Posts made by 36605domtop

I knew Ricky Sinz bottomed.  I had sex with him in Chicago, where I think he lived at the time, and I wasn't the bottom. In real life he bottoms often, but not so much on camera.

Haigen Sence started out at Corbin Fisher as Tyson.  He bottomed in Tyson gets fucked.

Igor was a total surprise to me.  I read that and had to google it!  I found the pictures of it here:  http://www.todorelatos.com/relato/31153/
The text is in Spanish I believe.  Anybody know the name of this video?

Besides Igor, Christian Wilde was the other surprise for me.  He bottomed for Austin Wilde in the Naked Sword's Golden Gate series ….one of the first season episodes.

My experience has been that relationships with two tops usually works in one of three ways:

1. Both tops bottom for each other.
2. One top agrees/decides to bottom exclusively.
3. Both tops go hunting to share a bottom.

All three are fun depending on the relationship type you want and the level of commitment you desire.

Man, this is crazy.  I'm logged in to the site almost all the time, but I just realized that chat was gone.  Seems like it's been missing about two months now.  If there ever was proof needed that sometimes I am not the most observant person, there it is.  No wonder the forums have been so much more active.

Lol. I love it.  It's cool though.  I was wondering what she was saying in the chorus - "a fait accompli"
Well, just drop some French on me from somewhere out of the blue.

How about Stephen Dorff in Shadowboxer….with condom covered semi erection post fucking.... :cheers:

Movie: Ryan Gosling
          Chris Evans a close second
TV:    Matt Bomer
          Simon Baker a close second

@Spintendo:

@36605domtop:

You really have to find two other people that you are totally into on an equal basis.  The minute the equality goes on pretty much any basis, I would say that this idea starts heading towards splitsville.

Love is given equitably, not equally. If equal is every child having a pair of shoes, then equitable is every child having a pair of shoes that fits. You can see how there is a difference between the two words, and a throuple where the love was equally doled out would not only be impossibly difficult to maintain it would also be quite unfair to all involved.

I would argue that we strive for equality in most things in life, but that equitability or equitableness is what we usually use to define what we ultimately achieve.  Ask any member of a three child family.  The parents always strive to raise each child equally, while learning from their mistakes.  But, the actual result of that is that the children are raised "equitably".  The majority of the time, the oldest child will say that he was spoiled until the second child arrived.  The middle child is likely to say that he felt "forgotten", as the oldest and youngest children probably received the most attention.  The third child is likely to say his parents were the least involved and/or hands on with him.  The two older children likely took on more of the parenting responsibility for the youngest.  That's an equitable result. But, is that what anyone actually aimed for in the beginning?

Equitable love is not only fair it's also something almost everyone already does. When a person loves two parents or two siblings equitably then there's not much reason to believe they couldn't also love two boyfriends equitably.

The concept of "equitableness"/"equitability" is probably only "fair" in a legal environment, as there is usually a precedent or set of guidelines that a judge renders their decision using.  In any other situation outside of the legal arena, equitability / equitableness is just one way we choose to term or define our reality or end result.  There is no rhyme or reason to it (Fairness may or may not be applicable, and many times fairness is only present in the mind of the person trying to justify the outcome, not everyone that is involved in the outcome.) I would also argue that most are pre-dispositioned to define their end result as equitable (whether it is or not), because most simply do not want to define their attempt as a failure, especially if you find yourself on the "losing" side verses the "winning" side.

Who actually attempts to do anything relationship oriented at less than 100%?  It's impossible to give more than 100%. Who wants to accept less than 100% of a person's love?  No one only wants to be cared for on the good days of a relationship and not the bad ones. We start out wanting equality.  But on the eve of a divorce court date, we realize that despite our best efforts, we failed, and the best we can hope for is an equitable outcome.

The US is a nation that strives for equality in a lot of things, but the reality is that we have come up far short in a lot of areas.  We choose to justify the shortcoming of those results with this "equitable" concept. Equitability is what we arrive at, not what we aim for.

Traditional major was once the law of the land in every US state.  Only recently did things like domestic partnerships and civil unions come along as suitable, some might say "equitable" alternatives.  But those were NOT our initial goals, otherwise, the movement would have ended there.  We went into that fight always wanting total equality under the law, and all that comes with it, and now we have it.

I do a combination of both.  I work out at home on my cardio and lighter days.  On days when I need specific equipment, I actually go to the gym.

Beautiful Day - U2
True Colors - Cindy Lauper
I Believe I Can Fly - R. Kelly
I Will Survive - Gloria Gaynor
Just The Way You Are - Bruno Mars

I know guys who have tried this.  You really have to find two other people that you are totally into on an equal basis.  The minute the equality goes on pretty much any basis, I would say that this idea starts heading towards splitsville.  Nobody likes being left out, and if any of the three start to feel that way about anything, it is hard to recover from that.  Think about it.  What if two people become much more attracted to one another than the third?  What if two earn significantly more money and could do many more things financially than the other?  What if two are out and one is still in the closet?

I would try one if I felt the right mix of people were involved, but to me, being successful at it is as likely as catching lightning in a bottle.

Is it just me, or are grindr and jack'd over run with bots?

I'm from the U.S.and while usually most company's don't have issues shipping to Canada, it seems this isn't the case when trying to purchase poppers.  I checked the websites that I usually order from, and they all specifically say that they do not ship to Canada.  As far as brands are concerned, I usually purchase Amsterdam or English poppers.  Those two brands never seem to give me a headache after using them.

http://www.4poppers.com/

I'm fairly new to EDM, but I really like True Colors by Zedd.  I've only listened to it twice in full, and I don't think anything on there is as good as his single "Clarity" from like 2012, but I do think it is good.

Beautiful Thing from 1996.  It's one of the first gay themed movies I ever saw.  Whenever I am sad and need a pick me up, it's a sure fire winner.  It's a reminder for me that real love can overcome anything and everything.

It's funny, but I end up finding interesting guys judt during the course of everyday life.  My date for this coming weekend was met while shopping in Trader Joe's for lemon grass.  Other times, I've had guys offer to spot me during  benchpresses at the gym, and we've gone out afterwards.  I don't really do anything special, I just do whatever I'm interested in and I stay open to talking to people.

I downladed that from here this past weekend, I've only watched the first episode, but you guys have me curious about how it's going to go.  Looking forward to seeing the rest.

Connor Maguire
Colby Keller
Tim Krueger
Austin Wilde
Adam Russo

Yes, it is still the norm in the U.S., but the times are changing.  I think more and more parents are choosing to not have this unnecessary procedure performed on their sons.  In some cases, that is because insurance does not always cover it anymore.  For others, they simply won't do anything that is not required, hence this big dust up over whether children should really be immunized for measles/mumps/rubella.  A lot of Finally, a lot of fathers are leaving it up to their son to decide, which I think is what should be done, because many of the fathers did not have a choice in the matter themselves.

lol, I can't say that I am huge fan, but I like some of her earlier stuff (Toxic is the shit!).  I do like how she put the smack down on Iggy Azalea over their failed single "Pretty Girls".  I don't think Iggy will come for Britney again.

http://www.theguardian.com/music/2015/jun/30/iggy-azalea-britney-spears-pretty-girls-flop

I like that as well, outside of her joint references.  I had no idea Rihanna did interludes.  I've never bought a full album of hers - only singles that I liked.