag Race" clique did he give a shout-out to?

FYI - The Teacher is H. O. T. HOT!

http://www.newnownext.com/spelling-test-april-fools-drag-race/03/2017/

@Cumsucking:

Hey!

• I'd like to know how I can be notified of receiving any amount of Seedbonus points from someone, even the slightest ones? Sometimes I receive some Seedbonus points but I'm not even aware that I received them so then I have to check all my uploaded torrents to see if anyone gave them to me which is exhausting, especially when amount of my uploaded torrents grows over time…

• So if there's some box that I can check or something, to always be notified of receiving SB points, I'd really appreaciate you telling me

Thanks guys!  :love:

woo hoo - looks like you got your wish - I just got a notice that someone said thankyou and then it told me how many seedpoints they gave me

Thankyou Kind Sir!

@JerodParker:

My ass bleeding during an orgy cuz the guy finger fucked me too roughly.  It was in the dark too so I can't see what happened.

I know it was an orgy but seriously - you think people would have respect and not just go all "bull in a china shop"

:welco:

Hope you enjoy your stay! And feel free to be free with your seed points and seeding 

@Cumsucking:

Yeah, I know this option. I just thought there might be something I can do to start receiving notification messages whenever I receive any amount of Seedbonus Points from someone, but thanks a lot for trying to help!

ok - then I second your request ! 

@jonas32:

We had invited Mother to have dinner one day. And while i was cooking dinner my husband walks in and we started to kiss. It ends with he fucks me on the kitchen table.

And my Mother walks in on us (she decided to come a little early)

She says: i can wait outside and you call me when you are done) and walks out.

I swear i'd practically be in tears of embarrassment - oh my god

@antstorm:

I was a little inebriated and went home with a good looking bloke , got to his place , kissing was nice , ripped the clothes off
uncircumcised , ok what the heck , never slept with a guy that was uncut , went down to blow it , smelt fucking rank , i mean RANK
it was that bad i threw up all over him   not just a little spew , i mean a bucket ..poor fucker
suffice to say that put me off uncut cocks for ever.

I am uncut and am terrified of spontaneous sex - I need to shower beforehand as im terrified of being THAT smelly guy lol

I was maybe 8 and I just knew I was not like the other guys.. i even did the "stereotypical" preference for dolls rather than cars as toys etc -  i didn't know/think "oh i'm gay" but i did get crushes on male teachers and even fellow male students -  by the time I was 11, someone, a classmate or someone named it for me, in conversation or in a lesson - and it sort of started to click in to place.. i, personally, just accepted it as just me and i kinda just shrugged - but then by 15 i was starting to unravel - European parents in the 80s/90s did not join PFLAG LOL

@Minerboh80:

19 years old when i fell in love with him.

The way you wrote this seems like the start of a torrid gay romance movie LOL

quickest way to see a breakdown of seedpoints is click on you name.. now instead of going down to "seeding torrents" or whatever, click at the very top, where it says my torrents - it lists them there - next to each of your uploads

@wizardman8:

@louco:

definitely you should ask to talk to him privately and then open up. If you had a story with him this shouldn't be a taboo between you two, that only makes things worse. best luck on that.

plot twist, alrd did ask him to speak privately face to face. But he cannot and won't do it. Bc he's too anxious and doesn't have the emotional capacity to handle such conversation.  :crazy2: . It sounds crazy, I know, Ive been with him for 2 years, this is what happened whenever we get into a fight, 1 of us is upset, or when we're about to have serious conversation. I might've dodged the bullet when I think of it regarding this guy. 

He sounds like an emotionally/mentally immature guy with self esteem issues, who needs to face up to his actions - you deserve someone that, no matter the error, will at least attempt to discuss it with you - that is not a lot to ask

people like him want it all but want no consequence - kinda like leechers on this site that screw up their ratio then freak out.. instead of just fixing it lol

googled him, out of curiosity, and found this lol

https://sidelineland.com/2012/11/21/pretty-pete-sharp/

I'm no Casanova but I find this can work - It depends on your personality & what you want to attract and convey - i do not go out anymore but when i did:

*Genuine smile, a nod & patience - he will engage if he wants.

• Casually walk past him on the dance floor as if you are passing through - Something simple as "Having a good night?" That used to work for me - it is a loud place so lean in and say it  ;). It worked in the sense that it was a very simple but nice ice breaker - If I sensed even a hint of him liking me I may follow up with something else - depending on the situation - like, "feel like some dance company?" or "if you are up for it, come grab me for a dance later" big smile

be yourself.. don't suddenly be this horny toad who leers at guys etc (i'm assuming you are not that kinda guy lol) - but it is a kink ball so i may be suggesting too much subtlety lol

Do things that improve your confidence in yourself - stop trying to please others - if you spend too much time trying to please others then you get nowhere, in my opinion.

The sexiest men who exude a lack of confidence may seem to get more offers - but those offers get retracted, quite quickly - it is hard to do because extreme arrogance is also a turn off - even in the way you write your profiles online can be telling on your confidence level. Trust in yourself and fake it a little (NO LYING though lol)

be comfortable in your own skin.. treat yourself.. if you are concerned about your hair or your glasses - treat yourself, save the money and change them

Hair is easy to change - go to a hairdresser, one you trust or has good reviews in your area and, without going in to too much detail, explain you are after a new look and ask them for advice on something that would suit you

I wear glasses too - I understand 1000% they are not cheap but I see it like this - They are the only thing we wear every. single. day. of my life  (unless you have multiple pairs lol )

I see people complain about glasses costs but then spend $200 on a pair of shoes they wear 3x

invest in yourself - you are not ugly and noone is perfect to everyone - no matter what ppl say

I used to work with a guy who had grindr on his phone.. he came up running up to me one day.. "oh my god oh my god.. That huge sexy guy fixing the lights, have you seen him?" I was like "definitely he is hot!!!" - he then showed me his phone.. the guy was on grindr with a hot topless pic.. we were laughing our heads off

This is so funny to me!

Wish it was so easy for me!

It is a HUGE thing - imo that the AFL even HAS a women's league - so it IS great but I will say this.. not one male AFL player has ever some out as gay in the the 75+ years it has existed - there have been rumours that a few contemplated it but that they were dissuaded by veterans who scared them with possible horror stories and stupid crap about locker room being uncomfortable etc

Australian men are very much of the thinking that lesbians are ok but gay men are dirt

they did have a pride weekend where it was gay themed - in response to some real homophobic stuff that happened over time, in the sport

@Eridanos:

Just to clarify…this is on the women's league, right?  I confused Demon Clifford for Damon Clifford (might need new glasses)

Sooooooooo............

Congrats to both girls for finding love.

(Do all football players get nicknames in Australia?)

most do, pretty much - some people would have to think for a second, if you wanted their real names of the players they love LOL