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@gerggently said in Sex-Ed for 18-24 Group:

@flozen

My only comment on this is that sex education should be taught from about aged 8, with zero religious input into it.

Leaving sex ed too late, or not taught at all as bible-thumping states would like, is harmful to a person's development. No one should be learning about sex from porn.

Good point. With better health and nutrition, the onset of puberty has been trending downward, perhaps 10 or 11 in some cases -- thus, education needed here.

And nothing wrong with kids a bit younger getting a less clinical description -- one that doesn't involve storks, or baskets left on doorsteps!

@eobox91103 Thanks. you've offered a helpful way to discern between public and private in a useful context here.

While the example of whacking on a street corner is low-hanging fruit (tee hee!), my concept of unacceptable-in-public extends, as noted, to department store restrooms, rustling behind a park hedge -- and most any venue that has an expectation of broad public use.

Foam party, gay beach resort in their dunes? Get your freak on in these private spaces as allowed. These examples may be in opposition to, say, a municipal law, but I'm persuaded that these are gay safe spaces and I'm not out to be a complete thrill-kill.

(This message crossed during yours as well, lol.)

I use ExpressVPN, and it has loads of locations, and always recommends the "Smart Location" where it must be determining the fastest current connection. The only times I've been tagged is when I'm on a mainstream site and forget it's off.

I use the VPN sometimes when seeding our files, and I will say that at least for me, it slows the rate of "sharing" significantly. It's not a personal issue in light of my ratio, but for others, it may be a factor to consider.

Gee whiz, magentas, thanks, especially for the surprisingly fit O'Malley!  Had no idea he had all that going on underneath that dress shirt.  Is it too late to change my vote?

Now that Obama has returned to civilian life and beach vacations, well, that man has kept it in shape, as well.  He probably eats whole grains, low sodium and 1-percent milk – the dietary improvements the Trump administration is taking away from America's schoolchildren:

https://www.pri.org/stories/2017-05-03/trump-s-new-school-lunch-plan-allows-dangerously-high-levels-sodium

And then there's ol' "sweaty teats Trump."

As far as Trump's own eating habits and body issues, a whopping two of 10 nutritionists offered positive comments in the following slideshow:

https://www.thedailymeal.com/healthy-eating/10-nutritionists-weigh-donald-trumps-diet

Even the Pope greeted Melania with questions about Trump's physical fitness:

http://people.com/food/pope-francis-questions-melania-trump-diet-potica/

https://twitter.com/realDonaldTrump/status/760299757206208512/photo/1

Melania, when you feel the poke of that belly, and the "crotch pinky" hiding underneath, just close your eyes and dream of Slovenia (or better, Trudeau/Macron/O'Malley, and if you're a very naughty girl, Kushner).   >:D

@ianfontinell Yes, more interesting thoughts from two threads that are running concurrently on public sex.

Just one point before retiring -- agreed, enough trips to a store restroom will cause you to come across something nasty. Today, gay men have the choices and resources to defer and relocate these activities -- which are no doubt very, very nasty to those who simply want to access a lavatory for its original purpose.

@csucker69:

Hey, i've got a bunch of hardcore, domination type - paid audio files (over $1000) worth of content, from warpmymind, niteflirt, a few other places. Also, some premium xtube clips, not many, the previtus hate crime porno 2 to trade, for similar paid kind of files, audio or video, thanks. Looking for dominant, verbal kind of stuff, thanks.

It's your first post here, so, of course, welcome.  Perhaps it has been some time since you went on a site with a "porn community."  The concept of trading porn disappeared quite some time ago.  In countries where it is permitted, people (gay, straight, and all else) upload and categorize their porn.  This site uses a "torrent" methodology, which may be explained in the FAQs, or easily learned via Google.

Without a doubt, you will find individuals with your porn tastes, and whatever your bedroom inclination, hopefully you will both give and receive.  No need to spank … er, I mean thank me.

@Kekkaishi Well, how could one ever surpass the fascination of:

https://community.gaytorrent.ru/topic/58460/what-is-this-called-or-what-terminology-i-use-to-find-it-on-online-shopping?_=1663618054601

Must go, as I feel a strange fatigue coming on:

Youtube Video

@circul By sheer chance -- ? -- an upload was just made from AF:

https://www.gaytorrent.ru/details.php?id=9add43cf35e03ea70f35bb545598e6713de70067653c5b0a

As you'll note, the file size and resolution are quite low, keeping in mind this site went dark 15 years ago. At least it will give you an idea of the offerings.

In my corner of the world, a lot of "18s" are finishing up high school, living at home, and/or dependent on their parents for all or most of their financial support.

The comments in this thread have centered on the original poster's desires. The young man apparently has not signaled interest in a closer social or a sexual contact.

At age 36, I think any effort "to convince him to spend some time" with you has the potential for a number of unfortunate outcomes.

@circul The AF site has been "Under Construction" for many years now, and I would be very surprised to see it come back.

As for the content, the site owners decided to take a gamble and make nearly all the videos as streaming only, with Digital Rights Management. At the time, DRM was a largely effective way of preventing duplication / sharing of files, and subscribers only had access to the files while they were active payers.

Apparently, not enough customers were willing to pay ongoing, without any hope of downloads, and the site went under.

I think that many of the models were, indeed, actual soccer (football) players from the lower leagues in Central / South America -- the site had pics of models on the playing field and team photos that looked -- as the name implied -- authentic.

Perhaps the players' fear of discovery led to the protective DRM format, as well. You would think they'd release DVDs, which would have likely made a small fortune.

There are a handful of AF vids that were available in mpg (or whatever was popular before they folded circa 2007). But, as the site owners were so proactive against losing "control" of videos, I would bet they were also at the vanguard of sending out DMCA takedown requests.

And that's why you rarely see AF clips -- which is, indeed, a pity.

When did scientists first study sperm? And how did the academic community and polite society of the era feel about discussing the topic? Answers can be found here in a fun article:

https://www.salon.com/2023/01/02/the-scientist-discovered-sperm-was-so-grossed-out-he-hoped-his-findings-would-be-repressed/

Moving to the current day on this website, the idea of spunk seems to hold a great fascination with so many of you! Comments, etc., welcomed.

@ianfontinell This is an incredibly vital and rational thread, how dare you belittle it!

Some escorts choose that avocation because it's the only "living-wage" option they have, while the most-skilled ones make a large amount of money (and gifts) because they've mastered the the art of pleasing and/or manipulating their clients.

Many people have seen the film Pretty Woman (1990), but "I hired an escort and we fell for each other" is truly a needle in the haystack.

With the help of online communications, there are now many variations on escorts and their services, and many engage in practices akin to catfishing.

Even on our site, a member can't stop boasting about a younger man who isn't really gay, but strings him along with nudie photos and occasional words of encouragement -- as long as money and gifts keep coming.

A person has to exercise caution if falling for someone who sells actual sex -- or a pay-as-you-go online relationship -- promoting the idea that one day -- one fine, fine day -- it can be something much more.

@lololulu19 said in What is to become of our young generation?:

He has very little access to porn.. and suffers jacking off to things like Chaturbate and Flirt4Free.

I find it interesting, curious and sad that the young man has such limited access to porn!

Perhaps he doesn't have the financial means to afford a porn website membership, but there are near-infinite amounts of free, straight (and other) porn on torrent sites like 1337 and rar. bg, to name only a few.

And even though sites like redtube or tube8 have deleted a lot of clips, there are still terabytes available. How is the poor lad so devoid of porn options?

@lololulu19 said in Anyone know what happened to pumpingmuscle.com?:

@jimmydman21 PumpingMuscle ended when Hanz unt Franz left, and it became inundated with girly-men of flabbitude.

For those outside the US, Hans & Franz was a Saturday Night Live sketch:

Youtube Video

And thus, the question was not answered, just an unhelpful attempt at a joke.

Perhaps the question should be reopened.