@MrMazda I'm going to take a moment to thank you and all the other people that give your time and energy to moderate these forums, and to apologise to you all for what I'm about to say as I suspect it's going to be worthy of a ban, but this has been a long time coming and I really do feel it needs to be said....
@lololulu19 You are a gay man, correct? I am also a gay man. Here's my opinion: I RESENT BEING LUMPED IN WITH YOU! The amount of utter bullshit you spout in these forums seeking attention is unbelievable. Let's just break down your last reply to this thread:
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How does having a trans category "lump you in" with anyone?
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You get pissed off over gays and lesbians standing together? Go and stand by yourself then! You do know what a coalition is, don't you? Why didn't you go and form your own group? Why didn't you go off and just be honest and say to everyone else "I'm going to gather people together to look after my interests and mine alone and fuck everyone else because as long as I'm ok that's all that matters!" Let's expand the boundaries a bit: Do you give 2 shits about gay people who are persecuted and even killed in other countries, or is that unimportant because YOU have little in common with them?
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"I resent being lumped in with lesbians, diaper "babies", pedophiles, necrophiliacs, scat people, sado-masochists, people being hurt or humiliated, etc" Who in the name of all holy fuck are you convinced is lumping you in with any of these? Granted, I'll give you the "humiliated" one because you publicly humiliate yourself with almost every delusional word you write here. Who are these people in your life that make you feel so uncomfortable, and why are they still in your life? Are you really so paranoid and scared? Even if it's not paranoia and random people are judging you that way, why don't you do something about it and go form a group to... Oh wait, we covered that already!
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"I suppose the real issue is I don't like being regarded as being a fetish - as if I am mentally ill or whatever." Again, by who? Do you even know what a fetish is? I mean, if somebody does get gratification from someone presenting as mentally ill then I'd say they're onto a winner with you. In all honestly though, how many people have made advances towards you and said anything along the lines of "You seem deranged and unstable. Fancy a shag?"
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"If anybody is mentally ill, it is straight people who produce children that they cannot raise themselves, can't support financially, can't provide a happy life or a future, and leave them to rot in an already overpopulated world that is on the brink of a nuclear war." I just...I... but... I genuinely can't work out where to even start with this bullshit. The very first thing that springs to mind I won't say because it dives in to political territory and I don't want to open up that can of worms and send this thread off onto a tangent.
I do my best to refrain from commenting on most of your posts because my first reaction is usually to be a snarky bastard and I don't want to look like I'm targeting you unfairly, but sometimes you come out with something that really deserves to be challenged. I really do think you're an attention-seeking troll when I read threads like this.
Most of the time when you do comment on other threads it has absolutely nothing to do with the topic at hand. I remember one thread where someone was asking about a problem with their username, and you helpfully chimed in with a picture you claimed to have taken of Tom Cruise's condo building, harping on about a helipad on the roof. It feels like you've claimed to personally know more A-list celebrities than Jay Leno, and about as many top-ranked porn stars. Then there are all the posts where this happened or that happened. The first thing that comes into my head when I see them is "This one time, at Band Camp...." If your life is that interesting then why are you wasting it telling us all about it?
Most of the time when you bring up your eloquent "lumped in" feelings you'll create a new post and then just leave it hanging there like an eggy fart in a spacesuit, never returning to defend what you've said when everyone leaving comments disagrees. You just ignore it all, wait a few weeks and then create a new thread doing it all over again.
Then add in all the other recurring themes in your posts:
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This site should only have uploads that I personally like. I don't want straight, trans, bisexual or anything else to be available for anyone as it doesn't interest me.
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All men must undergo mandatory training on how to have anal sex and use anal sex toys
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To pay for college tuition men must either join the military or be forced into making gay porn for 4 years. (As I pointed out in another thread, this is specifically gay porn, regardless of orientation.)
There's more, but what's the point in mentioning it because you won't care. You're selfish, insular, lack empathy and appear to have no respect for anyone or anything that doesn't get you off.
You feel like you're being lumped in with other groups unfairly? The gays here aren't the ones doing it, so go forth into the streets and take your arguments to the people who apparently are. Just remember that while others might even fight the same fight, you'll be fighting on your own, because apparently most other people aren't worthy of being seen with you. Personally, if I'm excluded I'll wear it proudly as a badge of honour.