So this summer I had my first nudism experience. I actually wanted to try it for a long time but never actually did (mainly cause I didn't have any friends who would like to go to a nudist beach w/ me or sth like that).
July came and I finally got to meet this guy that we have been talking on fb for a long time and is actually pretty rad (anarchist, polyamorous, fetishist, artist, you get the idea). We decide our first meetup is going to be a trip to the beach cause why not. He asks me if he can bring his boyfriend too and I'm actually kinda worried cause I don't know if his bf is gonna like me or not. But I say yes after all cause at least I can try. Once we met they told me it's a nudist beach where we are going, I'm like "oh", they are both like "oh, is there a problem with that?", I'm like "no, not really, in fact I was kinda expecting this a lil bit plus I really wanted to try it someday so I'm pretty excited for it" so they were relieved and we were all happy again.
The beach was a small rocky one, close to a family beach but pretty hidden because it was enclosed by cliffs. It was a gay nudist beach so a lot of stuff happen (including cruising, public sex, etc) but the atmosphere is pretty good so we had a good time. The guy I was worried about, he turned out to be one of the greatest people I ever met in my life. We ended up having a wild threesome that night. We went to the same beach again for a few times, had tons of sex, did a lot of other stuff together and had a blast in general. We are in a polyamorous open triangle relationship now.
I think this entire thing ended up pretty well because we showed our real selves from the very beginning. With clothes off, you cannot really lie about yourself to the other person, nor you can make them think you are cooler than you actually are. If I had to meet this 2 guys the regular way, I'm pretty sure it would be awkward, even tho we had a lot in common. But this way it kinda worked magically, it was basically the natural flow of things. No clothes = no worries!
- this entire experience also helped me understand and appreciate myself more. My body image, my blemishes, my fetishes and my instincts.
Do you guys have similar experiences? Do you think that it really works this way? What are your thoughts about nudism and body freedom in general? :s)