Posts made by Thesock

@minhthuanpk:

I'm 22 and still virgin. Never ever had sex with man or women before. Sometimes i want to have a one night stand but somethinng stops me and i feel it's not right . I havent came out yet. Really get mad sometimes

Getting naked with another guy always feel a little anxious and scary.  But you've got to just get over it.  You're biologically programmed to reproduce and you need the touch of a man (or woman) psychologically, everyone does.  Get Grindr or whatever and start dating - it's what humans are supposed to do.

The more smooth a guy is there more I want to top him
The more hairy a guy is the more I want to bottom for him  >:D

In the middle of sex the most foul smelling odor started filling the room.  I tried to power through it since farts happen but it didn't go away.  In the middle of sex it becomes so stinky the bottom thinks its me but it's his own foul ass that even he is smelling now.  I couldn't continue anymore and just ended it right there.

Vers Top.  Bottoming is fun but when god gives you an 8" dick you've gotta use it.

Not really.  There's always barbarians in some part of the 3rd world killing hundreds of thousands - remember Rawanda, Kosovo, etc?  ISIS will be destroyed just as all barbarians are but then another group will pop up somewhere else spreading evil, it's just the world we live in.

@older4me:

the us version came out around the same time i did!

Same here.  When I didn't have a single gay friend to relate to that show gave me something to empathize with.

And to think that was only, like, 2003 - how far we've come in 13 years.

Growing up gay in Texas you learn a healthy skepticism for society.  When I was younger Metal was the only outlet for those feelings.  Metal is a genre of music that says "you are right - the priest, the mayor, the police chief, the governor, everyone: they're all wrong."  From Metallica to Mayhem to Meshuggah I've always been a metal fan and the drive that music gives you helped me persevere through tough times.

Wine is my least favorite alcohol so I love beer normally.  But I drink liquor if I'm going to bottom, I don't like having 64oz of beer in my stomach when a guy starts pounding it hard.

@john55665:

I'm 19 currently and haven't lost my virginity let alone kissed anyone before. I'm afraid I'm not going to find anyone any time soon because I'm into muscular guys with facial hair. It's almost safe to say that I don't find anyone around my age attractive. Make things worse, I'm Chinese and have a strong preference for Caucasians or Middle Easterns. I'm going to be so embarrassed if my first kiss happens in my late 20s… On a side note, where did you meet your partner?

I didn't meet another out gay guy until I was 24 years old, I lived in a very repressive situation and in those days there wasn't Grindr to meet other guys.  I didn't lose my virginity until 26.  These days I have sex with 12-24 guys per year (maybe making up for lost time).  Things will happen on their own timeframe and it isn't a big deal, don't let it get in your head.  Just follow your heart (or your cock), put yourself out there, take some risks, and let things happen naturally.

When the sex is super intense and hot as you're getting fucked by a dominant top there's no better exclamation point as his conquers your body and makes you his bitch than to spit on you.  It's super intense, I love it.

I think porn has made it seem more normal than it actually is.  I have a strong "DO NOT WANT" on the issue and it's been years since the last guy I slept with has even brought up the subject.

@gaypraha2:

when  I bottom I hate to have to tell the top to be more aggressive.

Absolutely, I want tops to be dominant and rough with me.

@archangelslc:

It's about pacing and leveling with each other for me.

I like starting out gentle then building up to as 'rough' as both would consent.

100% if the top starts pounding like a jackrabbit the moment he enters it makes the hole sore for the rest of the night.  Start slow and strong then build to rough passionate fucking.

When I top I don't feel a difference between condoms/bareback.

When I bottom the skin-on-skin feeling feels so much better when a guy barebacks me than when he uses a condom.  But is the slightly better feeling worth a lifetime of HIV?  No, no it is not so I almost always use condoms and only bareback with a guy who I have a relationship and trust with.

@Dolmance:

They really exist: I'm really bisexual. I love women, but sometime I have sex also with men.

@bimarriedguy:

As others have stated, we definitely exist. I'm married and love my wife sexually. However, I've always had a thing for men as well and am very much attracted to them sexually as well.

I've had a lot of friends and a lot of fuck buddies over the years and I have never once met a true "50/50" bisexual guy.  I've met gay guys who sometimes have sex with girls.  I've met straight guys who sometimes have sex with guys.  But in my experience it's always more of a horny/sexual thing than it is a "true love" thing.  I also knew a number of guys who identified bisexual in their teens but by the time were in college were exclusively gay

With billions of people in the world I'm sure there are some that are true 50/50 bisexual but I think it's very rare.  In my opinion 99% of people are oriented straight or gay.  Sure, maybe they sometimes enjoy sex with the other gender on occasion but they have a clear orientation/preference for guys or girls.

It's always easier to start by being out about being gay, if you live in a country where it's acceptable just be out from the beginning.

When you're friends with someone for years and then tell them you're gay they might react by thinking "I never hid anything from my friend so why did this friend hide that he was gay from me" and it can create distrust because you hid something from him.

I've lived in 4 cities and have had the chance to re-invent myself when I've moved.  It's still really hard to come out to people in my hometown who've known me since I was in highschool but it's very easy to tell people I'm gay in the city I currently live in because everyone knows it and accepts it.

One of the best tips I can give anyone is find a sport you love.  If you have to force yourself to "work out" or "go to the gym" you won't stick with it, but if you find something you love to do just for fun then you'll want to do it more and more.  Doesn't matter what it is - rock climbing, tennis, wrestling, rock climbing, raquetball, soccer.  As long as it involves sweating a lot and you grow to love it and want to do it every week for the rest of your life it'll have a great impact on your fitness.

Now diet is 80% of losing weight but if you are playing a sport you love you'll discover the weight comes off faster when you're eating right and it comes on slower when you're eating bad.  Finally, you'll also find you want to eat more healthy because as you make bad decisions and gain weight you'll find it hurts your athleticism in your sport or if you find yourself going out and drinking you'll find the hangover hurts your sports the next day and you won't want to have those consequences anymore.  So you'll find yourself wanting to make better decisions.

If you are caucasian get all your shoulder/back hair lasered off.  Don't bargain hunt just pay a premium to go to the best place in your city - too many people bargain hunt and get bad treatments, just get it done right not cheap.  If you aren't caucasian do your research, lasers are less effective and have more risk the darker your skin.

I used to be quite hairy but I went to one of the best clinics in the USA, have black hair on white skin, and my results were great.  95% of the hair is gone permanently and no one cares about the 5% of stray hairs that remain.  I have sex with way hotter guys now at 30 years old than I did when I was in college.  Best money I've ever spent.

It's medically called "delayed ejaculation" and about 5-10% of guys have it.  I'm one of them and I can't cum from sex.  It's purely a psychological thing that some guys have.  It's kinda' similar to how some guys can't pee when they feel like they're being watched - you're body says you need to pee you've got your dick out and you want to pee but you just can't - similar thing here, everything's doing exactly what it can but you've just got this psychological block that won't let you go over the line and let it out.

Do not enjoy it and like doing it even less.  More power to those that love it but not my bag at all.

On Safety:  Poppers are extremely popular in the gay community and in clubs yet only a handful of deaths have ever been reported and those are easily avoided cases of either ingesting the liquid instead of sniffing it or mixing with viagra.  Don't do viagra and don't drink the stuff and there's no health risks to speak of.  By way of comparison it's way way safer than alcohol.

On How it Feels:  Poppers are a vascular dilator which means it opens up blood flow throughout your body.  At first you feel your heart start to thump harder and faster as blood flow increases.  Then blood rushes to your brain and the extra hit of oxygen gives you a head-rush for 30-60 seconds that makes you feel high, it's a really good but brief feeling you quickly come down from.  Then you feel what they call "increased libido" which is kind of a mixture of horny and passive.  You want to suck cock or get fucked you're horny but not to cum yourself but to get used.  Although you don't really feel anything, it also makes you loosen up so it's easier to take your man anally.  So the combination of that "increase libido" feeling and your sphincter relaxing makes it an ideal drug for bottoms - why it's so popular with the gay community.  After like 5 minutes or so all feeling is gone and usually you take another hit.  The blood rush can cause you to lose your erection, though, making it not great for a top but for some it makes for a more intense orgasm.