Norman Reedus is naked quite a bit in the game. I love him in this game. He had free reign in the game so all the mannerisms are all him. Keep focusing on his crotch in the private room while he sits on the bed. He had them put that in there. Keep doing it til the end.
I get what you mean about being a bit bored. I really hate the pizza guy and his stupid pizza orders for very few points. I also hate the repeated BB memories. They were good when the story needed to be told but it's just annoying now.
I have most of the road sections done in the central region on my server. Just a few more and I'll move on to the next bit. I've also been placing stuff in places I think will help others. As for stuff other people put up, if I think they are a communal benefit, I repair and/or upgrade them. If they are crap, I let them fall apart. I hate "using" someone's crap because it gives them points, but I do move the stuff in my way but I put them in a place that makes only the desperate use them again.
As far as I can tell, BTs can't get you on a player made road. They can get you on old roads leftover from society before Death Stranding.
I already went across the tar lake, but a MULE I killed did a void out, so I had to restart the game from a save before crossing the lake.
As for delivery orders, you only need to do the "orders for Sam" which are the 2 digit orders. Standard orders aka 3 digit orders can be skipped. With a few exceptions, you need to get everyone to 3 stars to unlock their area of the map and get them "online". This means you can't skip every 3 digit order.
At a certain point, you can move between private rooms. Keep in mind though, you will only take with you the stuff absolute basics. So think about there you will need something that will be left behind.