Posts made by sakyo

台湾同志娱乐怎么样？

大家旅游都喜欢去什么地方有什么好玩的？

I found the idea of watching "behind the scene" videos really hot, seeing the camera man taking photos of the model and also asking him to pose in a particular way etc. Anyone else into it also? Have you done this in real life?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_gay_villages

Most places are very close to city centers hence uber expensive housing

-Gay Scene
No nowhere in the world has "gay people everywhere"…....probably not a good idea to hit on co-worker regardless of sexuality and yes if they feel uncomfortable you could be suited for big $$$

Depending on the neighbourhood, but generally people mind their own business, however if you are in the rough part of the town you might want to tone it down a bit.

-living standards
Crime rate has been increasing in certain areas. Against cost depends on personal standard and expectations (and how much money you have to shell out)

-career outlook
Sounds like you got it covered then

@cteavin:

Yeah, kinda.

Sex clubs, escort service, etc aren't things people talk about in polite company so clear definitions aren't always available. When you, someone else here, or I say sex club we could mean any number of different places.   
 
Why are you asking? Do you wanna go? It's worth checking out, just as every straight man should visit a tittie bar once in his life.  ;D

I was just not sure about how the whole thing works and why would it be appealing lol, now you put it that way, maybe

@cteavin:

@sakyo:

I never fully understood the concept of a sex club, do you just go there and hang out waiting for someone to come and make a move on you or to make a move on someone you like? Wouldn't there be concern of being filmed by someone there etc?

It really depends on how you define it.

Saunas or bathhouses can be called a sex club.
Sex parties (at someone's house) count.
Backrooms at events and bars (really popular in Europe) also.

Then there's the whole meet on line, set a venue and have party kind of thing.

In Asia bars where you meet a paid host then go off together, not really a sex club but kinda serves the same customers. Some such places have sex shows, others strip shows, to get you in the mood before you chose a man and go.

So I guess what I described was a sauna/bathhouse then? The Asian bars you have described is more like a place with escort service then?

-Gay Scene,  Acceptance, tolerance etc including work
All major Australian cities have some kind of gay scene, however I'm not really into the scene myself; generally everyone is quite tolerant, especially at work as it's illegal to discriminate/bully anyone based on sexuality, but of course in a non working setting different people might experience certain degree of negativity but generally the community is accepting. However this might be controversial, within the gay community if you are Asian and/or over certain age, many people will probably ignore you, or seeing people saying that they are not interested in your age/race publicly on their profiles, some argue this is stating preference, but I think it can be put in a nicer way

-living standards and cost of living.
Aus/NZ are among world's highest cost of living countries - https://www.numbeo.com/cost-of-living/rankings_by_country.jsp especially if you are looking at living in major cities and wanting to purchase a property, for example in Sydney, even inner city apartments could cost over 1 million dollars, energy cost is very high also. In Auckland petrol can cost over 2 dollars a liter, which means it will cost you close or over $100 every time you fill up your car. Due to small populations of both countries, things are generally more expensive than major European or North American countries

• career outlook im sorta okay. i'm a Doctor by profession so i'd need to pass the Australian medical Board Exam equivalent but are there a lot of them hiring?
  Not sure on this, but we constantly getting told we are in shortage of medical professionals, so I guess the answer is yes, there are many doctors from overseas who establish private clinic (General Practitioner - family clinic) here, and they seem to be well off, some popular doctors need you to book way in advance.

-i'm from the philippines. just type in Philippine news for the current year or so is enough of an answer.
Fair enough

-also it's actually part of my retirement plan to have like a cottage/ bed and breakfast honeybee farm type thing.
Personally I think part time doctor is a much better plan - due to smaller population and level of regulation and cost of labour, it could be costly, purchase the property, renovation work, and logistics are very expensive due to population are concentrated in major city only, if you need to transport stock from city to rural area, it is possible for the cost of transport to exceed the cost of the product

I think many western residents are actually retiring in Malaysia/Thailand where they have professionally set up retirement homes at affordable levels.

Depends on the setting

In a once off setting ie friend's birthday party, work function, just be polite, maintain a bit of chit chat, after a few minutes, initiate a conversation with another person and move away

A friend/acquaintance that you do not like to hang out with, "busy" to all invitations to one to one meetings, passive communication when met as a group ("yes" "wow really" answers, do not fuel the conversation), again still be polite about it

If it's someone you not attracted to but hoping to go further with you, if they make their intentions clear, be direct as well, explain that you are not interested in anything more than friends. If you feel like they want to take things further are you are not interested, it helps mentioning you are interested in someone you recently met, or suggesting a feature that you are attracted to but that person lacks perhaps?

I never fully understood the concept of a sex club, do you just go there and hang out waiting for someone to come and make a move on you or to make a move on someone you like? Wouldn't there be concern of being filmed by someone there etc?

If you into travel (if not give it a go), try research about your next destination, then come your annual leave time you are fully prepared for the trip and you will have a blast. Trying to cook a new dish, learn a new skill? Even volunteering or adopt/host dogs that are in desperate needs.

This one is a bit materialistic, but if you like something whether it's shoes, sunglasses, cars etc, trying to save up and buy the next/better one

You probably want to be more specific, ie. are you referring to the gay scene, or living standard/cost, or career outlook?

Also where are you migrating from, and what you don't like about where you are now that made you looking at migrating somewhere else?

It seems to me that a lot of actors in porn can't maintain their erection, ie when they have close body contact during foreplay, or even during some oral scenes the dick is half soft. Does anyone spot any real erections in porn where the actor maintains it from the beginning to the end? The one comes to my mind is Kevin Warhol, at least his erection in a lot of his clips seemed genuine.

Face and body wise there are a lot, but does anyone remember Matt Summers? Those cumming spasms are amazing!

@gengidashiel

I agree with you with regards to porn - though sometimes it's a little disappointing to see limp dicks in the non anal/oral scenes, but I guess it still does the job.

With the strippers, definitely a turn off when being told that they are straight, and I definitely agree with you regarding the attitude in the clubs, even though you know they are faking the friendliness for making money but at least you feel welcomed.

@marlolir

I don't think you are close minded, I think it's more like the guys working there are more "Open Minded" if you like, while it's not a career choice for anyone for sure. The place I went to had (very few) guys that only appeared on stage, and never walked around offering private dances, I'd say they are probably the "in between" types, where they are not happy being there but it gets some of their bills paid I guess.

No unexpected pregnancies

@gaygaye:

So I should feel better? lol

Yep, it's part of the experience, I agree to have your photo up in the profile to save time for both. You can use it for your advantage too, block profiles that don't interest you

@spam17:

@sakyo:

I think that happens with everyone, you'll learn to deal with it. I do it in the reverse way also, if I message someone and there's no reply for days, I'd just block them so I don't accidentally message them again. As people pointed out in multiple other posts, most people on those apps are after hookups, that's why many of them just judge others based on looks

Happens to everyone?

:afraid2:

Sure it does, don't think there's a person that appeals to everyone

Good for them, if that's what they are into, I wouldn't rule it out, and I find FTM guys attractive also

Probably start with a face pic or a non-nude body pic and see if they are interested before you go further. Another things is we tend to aim high in an anonymous setting, so you might be aiming out of your league maybe? IE if I approached you prob you'd ignore me haha