@newbieff:
Even I am handsome and great body! But it is the same! Gays approached me, but I don't like ones approaching me, ones I like, i don't know how to approach them!
You'll know when it's the right time to do something for the first time. I was 24 before I did anything with a guy, and even then it was only mutual handjobs…and then another year before I tried oral. I think I was 28 before I fucked.
I think some of my "slow start" was because I didn't want to connect with guys, much less have sex with them, unless I thought they were Mr. Totally Perfect. Needless to say, life was a bit lonely for me. But soon I learned that I could be friends with other gay guys for friendship's sake, not simply as a prelude to sex.
Still, I don't worry about having "lost time." I've had two wonderful relationships, several more boyfriends, and if I just want sex for its own sake, it's definitely available...but that has less appeal as I get older.