Posts made by Blastfurnace

A shower does not magically clean the area between the buttocks. Stick your finger in there after he supposedly showered to clean that area and smell the result.

I consider it a physiological need and as such I don't spend much time on it. A habit should be useful and productive, not counterproductive and time consuming.

You should be proud of yourself that you only had four guys. It's not wise to sleep around, not when there is still such a high risk of contracting various venereal diseases. And don't let anyone tell you otherwise either.

The less guys you sleep with, the better.

Boxer briefs personally, because I won't have to adjust anything in that area due to them being so snug fitting. There won't be any 'accidental peekage' incidents either.

But I can understand the appeal of loose boxers. Some guys have just the right penis form to pull it off. Everything hangs perfectly in those loose boxers.

100 gb, but I hardly ever watch the videos again.

@Kekkaishi:

would you not have sex with a person whom you find attractive but belongs to a race / nation / culture you disapprove of due to political views or stereotype or any other reason?

I don't find Asians, South Asians, blacks, hispanics, Arabs, North Africans, etc. to be sexually attractive on a personal level, meaning there is no conflict over political views or stereotypes.

For some in the West this might go against PC dogma and other hysterical notions of 'equality', but I don't really consider it an issue. Otherwise I would be dating women to conform to the established societal notions of propriety.

And my personal preference isn't unique either. Many Asians prefer only Asians, many South Asians only prefer South Asians, many Blacks only prefer Blacks, many North Africans only prefer North Africans, etc.

Only in the West you're supposed to find everyone sexually attractive. Well guess what, the real world doesn't work that way.

Rimming can never be done hygienically, because the bacteria there aren't easily removed. Heavy soap use damages the anus as well. And the smell can never really be removed.

More often than not you'll get sick from rimming

Anyway, practically in all the porn movies/videos you see them rimming. But what they don't show you is how the porn actor needs to modify his diet and undergo a rigorous cleaning regimen before he gets down to business.

Rimming is just one of those unrealistic porn fantasies that you should mostly ignore.

As a general rule I prefer porn that shows 'authentic' intimacy or where one of the guys knows how to talk. But it's pretty difficult finding such videos.

As for the guys involved: mature, hairy, beefcake guys usually do the trick.

BDSM videos also often tend to feature guys communicating with each other. A bigger guy dominating another one usually requires some verbal command or the other. This for some reason does it for me.

All the other stuff is basically silent movie fucking with the occasional groan thrown in.

Videos with real chemistry between the two guys is also great.

This thread is hilarious.

What does it even have to do with homosexuality? You're gay because you like guys. You're not gay because you like animals.

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What is 'rough' and what is 'gentle'? Don't guys typically go 'harder' when they're approaching their climax? Anyway, gentle can be rough, and rough can be gentle.

Gentle, slow fucking is torture for some, while rough, fast fucking takes the edge off for an otherwise excruciatingly intense slow fuck.

Asian, black, hispanic, Arab – does nothing for me. I only prefer Caucasian guys.

Spent two months sleeping naked just to see what it felt like. Afterwards you feels like you're slightly more comfortable in your own body.

I did it during the winter by the way. I got a cold after the first month.  ;D But then I kept leaving all my clothes at the other side of the room, forcing me to leave the bed naked in the morning.

Another little self-test.

The cold and me are now close buddies. 

Depends on the type of porn.

If he keeps watching fisting videos, while anal sex is already problematic for you, there is probably going to be an issue in the near/distant future.

Also, most porn is unrealistic and doesn't really contribute to a healthy outlook on sex. But on the other hand, it does give the other guy new ideas, which might be fun.

Don't like clubs either and the local gyms aren't really for socializing. Mostly because they're all incredibly crowded and it's not even worth the effort to show up, as you will hardly get to use any of the equipment anyway. There are waiting lines for the thread mill.  ;D They're also too expensive. haha

And the only 'gay club' in my area is a bar with transvestites, pink disco lighting and those creepy Hawaian flower strings (whatever they're called).

I'm sure that they must enjoy themselves, but I'm more of a low-key guy. 

Anyway, thanks for the replies.

Bareback in relationships is one of the leading causes of HIV infection, because people don't expect the other to cheat. Guess what, they do.

Steroid use doesn't correlate with larger loads. What you're referring to is injections of semen-like fluids into the penis or one of the storage areas before ejaculation.

Porn is as fake as you get.

Look it up. I'm not even kidding. Only a rare guy in the porn scene will have naturally such large loads. Others use injections.

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Also, when you get aroused you start to produce Cowper's fluid (pre-cum). Your prostate produces it. The more aroused you get, the more fluid you produce. The longer you play around with yourself, the more fluid you produce. This fluid is mixed with your semen and produces the 'seminal fluid'.

Ergo the more aroused you get, the more you shoot.

Similarly, the more aroused you get, the farther you shoot, because your muscle contractions are more intense.

Eat lots of fruit and find out. Melon comes to mind.

Leather looks creepy and seventies/eighties. Never appealed to me and never going to either. I associate it with AIDS, Tarantino depravity and gay murders for some reason or the other.

I can sometimes tolerate it in porn vids, but once there are also earrings involved, it's like: 'nope'.

Will gay guys automatically assume you're interested in them if you just want to hang out? My cynical experience tells me: yes, they will automatically assume that you secretly want to fuck them. But on the other hand, I've seen documentaries and stories where gay guys simply hang out.

So where do you meet these guys?

Many things look good in porn movies e.g. rimming and spitting in mouths. Doesn't mean you should do it. The one makes you ill, whereas the other is unnecessary, as kissing feels much nicer.