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is there a term for when a guy spits in your mouth, and when you spit it back, or also having a lot of saliva exchanged while you're kissing/fucking?
one partner told me it could be considered "gob", but i feel like that's the term for verbal play. i've googled it but come up short of a descriptor.

i used to work in a department store, where the bathroom on a particular floor was a beat. between lunch and "bathroom" breaks, i might get sucked off twice or three times in a day. usually under the stall. sometimes i'd get fucked with my ass up under the stall divide, or jump into the same cubicle.
the best was when a guy i'd meet regularly would suck me off, around the same time of the same day, weekly. he was actually really hot and we fucked a few times when we met.

there were other days where i'd sit for a while, waiting for a guy to tap his foot, days when i was too eager, and days when i'd eat a load or three.
it was risky, and i had a feeling some people around me knew but didn't say anything. was fun while it lasted.

@spam17:

@espartano54:

If you do a blowjob with a Fisherman´s Friend in the mouth, your partner will be crazy. Garanteed.

;D

feels weird to me tho!

it depends on the kind of cock you're working with when it comes to sucking, and how the guy responds. usually you can gauge what to do, from what they guy does when he's jerking himself or you off. guys tend to also let you know when you're doing a good job too.

• foreskin: some guys prefer it pulled back, some guys can't pull it back. a gentle nibble can be exciting, and i generally try to get my tongue under it while sucking. even when a guy has been circumcised, some foreskin can remain, and generally it rolls back and forth while in action. when a guys foreskin is rigid, i try not to fight that. if a guy has full flexibility in it, the task is easy; rolling the foreskin back and forth while sucking can be great as it follows the fluid and natural motion of the body anyway. when the foreskin is covering the head, that can be an opportunity to suck on that a bit, licking the head through the hole, and a playful nibble or pull.
• the head, or corona, can vary in sensitivity and sometimes because of circumcision. it's usually the main point of focus for me. i rub this against the roof of my mouth, while my tongue brushes the rest of the head. some cut guys are as sensitive as guys without a foreskin. the throat gets tighter, the further you go down, and guys generally like the immersed feeling of being deepthroated; this plays into more dominant guys throat fucking, whereby they encourage gagging and increased saliva. personally, it depends on the circumstances; i'll only gag willingly if everything's going alright.
• balls are like nipples; they're either there and fine to remain untouched, or illicit a pleasure response. a firm grope and licking can be favourable. sucking on each individual ball, or both, and grabbing around the thinnest point of the scrotum can heighten pleasure, especially while the shaft is in action.
• the inside of the cheek is soft and velvety, as is the tongue. stubble and lips offer great textures too. when my mouth/jaw gets tired, i use my hands and tongue or lips.
• applying firm pressure to the perineum, the spot between the balls and the asshole, can stimulate the g spot without insertion. some guys are more responsive than others.

basically, starting off in parts you like, such as the corona and balls, then giving the shaft and corona a good work out is my usual method. your performance relies on the experience, kind of guy, at the end of things. spitting and swallowing is at your discretion. ironically, swallowing is less risky than spitting; having a guy cum in your mouth and then spitting it out is double handling it, ingesting a load breaks it down in the body, whereas certain elements can remain active in the mouth after spitting.
physically sucking on a dick is something i like to do, but i only really started doing it because i thought that's how a blowjob works; sucking provides pressure/suction, but you can just as easily have your lips tight around the shaft and not suck, relying on the mentioned textures.
some guys love a sloppy bj, while others prefer it's not dribbling onto their balls; saliva is part of sex, the wetter the better for me.

rimming on the other hand is less complicated, as there are less parts to consider.
giving the cheeks a good grab, a playful slap and blowing a little air or spitting on the hole can be a nice start
i like to bite a guys cheeks, and work my way in. guys seem to be very responsive to me rubbing my chin (with stubble) against their hole (up/down, around). i also like to lick around the hole, until i get it open, whereby then i lick both the lip/interior. circular motions are good. if you can picture a pet lapping up water with their tongue, try that but also while moving your head back and forth in time with the motion of your tongue hitting the spot.
rimming can loosen a guy up and have him begging for your dick. as you get the guy looser, you can try inserting a finger, starting shallow and slow. i usually initiate that by placing the tip of a finger on the hole and apply pressure, moving in circular motions. we have two sphincters; the outer one will loosen while you're eating, the inner one will loosen as your finger gets deeper, or with assplay – it's the one that feels tight when having insertive sex.
a guys prostate is also only 3 inches deep, and you can have a lot of fun finding it.

whether you're fucking, rimming or sucking, pay attention to the guy you're pleasing, especially his breathing. the rate of breath can indicate your speed/rhythm. slow means work your way up or stay slow. short and shallow means keep doing what you're doing until i moan.

have fun!

i've been to quite a few, and more recently cruise clubs, but not often lately. sauna's are lots of fun, but not if you go too often (which i have); there was a stage when i'd go once or twice a week. these days i cruise, and probably two to three times a week.

the most popular sauna in Sydney is in need of a renovation. the newest isn't popular enough because it's too new. the biggest and most equipped has a particular clientele. one of the oldest saunas in Sydney was a bit far, but just right. it's all pot luck, and it depends what you're going for. i've had days when i felt like i'd wasted time and money, others when i'd hit the jackpot.
lately i like cruising for the variety, and that anyone could walk through the door; money doesn't play into it, it's just a matter of right time/right place. friends of mine (and i) have enjoyed saunas for the amenities, and controlled environment. it's all still very choose-your-own-adventure.

three or four. couples are fun, and i was once DP'ed by a friend & my ex. i'm not a big fan of organised orgies; it's better if you stumble into something fun at a sauna or cruising.

7.5 thick, uc

a lot. the best in a day was 7 loads while cruising.

sydney: la perouse/little congwong, obelisk

for me, right now, it's a nay: i've been at it a while, and though it's a convenient introduction, the most common result or drawcard of 'online dating' seems to be casual sex – which can be great fun, but my slutty phase is winding down.
i've had dating profiles for almost a decade, of varying descriptions (initially it was innocent: okcupid & gaydar), but more recently it was more on the sexy side (dudesnude & squirt). i've used grindr for about 5 or six years, too. almost all of my profiles are deleted at the moment. meanwhile, it's pride week. gonna see how i go without!