Posts made by boxingclever

initially, i preferred noises to words, but as time has gone on, i don't mind both. sometimes the choice of words can be a bit much …
why keep quiet? saying "ow" or swearing is proven to alleviate pain upon injury or stress, so i say express yourself during sex, it's more fun.

training can be fun, and you should definitely see what feels good. don't start with something big, take your time.

when you're getting fucked, the first five seconds is everything, so, ease onto it and don't let the guy get too carried away too quickly.

when you're going to douche, remember that you have to "evacuate the village before you flood it"; i do either or, tbh. plus, a balanced diet is preferable if you start to enjoy bottoming and adopt it as a preference.

apart from that, enjoy, and stay open minded!

getting fucked by a guy in one cubicle and then fucking another guy in the one next door.
and eating 8 loads in a day
i've had a few…

love to give, ambivalent about receiving. it's in his kiss…!

a creampie is when cum leaks out after being dumped into a bottom, not when it's shot onto a hole. fucking cum shot onto an asshole back into an asshole isn't a creampie either …

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yeh look, at this stage if someone asked me to give a ballpark figure, i'd probably say capacity.

vs, i have my moods tho

something gets me about pink nips, holes and dicks…

depends on the dude. i'm happy to start being monogamous if someone can satisfy my emotional and sexual needs, but i do feel like eventually i'll just stray. i'm not polyamorous, but i do see the value of being open.

something that it took me a long time to realise is that all sex is just practice for the next experience;  when i was 22, i was definitely overthinking things and either couldn't get hard or cum, even though i was really horny and wanted to.
take your time to find what works for you. you might feel like you'll lose the moment if you don't jump in, but those happen plenty enough in life

eugh.
i had a similar problem with my ex, and issues with things feeling balanced around cohabitating. my only suggestion is that you guys take the time to accommodate eachother; you both have things that you need to do as individuals – it's not that doing these things makes you care about eachother any less, but you can't have one or the other constantly over the shoulder (it results in irritation that could easily turn into an argument).
another part of it is handling those feelings when they come up; using language that is respectful to how much you care about the other person and accommodating rather than confrontational. try to manage outcomes from scenarios that come up, rather than letting your emotions get the best of you.

with my ex, we didn't live with eachother, but we did spend almost an equal amount of time at the others house (i.e. sleepovers, weekends). at one point he confronted me and said that it seemed like he was my only form of entertainment, because i was around so much and wanted to spend quality time; quality time happens when you have the time and the right circumstances to focus on it. it's not every moment of every day, that's why it's called quality time.
arguments will come up in any relationship and they can be healthy, but the trivial ones can lead dangerously into much bigger subjects.
hope that helps...!

ususally just get my dick out, but if i'm cruising/horny/feel like it the balls follow

the main issue with STD's and STI's is that shameful associations are placed on them; a cold is viewed the same way, but with less stigma because it's more common. if they didn't exist, we might have a healthier mainstream attitudes towards sex

cruising is a lot of fun. once i got fucked in one stall, only to get out of that one and fuck a guy in the next one over. not always rewarding, very much the luck of the draw, but if you love eating cum bathrooms are where its at.

i love getting pounded by a big dick, so 80% of the time yes

only if it's natural. hard line spray tan tanlines are tacky… depends on the line of the swimwear too...

i looked at bel ami dildos recently, and there's no way these guys are that big. they're hung, but the likenesses are totally exaggerated…

good communication means better sex. be considerate in your critique, but, if you're at a place in your association to deliver honesty, go for it. "sit still while i show you what i like", etc. i find that with sex, you lead by example; if he can keep saliva in his mouth while he's eating, he can definitely do it when he's making out.
then again, spit play can be fun too!

i'm hairy but not a gorilla. i trim, but going completely hairless would be an effort.
i like blondes and occasionally redheads. my preference is for guys with a bit of hair, but not like all over their back or too bushy in areas i'm gonna taste