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    • RE: Civil Partnership UK

      By "pack rat" I mean that you keep a lot of old stuff, especially documents in this case.

      Since you don't have any joint finances/ownerships, it's going to be more difficult to prove the relationship.  You really should contact the UK consulate in your country or email the Home Office here in the UK and ask them what kind of proof they will need.

      Your partner might have to get a place to live in England a few months before you can get a CU.  You will need to show proof of address in the country you want to get a CU.

      When I came to the UK, the minimum length was 2 years.  We had enough stuff to show them for more than a decade, in the US and UK.

      Have a look at this website;

      hXXp://www.rbkc.gov.uk/birthsdeathsandmarriages/marriages/non_eu.asp

      It has some really good info on CUs in England.

      posted in Civil Unions & Marriage
      raphjd
      raphjd
    • RE: Civil Partnership UK

      I came to the UK before CUs were available, so some things have changed.

      I have a CU and am a Dual National {US & UK} now.

      1. You need to make sure you get the right type of visa when you enter.  Ask the UK consulate for more info.

      2. You have to remember that the UK is made up of 4 countries {England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland} and each has their own set of rules for marriage/CUs. Check the website for the country your partner lives in to see what rules they have for this. In no country in the UK, can you have a church "wedding".  You can however have a church "blessing of the union" ceremony, but you will still need to get the legal contract part done by the Registrar, Justice of the Peace or Mayor.

      The Registrar and Mayor can only do CUs on public property {at leas in Scotland} in their area, so if you want to do your CU ceremony somewhere else, like a manor house, you will need a JoP.

      Our CU was extremely simple {and the cheapest}, we went to the Registrar's office with our witnesses and he read a bit of rubbish about the sanctity of the union and then we all signed the form. That was still £285.

      3.  see #2

      4.  It used to be that gay partners couldn't work until they had permanent residency.  I was lucky though, we work for an international company and they did some sort of deal with the gov so I could work.

      You must get your civil union in the country your partner lives, with the exception of the town of Gretna Green. For some historical reason Gretna Green can marry/CU people from anywhere in the UK.

      You will need witnesses, who have known you for some time. I think it's 1 year, but it's best to double check that.

      Expect at least a £1,000 in legal fees {visas, CU, etc}.

      CUs were £100 more than marriage, but that was suppose to change the following April {2006}. This is the UK, so don't think they lowered the CU cost, they raised the marriage cost.

      You will fair better in getting the visas if you are a pack rat, and you and your partner have joint finances/ownerships.  Sadly, gays still require more proof of their relationships than heteros do.  As Tony Blair once said about gay relationships and CUs "there separate but not equal".

      posted in Civil Unions & Marriage
      raphjd
      raphjd
    • RE: Civil Partnership UK

      There's a lot to this whole thing.  If you ask specific questions, it will be easier to answer then.

      posted in Civil Unions & Marriage
      raphjd
      raphjd
    • RE: Gay men and politics view

      The problem is that conservatives claim we want special rights, when in fact we want the same rights they have.  I have yet to hear a GLBT person want "special rights" everyone I know wants equal rights.

      The current situation in most countries is that heteros have the special rights; ie rights not granted to all.

      Even in the UK with civil unions, we still don't have all the rights of hetero marriage, like work and personal pensions.  Tony Blair called civil unions "separate but not equal" to marriage.  Of course his backers said it was a slip of the tongue, but the result showed how really meant it.

      posted in Politics & Debate
      raphjd
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    • RE: Why do many gay men seem to be clones ?

      My partner and I are what you could term "Gap guys".  Basically we dress in casual but smart clothes, unless it's something like a black tie event which is rare for us.

      I love gay bars {though we don't go out much anymore}, but I can't stand the trendy gay bars.  Living in Aberdeen Scotland, there isn't a real gay scene, just a few places that are gay friendly, sorta.  This isn't a problem for us because were aren't flamers or the like.

      Being a dual national {US & UK} and someone who has traveled the world, I have seen the people you are talking about and they make me sick to be around.

      posted in Sex & Relationships
      raphjd
      raphjd
    • RE: Driver's Lincence

      Well done.  🙂

      posted in Chit Chat
      raphjd
      raphjd
    • RE: My ratio

      If you can download on to the computer, surely you can also use it to upload.

      posted in GayTorrent.ru Discussions
      raphjd
      raphjd
    • RE: BIRTHDAY PARTY MOVIE FROM BERLIN (4th of April 2008)

      @Bonk:

      A party for a website that shares movies illegally… just hope there won't be any police raid :police:

      Sorry no police raid as I can't make it.  :police:

      posted in Chit Chat
      raphjd
      raphjd
    • RE: Example of a spammer getting caught

      Just goes to show, spammers will get caught.

      posted in GayTorrent.ru Discussions
      raphjd
      raphjd
    • RE: My ratio

      I'm sorry but we don't give ratio points to people.

      There was plenty of info on the site as to how to get and maintain a good ratio.

      Anyway, you obviously haven't read anything here because you would know that you can always upload stuff that's not on here.  I'm sure GT.net has some stuff that we don't and vice versa.

      posted in GayTorrent.ru Discussions
      raphjd
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    • RE: How to improve your Ratio

      @tony1971:

      Hi
      I am new to this site..
      I would like to know.. what happens if you have downloaded a film but turns out no one is uploading from you.. does this affect your ratio?  I do not want to be classed as someone who just takes a film without sharing but if no one is uploading from you.. what do you do? keep it still open or find something that there is lots of people leaching etc!
      I would be greatful for any help

      I would do both.

      posted in Guides
      raphjd
      raphjd
    • RE: Being gay?

      @young2by2:

      I loved the most recent addition (april 2008) of Discover Magazine.

      Title of article :  20 things you don't know about Matting

      #12  Homosexual behavior is found in at least 1,500 species of mammal, fish, reptile, bird, and even invertebrates.

      😛

      That's why I say it's genetic.

      Many of the animals found to have gay behavior are not capable of more than instinctual behavior.

      posted in Sex & Relationships
      raphjd
      raphjd
    • RE: Virus warning

      What issue are they trying to "correct"?!

      The guy that made the "I Love You" virus wanted to show his ex girlfriend how powerful he was.

      BTW, the reason virus makers target Windows is because of the sheer numbers that use it.  If everyone switched to another OS, then that would be the target.  Cost has nothing to do with it.

      posted in Computer Discussion & Support
      raphjd
      raphjd
    • RE: Being gay?

      Gay is from nature, just as being hetero is.

      Part of the reason many heteros claim that being gay is a choice, is because many gays are forced or feel forced to live a lie due to societal pressures.

      It's a lot easier for to gays to come out today in the west, at least, because people are starting to understand that being gay is a natural thing.

      posted in Sex & Relationships
      raphjd
      raphjd
    • RE: Gay men and politics view

      A lot of people view public discussions about politics and religion as taboo.

      I know gay people who will never vote for anyone who supports gay rights.  They have various reasons for this, some are gay and ashamed and some just don't want gay marriage, so they can justify their whoring around.

      I have in the past voted for people that were against gay rights because they were good at other things that needed doing for the nation. Former Sen D'Amato {R - NY} was against equal rights, but he was the only hope the US had in fighting the banks and he regularly spanked them in Congress. With him gone, there is no one to protect us from those evil money grubbing bastards any more.

      I also won't vote for a 1 trick pony who bring nothing else to the gov.

      In a perfect world, I wouldn't have to care about the issue of equal rights for gays.

      posted in Politics & Debate
      raphjd
      raphjd
    • {UK} Goodbye online privacy

      3 Internet Providers in Deal for Tailored Ads

      By ERIC PFANNER
      Published: February 18, 2008

      LONDON — For years, Internet service providers have watched with envy as the likes of Google, Yahoo and Microsoft sliced up the online advertising pie. Selling Internet access has been a good business, but selling Web advertising has been an even more lucrative one.

      Now, three Internet providers in Britain have teamed up to try to obtain a piece of online advertising for themselves. The three companies — BT, Carphone Warehouse {including AOL UK} and Virgin Media — announced a deal last week with a company called Phorm, whose technology tracks Web users and sends them ads related to their interests.

      Phorm said it would set up a new online advertising platform called the Open Internet Exchange, which any Web site would be allowed to join. Proceeds from ads shown on these publishers’ sites will be shared with BT, Carphone Warehouse {including AOL UK} and Virgin Media, which together represent more than two-thirds of Britain’s Internet access market.

      The three Internet providers have agreed to give Phorm access to customers’ browsing records, letting it track a Web user’s every move. That way, the Internet exchange can send an ad directly to a select audience anywhere on the Web, rather than hoping that the user lands on a site displaying the ad.

      “Now, you can turn things around for the advertising industry, and say, ‘You define the audience you want to reach,’ ” said Kent Ertugrul, chief executive of Phorm, which is based in London.

      A marketer that wants to reach wealthy golfers, for instance, would not have to restrict itself to advertising on golf sites. Because the ad system would track golfers’ Web habits, it could follow them to other sites and show them golf-related ads there, too.

      To a certain extent, advertisers can already do such behavioral targeting, as it is known. But the method has been less precise than many advertisers would like, because existing Web ad networks create only broad profiles of Internet users, based on visits to selected sites and certain keyword searches.

      At a time when many people are worried about privacy, the Internet service providers’ agreement to share records of their customers’ Web habits might set off new alarms.

      Phorm said it would guarantee anonymity by tracking each user with an assigned number only, and by regularly clearing the data. Phorm said its privacy procedures had been examined and approved by the Ernst & Young accounting firm. {NOTE: it was not checked by any privacy experts, not to mention that Ernest & Young have had more than a few scandals over the years}

      Customers of BT, Carphone Warehouse and Virgin Media can opt out of the new system when it is introduced next month. But they will be encouraged to stay by being given a higher level of protection against online fraud. Analysts at Investec Securities said the Open Internet Exchange could generate £85 million, or $167 million. in annual revenue for BT alone by 2009.

      Analysts said that in the short term, the Open Internet Exchange and similar services would allow Web publishers to charge higher rates for advertising, because ads on their sites would become more relevant. Over the longer term, however, they could undermine Web content owners by letting service providers wrest away control of ad sales.

      Esther Dyson, a technology investor and analyst, questioned whether the quest for more effective behavioral targeting might lead the online advertising business astray.

      Bombarding consumers with more and more ads, even “relevant” ones, risks sending them to social networking services and other places on the Internet where advertisers find it harder to reach them.

      “For advertisers, breaking into these walled gardens is the challenge,” Ms. Dyson said.

      NOTE: all blue text added by me

      posted in BitTorrent & Internet News
      raphjd
      raphjd
    • RE: Funny Pic

      Hmmm, I'd give him a case of beer with that offer.  👼

      posted in Jokes & Funny Stuff
      raphjd
      raphjd
    • RE: Two face porn-boss murder charges

      Unfortunately, the article doesn't mention that the murders were business partners of Brent Corrigan.

      With the murder, Brent's legal troubles are now solved and he can do what he wants.  How convenient for him.

      posted in LGBT News
      raphjd
      raphjd
    • RE: Can you love sex with men butnot love men?

      When I lived in Key West, there was a guy {Vidal} who claimed not to be gay because he never kisses men. Of course he was a total dick pig bottom and dressed like a $3 female whore.

      Anyway, it sounds like you have some issues regarding your self image of masculinity.  What you described is quite common in latin men.  They'll have sex with every man on the planet, but would kill anyone who dared think of them as gay.

      Loving a man does not make you a flamer, who calls the electrician in to change the light bulb. My partner and I do a lot of our own car repairs and home DIY and we are both crap at flower arranging.

      posted in Sex & Relationships
      raphjd
      raphjd
    • RE: Another torrent site blocked

      It seems that Demonoid might be coming back on line.

      Their tracker is back up and running, but no word if it's Demonoid or who exactly is in control of it.

      EDIT:  Here's the zeropaid.com article;

      hXXp://www.zeropaid.com/news/9280/Demonoid+Tracker+Back+Online%2C+Now+Hosted+in+Malaysia

      posted in GayTorrent.ru Discussions
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