Posts made by brianboru72

On first reading, it may seem like Eridanos was being harsh. But if you take a second read, and really look at what he was saying- I think all the advice is there. It may be said in a harsh way, but sometimes when a person is wallowing in self pity- he needs a hard kick just to get him back on the right track.

Some might not respond too well to that kind of tough love, but really 35? That is not really old. And definitely not the age where you are panicking about whether you will be alone forever or not. What happens when you hit 40 and are alone? Or 50? Will you just feel your life is worthless because you don't have any significant other? You have friends, you have family you have your dog. There's a lot life has given you- focus on that first and not on what you lack.

My last bit- keep trying to find someone- but realize that life is what you make of it. You can be happy and single. Enjoy yourself, make yourself interesting, and you just may find the right person.

Seeing as how it's almost Halloween, I was suppsed to watch Hellbent, but then I got sidetracked.

Keith tells a complex and powerful coming of age story with excellent acting. I was so surprised with how well Jesse McCartney performed here. He proved he's not just a singer with a pretty face. Definitely recommended. 8.5/10

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Pietro Boselli is the poster boy for being blessed beyond all fairness- he's gorgeous, smart and oozing sex appeal.  :cheesy2:

He's got his own YouTube channel, and his workout video is hotter than some of the porn we have here! 
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Hm, I'd go with middle!

Pentatonix: Hallelujah

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Looking good! You have nice eyes.  Thanks for sharing your pics.

I agree with the droplet dribblers issue!  ??? It seems just sad and pathetic when the big cum shot is just a small trickle or a few drops.

My big peeve though is when they seem so listless and out of it- like they would rather be anywhere else. Or when there is clearly zero chemistry between the two or more actors and they can't even pretend that they are enjoying the act with their partner. 

:welcome: Good luck with fixing your ratio. As someone who has struggled before, it can be done.
In case you haven't claimed it yet, you can get 600 points after your first upload. Just look for the link and ask for it.
Also, you should grab some freeleech vids and seed them.

Woah! Really hot! Thanks for that, and more please!  ;D

Enrique Gil is hot- and word is he's really nice and personable too. 

@eastonkellan:

Kingsman: The Secret Service 2014

Just watched last night, the uncensored version of this, coz when this movie was shown in our country back in 2015, I didn't noticed that our Media board removed all jokes or gestures of sexual nature…..

I totally LOVED Kingsman! One of the best spy action/comedies to come out in a long while. :lovp:
I can't wait for the sequel to finally come out.

Pet Shop Boys: Together

comes complete with some crushable cute male dancers! 
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@eastonkellan:

Does the book better than the movie? I've watched Capital Games too, last year, and I agree, it sucks.

The book is definitely better than the movie. Sadly, the movie fails to capture the way GA Hauser builds the relationship in the book. You should also try her other books- The Kiss in particular is a good, fun read. Give her books a try. 

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I watched 2 films last night.

1. Liebmann (2016) 6/10
Like the English title, "The Strange Summer" its actually a strange film, not really conventional for gay themed. But I like the story and the editing and the ending its like I expected.

2. Capital Games (2013) 5/10.
This is what I called a bad gay themed movie. Badly written and badly directed, plus bad acting. I could've gave it below 5, but since it was adapted from a book, so it could've been just a bad story, because for me, story is the heart of film, if the story/writing is bad even a 3 times Oscar Leading actor winner couldn't make it any better.
Thank God we have it here Gay Erotica by G.A. Hauser (over 65 titles), so I'm gonna read and be back to the final judgement.

I really enjoyed Hauser's writing! So sexy!  :love: I hope they can do better adaptations. I think The Kiss would make a great mini-series! 

And the torrent is Freeleech now! Awesome!  :cheesy2:

@jazzmale29:

UPDATE: I had a conversation with Lee (the blind guy) today and the relationship has ended. I will be moving out as soon as I can find a place to live. I was an idiot and I guess you live, love and truly learn.

That's a good attitude to have. We all make mistakes but what's important is that we pick ourselves up, learn, and move forward. Best of luck to you in the future, and thanks for sharing your story. Now move on and find someone worthy of being in a relationship with you. 

Toad The Wet Sprocket: Fly From Heaven

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Let's say for a moment that there really isn't anything happening between them- that they're just close friends who've built a strong bond over 8 years. The fact remains that you're building a romantic relationship with him- and Lee has to decide where his priorities are. It's understandable that he has a certain amount of loyalty to his good friend- that speaks well of him in fact, but you need to have a long talk about boundaries and what he is willing to give up to be in a relationship with you.

Compromise is they key thing here. Yes he can be a good friend to William, but he also needs to give you priority since he's supposed to be trying to build a relationship with you. You aren't even asking to cut all ties (as tempting as that is).

In the end- we give priority to that which is closest and dearest to our heart. If Lee isn't willing to work with you and deal with your complaints, then he should just get into a relationship with William and you should move on as quickly as possible.

Aside from the good advice to get checked, the decision to stay together really depends on how badly he has been cheating on you and whether the 5 years you've spent together is worth giving him a second chance.
Only you can really say if he's worth forgiving- but in case you do, there are absolutely no 3rd or 4th chances. This is it.

I agree- if William comes back, then the solution is for you and Lee to share a room since you're in a relationship and he can take the second room.
From what you shared, it sounds like Lee is being a good friend and may be unaware of William's possible attraction and your own discomfort. You should definitely have a long talk to see how or if you can work things out with Lee. Can you still find a way to let them remain friends and not let it ruin what you have?
It's tough to ask your significant other to give up his friends, it's something you should only really do in extreme circumstances if there's no way to work around it and the friend is going to break your relationship.

Julia Harriman/Scott Hoying/Mario Jose: Blowin' In The Wind (cover)

still such a relevant song in these times
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