Posts made by thomas261989

@F00F:

@thomas261989:

Women in gay porn. It's weird but I find it odd to see girls in gay porn.

They're called shemales.

I know what shemale means and I'm talking about real woman, my friend!

Women in gay porn. It's weird but I find it odd to see girls in gay porn.

I have just moved to Australia for 6 months and I planned to come out to my friends here because they are more openminded but due to low budget, I have to share my room with another, who is straight, and I cannot come out yet. If he knows I'm gay, he would moveout and I'll be dead 'coz I can't afford the rent. Poor me.
And watching porn is a great problem since we go to the same school and I cannot lock him out to watch porn.

@Dolmance:

I was about 13yr and I was forced (really?) to get anal by a friend of mine. I really enjoyed it! We had intense sex for about a year.
Now I'm married and I… give anal with my wife, but it's not the same thing  ;D

How come you give anal with your wife???? I just can't get it.

@lovehole:

personally, i would say YES! you can have sex any guys without loving anyone.

maybe, your still in "LUST" period! but time will come this will change.

i was like that but i found myself my beautiful, loving, sweet BF!

he's the only guy fucked me! and loving it!

I envy you!

@raphjd:

He watches his wife off screen playing with herself so he can keep it up while fucking a guy.

That disgusts me.

@cornflkgam:

As an Asian American let me chime in on what I've noticed over the years as well as my own preferences.

Many Asians do prefer white men.  Partially this is based on many Asians' perception of whites… We do get to see American movies, and white men are typically portrayed as being very manly and masculine.  They are James Bond, they're Indiana Jones, they're cowboys... With that masculinity, they're also the charming dashing hunky man who gets the girl.  They're smooth talkers.  They're sexy.

Meanwhile, in Asian movies, even if we take the hunkiest of the kung-fu stars, they're not as smooth in picking up women as they are with their white counterparts.  Generally, Asian men are portrayed as being more soft spoken, they are less masculine, and they're maybe more clumsy and silly.

Another factor is, all Asians look similar to each other... same colored skin, same hair color, growing up where everyone around you has black hair, you end up craving something very different.  American kids grow up seeing all different kinds of people of different colors and ethnicities.  A blond person isn't as "special" to a white person as it is to an Asian.

I think those are some of the factors why Asians (not just gay men, but women as well) like white men better.

Now the other way around... what I've observed is there are far fewer whites (gay men and women) that prefer Asian men, especially when you talk about the younger whites.  Why is that...

A big part of it goes back to how Asians are portrayed in the media.  Look at how many Asian men are on TV or in the movies.  There are very few outside of a kung-fu movie (Jet Li, Jackie Chan).  Who are some Asian men who are in the media but not a kung-fu action film hero?  Not many.  John Cho (Harold from Harold & Kumar)?  B.D. Wong (who is actually gay in real life)?  Can you name many else?

When there are Asian men on TV though, who do we see?  William Hung!  And other nerdy looking Asians who speak with a thick accent and act like idiots.  They keep pushing further that stereotype.

For their parts, John Cho and B.D. Wong has shown that you can be Asian, not speak with an accent, and be good looking.  Unfortunately they're not bigger in the media.

But still, we're missing the Asian leading men.

White women typically don't go for Asian men because they're not very masculine.  They're not what you consider "manly", especially when you compare them with white men.

Gay white boys (those in their 20s) don't go for Asians because I think they've got certain stereotypes about how Asians look and act, and that just turns them off.

Let's take a look at mainstream porn.  We hardly see Asians in Western porn.  In Western porn we have every sort of ethnicity well represented... blacks, Latinos, Russians, eastern Europeans.... what have you.  But very few Asians.  I can't remember his name, but he was quite big back in the 90s, and I believe he's half white half Asian.  Catalina made some Asian-themed movies-- Cream of Sum Yung Gai, Chew Manchu, Brandon Lee Wicked, Fortune Nookie.  I've seen them... they're pretty bad.  I don't think the Asians in there were very good looking.  I've seen better looking ones.  Van Darkholme comes to mind.  And plenty of Japanese porn have lots of great looking Asians.  Again, too bad they're not popular.

Speaking of porn, by the way, the stereotype that Asians have smaller dicks doesn't help.

Now, the older white men, they like Asians because as some have said, some Asians are desperate and they'll take whatever white man will have them.  Some also like Asians because they think Asians are more submissive, and I have to say from what I've seen, that may be true. This is also why you see many older white men with Asian women.

What I've seen lately though, is the tide is changing.  Thankfully, compared to the 90's, I think whites are more open to Asians now.  And more Asians are open to other Asians as well.  I think a lot of it has to do with the younger generation of Asians who were born and raised in America from immigrant parents are growing up and they don't necessarily fit the Asian stereotype of nerdy unfashionable dorks who don't speak English.  I think whites are also more knowledgeable and more exposed to Asian culture.  Asian culture isn't as mysterious as it once was.

For the record I'm in my early 30s and I have a white boyfriend who's a couple of years older than I am (and no he's not fat, though he's not a muscular hunk, I love him all the same).  I was the first Asian he's gone out with.  We met on an online dating site, and he normally wouldn't have emailed my profile because he's not into Asians but he found something I said to be funny and decided to email.  When we first met, he was prepared to speak very slowly to me, not knowing I speak English fluently (communication up to this point were all emails).  He was also shocked at how much I knew about classic American TV, or how I loved a big juicy burger with the works on it, and all-things American.  And when we finally had sex, he was also shocked that my dick was not the small little Asian dicks that he had heard about.  It goes to show what his stereotypes are (or were, I should say) about Asians.

If you ask me in the 90s if I would have an Asian boyfriend, I would've told you no way for all the reasons above.  So those stereotypes are not held just by whites, but also by other Asians.  But if you ask me today, I certainly would not mind having an Asian boyfriend.

(By the way, I realize you may not necessarily agree with what I've said above.  They are just my observations and opinions from speaking with friends and others.  There are always exceptions to every rule.)

Well said. I agree with you.

Recently moved from Vietnam to Perth, Australia

@cebuamigo:

what a poll who miss the sucking,,,sure I was sucked first.

I made it with sucking being the first option. I don't know why and when it turned out like that. Edited as soon as I got back to this site.

Going to gaybar help you to avoid being beaten up by straight guys if your gaydar just works wrongly. Many straight guys seem like to beat the gay guy if he tries to hook him up.

@keanu:

@Bonk:

A party for a website that shares movies illegally… just hope there won't be any police raid :police:

Bonk, look at yourself in the mirror. How do you recognize yourself? As a criminal file-sharer?
Not long since you became a member of a huge worldwide 'criminal organization' (?) - intentionally, voluntarily!
Why did you join? Do you feel guilty about that meanwhile? Or are you bound by an official order to collect and
share gay porn? Maybe you are you a secret or self-proclaimed cyber-cop? What is the intention of your reply?

Berlin is not the capital of North Korea, China or Tibet and the mayor of Berlin is openly gay anyway.
The policemen, attorneys and judges who are members of this 80.000+ community just like you and
me -I'm virtually certain about that- would also enjoy some impressions of the party later.

That's life.

Calm down. I think he was just joking!

Yes, I do!

You wowed me Thank. 800GB seeded, 600GB leeched, 500 forum posts. If you had done that here, you might have been a mod or in the top 10. It's great to have a person like you here. FYI, we're still 1 Asian mod short.

Do you guys recommend any HDD brand name in order to keep your treasure safe?

I only have 177GB, including porn and themed movies.

Mine was a blowjob! What was yours?

What the heck is culture style? Gay is born with it and will always be. Exclude gay-for-pay plz.

That guy was cute and looked innocent ;D About sucking cocks 4 beer, if he doesn't mind, why should I?

Are Derek and I the only who care about politics here?

I am just interested in how gay people around the world think about their countries' law systems and politicians. Do you voter for a politician who promise that he/she would support gay rights?
I really don't think that he/she will do anything he/she promised but among many candidates, I'll pick the one who support my rights. Unfortunately, in my country, no politician has ever declared that he/she'd support gay rights. And being gay is still a taboo here (although it's not forbidden).