Posts made by Domosuke

@dzirlo:

i think many of you telling the guy to avoid the gym are actually enabling his fear. you should confront it, and don't forget, you are soon going to look better and better, and your self-image will change also.

unfortunately, we are all aware that in the gay world, good body is almost a compulsory requirement.
not just for sex, even your social status depends on it.

I think as long as a guy can walk up stairs without any issues, makes a conscious effort to eat healthy now and then. Still keeps active like jogging after work or bike riding etc, power walking etc. lol.

I don't think he needs to go a gym and become the next Mr. Olympia, not that there is anything wrong with that.

It's clear he's not comfortable going to a gym right now, so I'm not gonna force him to go.

Some people are big, some people are small, some people are both during different stages in their life. That's just the way it is.

I'm not saying people should be obese and underweight, no. I'm just saying people have different shapes and sizes.

Yeah in the gay community, physical attractiveness is key and advised, but you kinda just contradicted yourself.

You told him to ignore people that shame his body, yet at the same time said in order to be happy in the gay community, he needs to lose weight?

Me personally I would have to have say cats. They aren't as active or useful as dogs, but to me they are a lot cleaner to deal with as you don't have to bathe them really. Easier to pick up after, if you don't mind cleaning litter boxes. They are very independent yet at the still time want attention sometimes, they live longer than dogs, and cost less if you take them to the vet. If they don't want to be bothered, a cat will let you know, but other than scratches on your arm, the cat won't kill you.

To me dogs are fun and they are very intelligent animals. You can teach them tricks and there are way more dog than cat breeds. You can also take them on walks and it's real fun. However dogs are very dirty and nasty animals (and it's not their fault). You have to groom and clean them at a constant basis. You have to take them outside many times a day so they can exercise and use the bathroom. They also can snap and become very aggressive one day for no reason and can kill people. (Again not the dogs fault). You can also get a smaller breed or a more calmer dog too. They also don't live that long, and you have to take a dog to the vet often.

I've owned 5 cats and only 2 dogs ever in my life.

Of my 5 cats. Two I had since I was little and since passed away from old age and being sick.

One of my cats I had gotten was supposedly hit by a car. (Which is why I say you never let indoor cats outside).

The other two of my cats are still living and are playing right here beside me.

The two dogs I had, the oldest one was a Labrador retriever that was the house dog when I was young. She became very aggressive after we only had her for a couple years. Back then they had stricter neuter laws so she wasn't fixed, so a mutt broke into our backyard and fucked her and she had puppies which we gave away to people who wanted them. She just became more aggressive so we gave her away.

The other dog I had was a beagle and he was very small. He ended up getting sick and passed away, but I really liked that dog.

So I just prefer cats, but I like dogs as well.

Bananas.

Rain or snow

Hmm. Maybe if I had a really big fur coat and 24/7 fire and heat access lol. If I can't, then no.

For a million dollars would you swim with sharks?

Not nessarily. I would say it's a straight guy not comfortable with his manhood or masculinity. I'm not sure about homophobic though.

Yes. I hate my speaking voice. I sound like I'm 10 years old.

For million dollars would you jump out of a plane with no parachute? lol.

Definitely noisy dance club or disco. Especially if there is a good DJ playing.

sex with lights on, or sex with lights off

fly a kite.

beer or wine?

@raphjd:

I never felt "disgusted" about porn.

I grew up in a house where sex wasn't treated as a bad thing.

Disgust can have different meanings.

No I know porn viewing is normal.

But to some people, "You're so deviant and ugly you can't get a partner you have to watch a porno"

Water-based.

Early bird or night owl?

Not in the same way. I'm upset because I've never had a boyfriend at 2 years old and I'm watching this good looking guy I don't have a snowball chance in hell being with happy with his body and getting off.

Yes again, if I were numbed and couldn't really feel them removing my leg I would do it. I wouldn't mind using a wheelchair or getting a fake leg with the money.

For a million dollars, would you run across a busy highway at night? lol no. Forgive me lord.

Sure why not. If I was under general sedation during the hand cutting and didn't feel it. Even if I began to hate the hook, I can just use the money to buy a prosthetic arm lol.

For a million dollars, would you live on Mars?

I can still read the newspaper, read magazines, listen to music, watch dvd's? Then yes.

For a million dollars would you live stranded in the wilderness for a year with only the clothes no your back and a pocket knife?

@alibix:

@Domosuke:

I can't say I'm really shocked at the clusterfuck of this thread.

You would think that a message board centered around gay pornography would be open minded to people that are different from them, but no. I already envisioned this whole thread panned out which is why I've been avoiding it for a few days now. I can hold back no longer.

You would think a bunch of homosexual (or same gender attracted men) would understand issues like this. But I totally see it now.

Anything to take the heat off their skillet or the weight off their scale to move it to somewhere else. Which just makes the situation worse.

This is turn creates a butterfly effect for people to either become "SJW", or for people to become the oppressors. It makes the situation worse and everything is a pity party now. Nobody is appreciate for what they have, nobody wishes to or wants to empathize anymore,

I'm not nessarily a "SJW", but I'm not going to bite my tongue on things which are clearly not right.

Call me an "SJW" for saying that gay porn is racist, especially to black people. Call me an "SJW" for saying that men should be allowed to wear makeup and dresses. Call me an "SJW" for saying that Muslim women have the right to wear a burka or not.  I don't give a fuck.

i just came.

No but seriously, thanks for your input. So have you met an SJW?

Yes but they aren't called that in real life. They are called liberals.

I have never seen the term SJW used away from the internet.

What kind of partner?

For sex? : Just go to any daddy/son gay hookup site or go to a gay sex club and mess with older guys. I doubt they will reject or refuse you. If they do, they are just assholes and just ignore them. The only bad thing is the danger factor in this and you won't see these types of guys after you have sex.

For relationships? : This is a lot harder and difficult and I don't want to give false hopes or play with your emotions like that.

In general, it's simple to find a sex partner and Mr. Right now, instead of Mr. Right. However, it's difficult for gay men to find relationships and a soul mate.

For relationships and life partners, many older men prefer older guys, like many active muscle guys prefer the same. But that doesn't mean they won't keep their options open.

That's what I want for you to do.

My best advice is for you to just network with all types of men and have your preference for older men in the back of your mind still but still understand that gay relationship partners are not easy to come across. You might find a guy your own age give or take you like you never know.

I like and have a preference for older guys as well. I also like men period. So. I hope this helps you.

I can't say I'm really shocked at the clusterfuck of this thread.

You would think that a message board centered around gay pornography would be open minded to people that are different from them, but no. I already envisioned this whole thread panned out which is why I've been avoiding it for a few days now. I can hold back no longer.

You would think a bunch of homosexual (or same gender attracted men) would understand issues like this. But I totally see it now.

Anything to take the heat off their skillet or the weight off their scale to move it to somewhere else. Which just makes the situation worse.

This is turn creates a butterfly effect for people to either become "SJW", or for people to become the oppressors. It makes the situation worse and everything is a pity party now. Nobody is appreciate for what they have, nobody wishes to or wants to empathize anymore,

I'm not nessarily a "SJW", but I'm not going to bite my tongue on things which are clearly not right.

Call me an "SJW" for saying that gay porn is racist, especially to black people. Call me an "SJW" for saying that men should be allowed to wear makeup and dresses. Call me an "SJW" for saying that Muslim women have the right to wear a burka or not.  I don't give a fuck.

No because I'd die from hypothermia most likely.

For a million dollars, would you remove your vocal chords?

I'm both. But I'm more of an extrovert though.

Then don't go. Find your own exercise routine and method.

Lift weights, jog, exercise in your living room every morning, do sit ups, push ups in between commercials or two hours a day.

Watch what you eat. Maybe have like one cheat day a week.