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This is incredibly hot, but I've had no lick identifying it

I remember having found several gifs of this session and a whole tumblr of the guy, but I can't find it anywhere anymore and can't remember the name, if someone could identify the big guy and even more if they cold help me find the full video I'd reallya appreciate it, thans in advance

"White" is an exclusion term. It's not about what you are but about what you're not. Culture is celebrated, not color. Nobody frowns on the celebration of Oktoberfest or St. Patrick's Day or Hanukka, those are all celebrations of different cultures and they're all white in color, however, for a lot of time the Jewish and the Irish were not considered "white" because they were consdiered ", "undersirable" and "inferior". That's what "white" has stood since many centuries ago. "white pride" means "Thank god I'm not one of those barbaric, undesirable non-white races, I am and always has been considered a person with rights"
Not all straight white males are proven dicks, however, straight white males have always had it the easiest and still do. The richest, most powerful people in America ar in its reat majority straight white males. Rock stars, movie stars, executives, politicians, they're mostly straight white males. Even in the gay "hierarchy" whites are on top, just check the most popular pornstars and you'll see what guys are looking for so it certainly makes things easier in the dating department. And don't get me started with all those people who are looking exclusively for "straight acting" guys and bisexuals. Becuase even gay men are looking for the closest they can get to a straight white male.
Yes, people of color are getting some bias, but the thing is that after centuries of discrimination, climbing the social ladder is extra hard. These ara people who have been excluded from positions of power, from prestigious schools, from convenient connections, they've been at a serious disadvantage for centuries. Even if the playing field is leveled now, they're starting the game with a losing score, and there's no easy way of making things fair, so sometimes it ends up unfair in the other directions. It isn't okay, but it's the product of a flawed attempt at fairness.
It's the same in media, all the big iconic characters are straight white males because they were created in a time where that was the only acceptable lead, Batman, Superman, Luke Skywalker, Indiana Jones, almost all of the Avengers. "it's not about race and gender" you might say "people of all races ans genders can identify with the characters regardless". But then they make female ghostbusters and people completely loses their shit. I met a guy who was huge Power Rangers fan, but didn't watch the movie because his favorite Ranger whas the blue one and they made him black. How's that for hate?
Think of all the actors who wish they could get a part as leads of their favorite things which are all getting rebooted lately, but hey can't because only straight white males get to be leads, only they get to be heroes, if anybody else is made one then it's "SJW bullshit" and it's automatically ruined.

You sound like the straight people who think us getting more rights is an attack on them. Who think that if we grow up being thaught that straight is normal and better and more desitable is okay, but if a kid finds out that we exist then it's "shoving our sexuality down their throats"

We don't hate straight white males, we just hate the pedestal they've been on for the last millenium or so, and we're tryng to demolish it, sorry if a pebble get is your eye in the process.

I'm getting fed up with the whole "Free speech meands white supremacists must be heard" shit. There's something called "The Freedom Paradox" It states that past a certain point, more freedom is less freedom, because you're allowing the strong the freedom to opress the weak, sort of like what happenes when you let the corporations abuse the citizens becaus of lack of regulations, or when organized crime takes over a city because law enforcement allows it. Yeah, technically there's less rules and this more freedom, but in practice it just causes oppresion. Well, this parados applies to tolerance too. Yes, technically it's hypocritical and from the left to try and silence any ideas, but the thing is that if they allow it to be spread as legitimate, they're allowing intolerance and prejudice to spread, tolerating intolerance  creates more intolerance, not less, allowing hate to be spread is not the same as allowing ideas to be spread, and at a certain point you have to say "stop" and while I don't agree with some of the points chosen, I believe it's better than nothing.

And about safe spaces. Have you ever had to hide your sexuality at work or with certain family members? Because it's pretty shitty and stressful and it just feels wrong. Well, people can't hide their race, they can't hide their gender identity, they can't hide a lot of things that people judge them for. The ideal solution, of course, would be to stop prejudice, but that's not happening anytime soon, that's the point of safe spaces. The way you feel comfortable going to a gay bar where you can be totally honest about who you are without fear of being judged? All people deserve to feel that way once in a while and safe spaces provide that. Sure, they ARE a business (the same way a gay bar is a business) but that doesn't make them any less helpful and necessary.

I had never tried and and thought it was kinda icky, but then I got drunk and id it and had it done, it was absolutely anazing and now one of my favourite things to do and have done

Being gay is identifying yourself as gay, you don't have to do anything in perticular, and in the end only you now how you feel and which label, if any, you feel comfortable with. I have had romantic feelings for girls, I still call myself gay, 100% gay

You can watch do, and like whatever you want and call yourself whatever you want. Wanna watch gay porn and call yourself straight? Awesome, I acknowledge you as straight. Wanna have sex with guys and call yourself straight? cool. Wanna wear lingerie and a wig and have sex exclusively with guys and be the gang banged and suck ten dicks at a time while the other guys make out with each other and call all guys involved straight? As god as my witness, I will fully aknowledge your complete heterosexuality. Nobody can tell others who they are No, I don't think you're in denial, I don't think it's a phase, those are things for you to consider and accept or reject as you see fit. You do you and let the haters hate.

I love them in red and electric blue, it's sexy and flashy, and a guy with flashy underwear is usually confident and fun

This might earn me some flak, but I think I'm gonna take the school's side in this one.
Yes, of course, as has been pointed out to infinity in religious debates about homosexuality, Jesus was never explicitly against it and was always explicitly against judging and in favor of tolerance and acceptance. However, we aren't talking about Jesus or even Christinity in general, we are talking about catholicism, which holds (or at least the great majority of its adepts hold) that homosexuality is wrong, and that position would be thaught to the child, which would be very conflicting for the family. I imagine when the subject came up in the school it would be very confusing for the kid, and I'm pretty sure the mothers would then object to their daughter being exposed to such "values" creating a whole new controversy that I doubt would be healthy for the kid.
I'm in favor of practicing the religion of your choice and passing its teaching to your children, however, when a few months ago there  was news in my city about the first homoparental child being christened in a catholic temple of the state, I thought "It's wonderful that they CAN christen their child in the faith of their choice, but why WOULD they choose one that considers their family wrong?"
It's like trying to get jewish child into a neo-nazi school (take a shot in the internet drinking game for somebody mentioning nazis)  yes, it's wrong to forbid him to enter, but allowing it would probably do the child more harm tha good.
Still, as the piece of news mentiones above proves, the cathoilc church's position is slowly (VERY slowly, don't expect to get  catholic wedding maybe in our lifetime) turning around, and maybe this mothers were trying to do their part in showing the school staff and children that they are a perfectly normal and healthy family, which is pretty commendable actually.

I've found that when people are in deep denial, calling them out on it just gets them more defensive and makes them reject the idea.
It's like jumping from a trampoline, if they're already standing above the pool , then a little push will help them take the plunge, but if they're on the floor refusing to even look at the trampoline, then pushing them will only make thing worse. Looking back on my own experience, the only thing that would have made me come out sooner was if a guy I really liked came on to me, and even then it would have taken some time for me to process the whole thing. I believe it's a personal journey, it might help to tell them you suspect them to be gay and you're there for them if they ever feel like talking about it, but if they refuse firmly, then back off and respect the sexual orientation they identify themselves with.

Well, now I wanked to that Zangief pic so I'm changig my status in case anybody was keeping score

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Sure, its though, been there, but the worst is loving a gay to pretend to be straight.

Or a guy who's so closeted that he never intends to acknowledge you in public as anything other than your frien

We all get turned on by weird stuff, I don't think you have a problem unless you've considered committing actual rape, I think rape as a fantasy is okay

I believe we've all been on this situation more often than not, simply because most men identify themselves as straight. A lot of people will tell you to go for it and try it, but think about how you'd feel if it was the other way around, if a girl tried to "flip" you. The LGBT community is sometimes so fixed on all orientations deserving respect that we sometimes forget that the cisgender heterosexual people are also an ortientation and deserve as much respect, if the guy turns out to be bi or gay on denial or something of the sorts that's a different story, and in those situations things tend to happen pretty naturally, but on most cases it's better to move on.

TL;DR= clinging to the hopeful belief that any straight man can be turned gay/bi for you is just as offensive and close minded as the religious nuts that believe any gay/bi man can be turned straight for Jesus. They're here, they're NOT queer, we better get used to it.

I've never actually wanked to him, but I've always had a huge crush on Dick Gumshoe, he's just so adorable

and man, that Zangief image that Latintop shared with the tight bulge in the thong is definitely going to the spank bank

Saying only a "real man" bottoms is the opposite extreme and just as wrong. How much of a man you are is not related to your sexual role whatever it might be, there are effeminate tops and bottoms and versatiles, and manly tops and bottoms and versatiles.
I hate the assumption that there has to be a "woman" in the relationship as much as any other guy, and get just as pissed when somebody brings it up, but I'm not gonna say it's wrong for some guys to say they have a "pussy" or "man cunt" if they want to feel like women sometimes that's their business, I think we'd be very hypocritical to start saying something two willing adults do with their sex lives is "wrong", I get that most of us want a relationship between two MEN, but if a guy is comfortable and happy thinking of himself as "the woman in the relatinship" and his partner is also comfortable and happy, then what anyone of us thinks about it is irrelevant.

I agree, compromise is important in a  relationship, but sex is something that really should not be done in a way any of the participants is not comfortable with, if you don't want to do it you should not do it, if you only feel like you're not ready, but think you might enjoy it when you are, then it's sensible to give steps towards getting you there, but ONLY if you really want to.

I feel the other way around, actually. I would reject the guy not because of his weird chest hair but in spite of it, I think a guy being creative and skillful is attractive, not to mention he clearly has a sense of umor and doesn't take himself too seriously. He's nor my type, but if he was I'd tottally do him.

During the process of coming to accept yourself, it's very common to delude yourself int thinking you're attracted to a gender or the other just to fit in the category you feel "correct" for you, just take it easy, if you like porn just watch whichever turns you on the most, be it with men, women or both, and you don't have to have sex with anybody until you really want it and feel ready. It's very common for homosexuals to lose their virginity late, I lost it at 22. If you can get the movie "Hard Cops" there's a feature at the end with interviews, and most of the performers say they lost their virginity at 21-22, these are men who are attractive enough and comfortable enough with their bodies and sexualities to do porn, they aren't prudes or so ugly they can't get a date so really being a 20 year old virgin is neither rare nor something to be ashamed of.

Rugby hands down, the mos handsome, the hottest, the manliest, and some of the most gay friendly too. Tennis players often have amazing asses too