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Here's the new album's title track.

http://www.complex.com/music/2015/09/janet-jackson-new-song-unbreakable

This one is going to have to grow on me.  It didn't grab me at first listen.

Here's a link covering one of her opening tour dates.

http://www.eonline.com/news/691706/janet-jackson-kicks-off-unbreakable-world-tour-in-vancouver-performs-everything-from-nasty-to-no-sleeep

I may get some flack for saying this, but I am surprised that renboy was able to get away with openly promoting the facilitation of prostitution for so long.  In the U.S., prostitution is illegal. It does not matter that it is the world's oldest profession, or that it could/should be a private matter between the parties involved, or any other reason people manufacture to get around the one simple fact that it is illegal in the US.

Rentboy was bold. There website and advertising left no question as to what it's purpose was…serving as a digital pimp for prostitution transactions.  They were even headquartered in the US - not somewhere in say, Europe, where things like prostitution are regulated and openly permitted.

With the fall of Ashley Madison and the release of all that data on the web, you have to realize that a website like rentboy, which probably has more than a few government officials (foreign and domestic) with accounts in its records, was likely to be targeted.  A politician can recover from a heterosexual affair. Very few politician have recovered from being caught up in gay scandals - particularly Republicans or politicians not known previously to be gay. For them, it's better to have the government shut the website down and seize the data than to risk having it come out in the open like Ashley Madison.  I would bet that rentboy's digital security is/was no better than Ashley Madison's.

The protestors can complain all they want.  This is pretty much an open and shut case.  People should be amazed that the website was able to last as long as it did.  It's simply that the government chose to no longer turn a blind eye in the wake of recent events.

@myrea:

Hope she has an epiphany about hipocrisy while there

I could not have said it better. 3 divorces and 4 husbands later she has these firm Christian beliefs.  It's not about her beliefs anyway. It's about being in an elected public servant role and failing to perform mandatory functions for that role.

1. Sean Cody - I like the younger, clean cut, athletic guys.
2. Chaosmen - their guys are a bit more "real" than sean cody guys for me.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 
3. Mormon Boyz - I am sold on this Mormon angle, even if I know it's mostly fantasy
4. Kinkmen.com - I have to have some kink, and this is where I turn to.
5. Active Duty - I have a military fetish, but I know many current guys aren't former/current military. Back in the early 2002's….

Honorable Mentions: Gayhoopla - guys are hot, cam work and sets and limited action mainly are blah.
                              Guys In Sweat Pants - if Austin gets the twink ratio lower, this site will really take off
                              Pumpingmuscle.com - their softcore bodybuilders are hot!!

You've already solved your problem - realizing that there is no issue with what YOU are doing!

Suggestions:

1. Spend a week watching him masturbate whenever he does it.  Learn how he gets himself off.  What and where does he focuses attention on. Is he gentle or rough with stroking? Lots of friction on the grip or very loosely done?  Get inside his head.  What is he thinking about? Have him verbalize it.

If you are looking to get him off by blowing him, try to re-enact what you've learned that he likes when you blow him.  For example, my sub was amazed at my staying power for oral sex.  He challenged himself to find a way to get me to blow a load for him in 8 minutes or less.  He now knows that some gentle sucking for five minutes or so followed by 3 minutes of aggressive, hoover type action on just the head of my cock while talking dirty to him will have his mouth filled in no time flat.

It was a win-win for both of us.  He has the confidence and ability and multiple ways to make me blow whenever he wants, and I learned that there are now several ways that I can actually get off from oral, whereas I never could before.

Same concepts apply to anal….  Long story short, find out what he likes, and give that to him in a way that makes him focus on nothing but what YOU are doing to him, not just what his hand can do

One more, or, at least for this one particular song, two as both of these duet partners have passed.

He is know for "Superfreak", the basis of "U Can't Touch This", and "Mary Jane" his ode to weed, or later in life for his catch phrases: "I'm Rick James, bitch!" or "Cocaine is a hell of a drug."  She has many hit singles such as "I Need Your Lovin'", "Portuguese Love", "Lovergirl", "If I Were A Bell", and "Out On A Limb".

But together, the deceased Rick James and the deceased Teena Marie had "Fire and Desire"

Youtube Video

I love them both, but Teena came in with her first note @ 3:40 in the clip and owned it until the end….

Luther Vandross

I need to hear "A House Is Not A Home"

Found it on youtube - a live performance, no less showing all his vocal talents.

Youtube Video

Music like this simply is no longer made….he had the audience completely in his hands!

With or Without You - U2

So many great couples on this list.  I cheated a bit and looked at the results first.  Since I saw that one of my favorite couples had no votes yet, I chose Santiago and Miguel from Undertow.  I would have gladly rolled around on the beach with him. The movie is sad and always makes me cry.

While Rihanna's music is hit and miss with me, probably more hit than miss though, the one thing I love about her is her realness.  She tells you what she thinks.  She does not sugar coat things.  If she likes you, cool. If she doesn't like you - she has no problems saying "fuck off".  You like her music. Great. You hate her music, well fuck you.

A perfect example of that realness is found here.

https://www.yahoo.com/celebrity/heres-what-happens-when-you-falsely-claim-youre-126940473981.html

If you think you are dating Rihanna, you better clear that with her.  Otherwise you too may be made to look a fool of social media, no matter who you are! Just ask Matt Barnes.

“#bishwhere #thedevilisaliar #shesnotthatintoyou #shesnotintoyouatall #shesneverevenmetyou #thisactuallyhurtmyfeelings #defamationofcharacter.”

@XFER:

LOL! I think she just doesn't know exactly what she wants to do in music. Her last two albums have been atrocious. Next album will have to sell decently, or she will forever be a has-been.

Agreed.  It's such a shame too, because she has an amazing voice and can actually sing, a rarity in this day and age.  I have to go all the way back to 2006's Back to Basics to find an album I like.  She's had several great singles since then, but the albums have been trash.  She still has it in her.  Last year's "Say Something" with A Great Big World was moving, and even earned them a Grammy. She just needs to figure out what she wants to do and stop chasing all these musical trends that don't fit her.  Her voice will always make her stand out, and if it's paired with music that she can connect to and feel, then we'll all forget these few unworthy albums.

It depends on where each person is in their life.  There's nothing worse than being in a serious relationship and realizing that you simply are not ready for it.  Are you ready to give up some of your independence? (This is a big one, as it is very hard to shift thinking from I/me to we or us) Are you ready to not be the final decision maker? Are you ready to support shared goals, dreams, and desires?  Are you truly ready to live with someone else?

I ask these questions because no one asked me those types of questions when I was going from serious relationship to serious relationship in my 20's and failing miserably with them.  My main failure was the inability to shift from I/me to we.  I always thought you could remain in a serious relationship without either giving up any of their individual lives.  My experience has been that you can function like that for a few years, but in the end you will split, as a relationship is much more than two "I's".  It has to become a "We" at some point to continue growing and not get bored or lose interest with one another. The good thing is that the two of you get to decide what that we looks like!

So don't knock your friends for not wanting a relationship.  They likely know themselves and simply know that they are not ready to commit to a serious relationship.  That's commendable in my book, as they are not wasting anyone's time or hurting anyone.

@bebekid:

That poses an interesting question, do you buy albums anymore (of new material) or just singles?

Hmm,I mostly buy singles these days.  If I find myself with 3 or so from an album, I might go ahead and pick up the album if I catch it on sale.  The bar is much lower these days.  I used to have to hear 5-6 singles I liked.  But, that was also when albums had a certain theme or a vibe to them.  Many albums these days are nothing more than a collection of unrelated singles.

@musclejizz:

@landerkay:

Which one is your favorite? I prefer anything old spice

I use Old Spice Swagger (I personally find the name ridiculous but I've received many compliments from others about the scent)

+1 on Old Spice Swagger.  I just finished my first bottle earlier this morning.  Had to pick up another after work.  The smell is very cool. Have gotten lots of compliments on it. Can't really describe the smell, but it's not fruity/spicy/or feminine smelling.  It also dies down to just a hint of itself pretty fast.

Well I have experience with both, and I think it comes down to your experience level with computers, and what you plan on using the computer to do.  For inexperienced users, or those who state up front that they are not looking to spend a lot of time learning the ins and outs of computers, I recommend Macs.  PCs have come a long way in terms of usability and drivers, but Macs are still substantially easier to use for those new to the game.

If you are into desktop publishing, graphic design, video content creation / editing, music, etc.  A Mac is also probably best for you.  The software there is stellar, and it works well and is easy to use.

For most other use cases outside of general stuff like web surfing, email, and the like (which either is fine for), I'd suggest a PC.  It is slowly changing, but the business world is still running PCs mostly.  Running emulation software on a Mac and having to convert everything in order to use a Mac in the business environment is a lot of work….much more work than simply getting familiar with a PC.

Hardware wise, both are pretty similar as Macs have been using Intel  PC processors for years now, so they key differentiation comes down to software and how invested you are in the "look and feel" / design of your computer.  Cost then comes a matter as well, as Macs using the same PC hardware are usually considerably more expensive for the same hardware.

I am not sure of how it is today on the Mac side, but it has traditionally been easier for a user to upgrade their PC components themselves than those using Macs.  Watch a youtube video and see how easy it is to upgrade a hard drive, swap a video card, install a blu ray burner, or add additional ram, etc.  Apple used to lock stuff like this down...so not sure where that is on the Mac side today.  Component choice on the PC side is limitless in many cases, while on the Mac side, choice is fairly limited.

Those are just some of the differences I see, and what I base my choices and recommendations on. I serve as the tech support guy in my family for members with problems.  I get more calls from those who own PCs, but then again most own PCs and not Macs.  One last observation = if you take the time to learn how PCs work, you usually don't have to learn anything else.  If you sign up for the Mac world, you still have to learn a fair bit about PCs, as you still have to know how to interface with a PC dominated world.

Hip Hop is for anyone and everyone.  If you like what you hear from an artist, then go for it.  It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks as long as YOU like it.  Personally, I am not the biggest fan of hip-hop / rap as those genres historically are not very gay friendly, but despite homophobic lyrics on the album, someone will have to pry Eminem's The Marshall Mathers LP from my cold dead hands because it will always be one of my favorite albums because of what was happening in my life at that time.

"The Way I Am" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQvteoFiMlg and "Stan" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gOMhN-hfMtY are both calling out for spins right now.

Calvin Harris for me…

Tom Selleck in Magnum, P. I.

I love rimming, as long as the hole is clean.  I was never really into being rimmed. But, as with most things, it depends on the person.  Once I was with someone who enjoyed doing it as much as I did, it was a totally different experience.  I would never have dreamed of saying, "Get. your. fucking. tongue. all-the-way. into me. Now!", but with guys who are truly into it and rim well, those words come out easily.

Whitney Houston, Toni Braxton, Mariah Carey, Janet Jackson, Madonna, Diana Ross, Christina Aguilera, and if we go way back, Aretha Franklin.

Runnerups: Annie Lennox, Sarah McLachlan, and Celine Dion