so I have trouble maintaining a rock hard erection during sex, and I'm 26. I really don't fool around with guys much due to only being able to climax with my hand. It's quite frustrating.
So I decided to experiment with viagra. It was pretty incredible at first because it didn't give me a boner until I was turned on by kissing. (Kissing, cuddling and body contact turns me on much more than sex)
and boy was I hard. It was amazing! But the issues I had with sex were still there, mostly being that when the guy gives me a blowjob and pulls down my foreskin it just doesn't feel good. It's this strange intense sensation that doesn't feel pleasant. It's such a powerful sensation that I need to tell them to stop or I will unintentionally give them a golden shower (which is not my cup of tea)
I don't want to get circumcised but I feel there must be a way to desensitize my dick for blowjobs and penetration. I only jerk off by gliding the foreskin up and down so I never touch my bare head when I masturbate.
The other issue I have is that the bottom I am fwb with is significantly taller than me, and has a rather thick ass. It turns me on, but…I'm having difficulty topping him because of how damn big his ass is.
Feel free to mock me but...I legit find it so difficult to get inside his ass doggystyle because of how thick he is there...and he's really only willing to do that one position..